How often-need advice

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My cock is 4.7 (12cm). Age 34. My keyholder/wife want to know, how often may I cum per year?

  1. 2 and more

    33.3%
  2. 1-2

    15.2%
  3. 1 ruin

    12.1%
  4. Never

    39.4%
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    #1 mitusha1, Oct 11, 2019
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    Hi everyone! It's my first post. I am 34 years. My keyholder is my lovely wife. We use chastity for about 10 years. But the last 2 years it is permanently. My last cum was in 02 June 2019.
     
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    Honestly, that's up to the pair of you. However, if you're just starting and your most generous offer is "two or more" you may want to think about taking it more steadily. There's no need to rush straight into "never again" mode. At first, it's good to concentrate on the woman being in control. So it happens when she says it happens. Often, our female members tell us they are nervous initially about being too strict, so she needs to build up to it just as much as you.

    Good luck to you both
     
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    we used these 2 tables. but the wife said she believes in the one where it is written 0 times. Now I am afraid that she is serious about total ban ...
     

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    Hello and welcome

    What is the longest you have gone without an O?
     
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    I see we have the fantasists sitting at 50%
     
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    Thanks

    The record is 150 days
     
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    I would say try 1 year and then permanent; or try and go permanent now.
     
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    I envy your position with your wife. She seems so in control and decisive. I do think you should cum several times a year but you should def have to earn it. I always find that having just a taste of sexual release makes me much more submissive and desiring to earn my key holders appreciation, so that I may experience it again. Taking control of your cock gives her more power but if you know you will never cum again, much of that advantage is lost. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I am not sure what the length of penis has to do with orgasms allowed. Is it the premise that because it is so small that you don’t deserve to ejaculate? I’m not sure about your kh, but my wife gives me o’s because she loves me and wants to see me happy, which isn’t conditional to my size.

    If it has to do with if it’s worth it to her to let you inside her, I guess that would depend on her. From experience, her letting me inside isn’t doing much for her, but she still does it because she loves the intimacy, it’s quick, and she gets to give me a great deal of pleasure with very little effort. It’s not like she has to spend the night working up to some grand entrance, she can flip a switch in her mind and say ok, and before she knows it, I’m in happy town.
     
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    i put never but i dont really mean it really cos it up to your wife what happen to you.
     
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    Your situation is different from mine in that I cannot earn a release. In fact, trying to earn a release by somehow trying to improve my behaviour more than I'm already trying would only encourage my Wife not to release me.

    It would be interesting to know mitusha1's perspective on this.
     
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    On the one hand, I agree that there should be hope for an orgasm. At least to the ruins. But that the exact date was not known. On the other hand, I know for myself that after one orgasm I want more and more and the worst thing is that the desire to serve disappears ...
     
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    and if you gotta serve and that then it better that you dont have none really and then its nicer to serve.
     
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    Whatever maximizes your frustration. I find I get used to not having an orgasm. When she reminds me what a big full orgasm is like, or her pussy, or oral (now rare), then it makes my submission to denial and her ownership of my pleasure that much more powerful and intense.

    We don’t have schedules. She decides based on her mood and my reaction.



    PostScript:
    Congratulations to the both of you.

    We’ve only been doing chastity for 5 years, and my wife decided her control should be complete and never ending in 2018. “no, not indefinite... forever” were her words. Indefinite was the line we crossed in 2017. And she came to the conclusion after a full year of masturbation and orgasm control that I should think about “long term”, not just another year.

    When I think how much she’s embraced all this, and slowly got us to this point, I throb in my cage and my heart races.

    I hope you and yours enjoy your forever together. :)
     
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    Hi and welcome to the mansion! My madam would say never!
     
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    My dear friend LesterBallard, you say "that's up to the pair of you" when referring to how many orgasms should be allowed! Now I think you may be living dangerously here and risking the wrath of our delightful female Keyholders! I think you will find that as far as they would be concerned, only they decide on the number of orgasms if any are permitted at all that is, would be allowed! I'm sure though that they will realise it was an innocent mistake and will probably let it pass! :):):)
     
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