Hi all, I am quite new to all this. My husband brought this up to me and we just started playing a couple days ago. So far, it has really improved our marriage and our intimacy, and we would like to continue long term. My question is, is this harmful at all? He can't help but get hard while in the cage, and it looks very uncomfortable (i get thats the point, lol) and I am worried that it could cause long term damage or infertility. We would like to try for another child at some point and I want to make sure this lifestyle isn't going to damage that possibility. Also, any recommendations on devices? The one he is currently wearing is comfortable when not erect, but he is a grower and it looks like he is bulging out and his balls look like they're going to explode when he's erect. He says he's not in pain though. And for reference, he can slip out of 50mm ring, so he is using 45mm, which i am concerned may be too tight when erect. Any thought are appreciated! Thanks!
I am a grower too....and what i have found is that the body learns that it hurts to get erect and over time ...i have had fewer erections "while in chastity."
Sadly, there isn't a lot of medical research (any?) on the subject, so any answers would be based on anecdotal rather than scientific evidence. That being said, there is no reason I can think of as to why chastity would impact fertility as that is the product of semen which isn't related to the penis and as you've noted, your husband can and does still get hard, so he won't lose the ability to get an erection. As for device recommendations, there aren't any that will be comfortable while erect and secure while not erect. If he's not in pain while erect while caged, there isn't really any risk of long term injury unless you give him an ED drug and keep him hard for hours and hours and hours.
Here is my theory... Damage can be done if one is wearing rings that are too tight and circulation is cut of. But I believe that would be obvious quickly. Other thing is that body is controling the heat inside the sack by pushing it away or pulling it closer to the body. Chastity rings are somehow preventing this, so in a way balls can't be pulled too close to heat up. This is somehow the opposite of a theory that too tight jeans make men infertile as balls are always too close to the body and that way always too hot. And heat kills sperm. To sum that up... A lot of theory. No real answers. My personal observation is that chastity doesn't affect quality of a sperm so much one would become infertile. We played with chastity for years. I was locked for long periods, and still we got 2 perfectly healthy children.
Everybody haso to play it by ear and pay attention to their bodies. If the cage is proper fitting and not to tight there shouldn’t be any issues. General rule of thumb is that you can fit a finger between the base ring and your body that’s enough room to allow everything to flow as it should. Biggest things to look out for are the penis and tescicles turning a different color when not erect. You'll expect to see the balls change color if you get hard in the cage as it temporarily restricts everything but as the erection goes away normal color will return. Also there’s a medical condition and I don’t remember what it’s called but if you go for prolonged lock ups the sperm can build up and you can start leaking. Most of the time the leaking will just exit the penis as more semen build up but in some cases the sperm will actually push back into the bladder and sometimes when you pee you'll see a lot of semen in the urine. This isn’t dangerous from what I’ve read but I also read that if that sphincter muscle for you me bladder becomes to weak that when an orgasm happens it can push most of the sperm back into the bladder instead of exiting the penis. This won’t hurt anything but can make trying to get pregnant harder for the couple. If this does happen it can be corrected by surgery. I have the semen in my urine on occasion but only after a couple to a few weeks of lockup. As unlucky said there’s no real medical research as of yet but enough people do this for years with no adverse effects so just keep an on things and be smart about what looks okay and what doesn’t. Most important is to be safe and have fun
Welcome and congratulations! With a proper fitted device he won’t get erections in the first place. It will somewhat swell, but with no where to go it will quickly subside unless sexually stimulated. Actually I have found most of my “injuries” were not near the cage but under the ring where the constant pulling from erection attempts left it raw. In the heat of the moment I hardly felt it, but after it would burn. Don’t worry about him too much, if it’s something concerning, he will be the first one to say something. Just communicate with him about his cage and if it fits well. It’s no easy task getting a cage perfect for long term wear. 50mm is a pretty big ring, most people start with that one, then realize that it gives too much room for it to slide down(erection behind the ring) ouch. I have no medical science to back this up, but think it would be perfect for conception. 1, swimmers don’t get too hot(can’t retract). 2. No wasting swimmers when not ready. 3. Due to constant arousal, more swimmers. Hope that gives some relief, if he needs cage advice, feel free to message me.
He's wearing a 45mm now, but the cage itself is too short, so we are looking around as it still ends up pretty far out from his body. He did try one longer one, but it was uncomfortable to lay down with and he would like to keep it on overnight. We would love some recommendations if you have any.
Mrs. B and I are in the early stages of baby making. We went to her fertility specialist to get the ball rolling and she is scheduled for multiple tests. I'm also scheduled for a semen analysis on the 2nd. I was told to refrain from any ejaculation for at least 48 hours prior (lol, that wont be a problem.) But I also asked about frequency and if that affects fertility. He said that sperm mature after three days and that's when a man's swimmers are most healthiest. If ejaculation is prolonged then most of the sperm will die, after a while the body will naturally rid itself via wet dream. He said that while it will be impossible to time, keeping a fresh supply every 3 days keeps everything in working order. Mrs. B wants a baby so she has said when we get the all clear to start.....er.....coitus, I'll be given supervised releases every few days. She wants top notch soldiers!!!!
Long term? No. However, lack of ejaculation over multiple days will weaken sperm and lower the chance of conception.
We've been in the hospital procedure when we wanted to get pregnant in the past. The body itself will get rid of sperm when denied longer periods... but the quality will also be less... Like jb123 said... the quality is optimal around 2 - 3 days... so when you're up to the point of trying to get pregnant... you should keep in mind that when he has a release once per 2 a 3 days his sperm quality will start to get optimal again... and for sure this could be implemented in fun games ;-) ...
**update** Had to give a sperm sample today. Cage free for three days and no cumming as well meant I was in and out in 10 minutes.
Evidence? I’ve been in chastity for over a year. I get release on occasion. Maybe 2 or three times a month. Maybe less some months if at all. My owner is 7 months pregnant.
Thank you for information . I am on day one of my first 14 day lock down . Now I will know what is happening if I see semem in my urine .