I have been in my steel cage now for 1 month solid no removal for anything. My KH for the first time in three years of play has not said anything about a time line. This is all new ground for me normally it would come off just to give the area a break on usually weekly for a couple hours to days. With this change I have went thru the whole super horny stage and the crazy constant erections. But can I have some advice for what will maybe go on over the next month in the cage. Thank you all love this site so much.
I think everyone is different. For me the frustration builds until about 6 weeks when I start to focus more on her orgasm than potentially mine. Still huge waves of frustration after but immense satisfaction when I can please her or at least be close. No matter what it is for you, enjoy the ride. Let her know what works and watch her grow. So addictive.
well cos you been in your cage for a month it really is the same now and it dont change a lot but it migt be difrent for you cos i dont know what happen before you was lock up. i hope you ok tho.
For me, it’s not like I get any more horny or frustrated…at some point I plateau. At that point life and normalcy happen, you can’t stay at that level indefinitely. However, when horny and desperate times arrive, the journey is very fast. The trip is almost instantaneous. One minute we are watching tv, the next I’m staring at her feet and desperate to touch and taste them. One minute I’m doing the dishes, the next minute I see her key hanging there on her chest and want to grab it and rub myself anywhere on her enough to get off. The destination is the same, desperate, horny, frustrated, needy, willing to do anything…it’s just that after long periods, the ride is very short. 0 to 60 in a second. Then right back on simmer. Like water that’s almost boiling, just the slightest rise in heat and it’s boiling.
I can understand. I recently went from "For the next few weeks" to "Maybe never." in terms of any end date. It's quite a change. When will my chastity end? Well, maybe never. My next orgasm? Possibly there won't be one. Etc.
Once you go past one month, it changes for both of you from being kink to being lifestyle, or just "normal". You'll also find that when you are unlocked, whatever your other feelings, you'll have a deep desire to get locked back up again. When it happens, just do it. Keep the "normal".
@beta_sissy I think my life is somewhat parallel to yours right now. I am noticing somethings I have not experienced before. MANY members here have reported the same, so it's not new, BUT it's new for me and a very different set of feelings coming over me. 1. Not only are night-time erections subsiding to almost zero, so are daytime erections from stimulation. I doubt the effect is permanent, but I can feel the ability to get erect waning. 2. The propensity towards premature ejaculation is rising....a lot. Despite not being hard, I am dripping a lot of precum and have ALMOST cum a few times without any direct stimulation. 3. I am coming to realize that consistent, long-term wear of my chastity device will render me unable to have intercourse because of softer/lack of erectile ability and premature ejaculation. I have been DENIED intercourse for a few years now. But I think very soon the denial will be moot.
I have followed the same 3 steps. Especially enjoying #3. I will also add the return of Wet Dreams. Humiliating and a relief all at the same time but no real pleasure.
At this point I would eagerly welcome a wet dream. I've only had one in my life. But I am clearly in new territory now. Does your wife "count" the wet dream as a release of some sort?
My last one was at 6 months in chastity. No release No cum. Didnt tell her I hope to have another in the next 6 months. They have become strangley enjoyable.
I'm only really "free" when Princess is around. And even then if I'm mouthy or have poor behavior I just stay locked. The longest so far she has kept me locked is 1 month. I could go longer but it isn't up to me. I simply carry her property around.
I think that is the best analogy I have ever heard! "Like water that’s almost boiling, just the slightest rise in heat and it’s boiling" Love it and OH SO RIGHT!
I have experienced similar. I describe my arousal as spikey in that one minute I am not aroused at all and then if she does or says something, or I have an errant sexual thought, then BOOM I am super horny.