Hot things your KH have said to you?

The warm water bath works well (I use @Tom Allen’s trick of using a wide mouth thermos). My problem is that she only wants the faux cock around once every 4 or 5 times we play, and it seems almost manipulative for me to warm it up in advance every time knowing that usually she won’t want it. And when she announces it’s time to strap on, it’s too late to warm it

 

Was it manipulative to carry a condom when you were younger just in case the moment arised? Or was it well prepared?
Get the point though. I’ve just reverted to saying, “will you want the dildo?”
If she says no… I know to leave it in the drawer.

 

It was approaching the works Christmas evening party. I asked my partner what to wear.
I was informed that there was a selection on the bed
Upstairs 3 different jackets / shirts but pride of place, A chastity device.
So duly put on. I ensured that nobody sat on my knee during the party on Monday evening.
I think one female co-worker already suspects.

 

First work trip in a while (3 days, plane flight) turned out to be the first work trip where I was required to be locked up.

We don’t do cages through security and all that but the day before I left she looked me in the eye in the kitchen:

Her: I will unlock you in the morning before you leave. You’ll go through security and you may get to your hotel then you’ll lock yourself back up and you’ll send me a photo as proof. You will remain locked the rest of the time until you leave for the airport. When you get home, I will lock you back up again. Do you understand my instructions?

Me: Yes ma’am

Her: Good, now finish making me dinner.

She later explained that she didn’t make me lock back up in the airport so that I could use the airport or plane bathroom standing up.

 

"lets get you done"
A full year caged, just 4 in cage releases,in that time, and no free erection
Its my birthday, and my penis bobs free, and I so, so want to touch it
But Im bound, and gagged, and "lets get you done" is apparently just another thing to do today

"Hop to it"
I hop to the fleshlight mounted, ready for me
Coldly, no conversation she applies a condom, barely touching me.
God, to just stroke it
I am turning 61, so I have 61 seconds to have my true orgasm

I last about 5
"You need a better gag, you are still too noisy"
I am released from my bonds
I know I cannot even think about touching my dwindling erection
"Get rid of that disgusting mess, and lock back up"

So I do
Happy birthday to me, a year erection free, and then this

"Its too much trouble unlocking you, I think we will keep him in there for good"

 

We cuddled in bed this morning after the alarm went off with the cage being the only body covering on either of us. We were in each other's arms hugging and lightly caressing. She soon pushed me over onto my back and slightly onto my other side. "I want you in position so I can torture you easily." And this she did.

 

What makes you think she suspects and why?

 

Once more in the local pub, having some great chastity chat...
We were having a serious discussion regarding our first full drop after my birthday orgasm (first in 3 months, see @Sazz journal for full details).
KH: if it was up to me you would never have a full orgasm again.

*Dawning realisation*

*Sly smile*

KH: hang on, it is up to me!

 

So wife said to me have you taken the cage off with the emergency key, I reply no why would I do that.
PWell i didnt hear any noise when you got out of bed.
Oh I said I secured the lock to cage to stop it rattling.
Well she says unsecure it, I like to hear the lock knock against cage when you walk.......p

 

I bought her a naughty Christmas present... which she opened early... a lifelike large black dildo complete with a set of balls. She was very amused.

Fingers wrapped around it she smiled at me and asked "Do you feel intimidated?"

 

Would that I could! Multi-Max, what an image! Does give me something to work towards...

 

"I like making you whimper."

 

Not only your cock- but your balls and your ejaculation!

 

I've gone straight through both my birthday (months ago) and Christmas without being unlocked.

That's not happened before, and over the past few weeks, my wife has a number of times casually mentioned the phrases 'breaking the record' and 'could be years or decades' in the same sentences...

 

We are only 3 months into our chastity journey, but it's like a gift that keeps giving.
We have developed a mild FLR/FLM dynamic, and my previously meek, sweet wife has become far more confident, and increasingly more assertive.
At a family dinner party over Xmas when the host offered my another drink:

KH: no, he's had enough.
Me: I'm fine honey, I can have another drink.
KH: no, you've had ENOUGH.

Pre-chastity I would have had that extra drink, and probably more just to prove a point. But I've come to realise that by accepting a FLM, I have to accept her decisions in everyday life, not just the bedroom. I can't pick and choose when to obey.

When dissecting the events a few days later:

KH: you need to solely focus on keeping me happy, in return I will take care of our relationship.

And also:

KH: you are still allowed to voice your opinions, wether they will alter my final decision however is doubtful.

 

Comments this morning during some cuddling in bed, after she made me use the strap-on to have sex the night before.

Her: That was some great fucking last night, I came hard several times (it was 4 to be exact)…but it wasn’t on your cock, was it?

Me: No, because you keep mine locked up.

Her: That’s right. All the cocks in this house belong to me so I decide which to use and which to lock up.

Me: Yes, ma’am

 

‘Let’s feed you his used condom.’

 

We'd left in a rush to get away for the holidays. I'd grabbed some things last minute and put them in my coat pocket. We were walking down the street and I tried to get something out of my packed pocket when two condoms fell out, genuinely by accident.

She laughed out loud and said "I don't know why you brought those. We definitely don't be needing them. Just please tell me you remembered the vibrator."

 

We were discussing some troubles at work this morning and I let slip a swear word. My wife really hates swearing and she immediately said "That'll be a pound in the swear jar".
I do swear occaisionally at home every now and then but we don't actually have a swear jar, and I've never paid her a pound. She had joked the last time I swore about instead of taking a pound, of giving me a stroke with the little play riding crop I bought her. This time she stopped and in a moment of realisation, mentioned it again, then reached out for the crop which just happened to be a couple of steps away from where we were.
She was always just playful before but this time she really whacked me with it a couple of times on my side, it's the first time that thing actually hurt. Then, obviously having enjoyed it, with a big grin she said:
"You know you said this thing doesn't really hurt?
Well, I think I should get a proper one, maybe a leather one with bits on the end!"

 

After realizing the key to my cage was on Her key ring which She gave to the valet at a hotel Goddess said “He was hot. Go get it and tell him why you need it.”

 

It's my birthday soon, you've inspired me.

 

There's something about her whispering in my ear that is a huge turn on for me. She gets all breathy, hot breath blowing into me between nibbles and whispers. I get shivers all down my spine.

This morning as we lay in bed she pressed her lips against my ear and whispered between kisses "You can't cum... you can't fuck me... you MUST obey me....... now get to work."

I'm in the middle of interior re-painting part of the house, she wants to change the colour, no lay in for me this morning, sigh.

 

A few days ago my Wife told me all of our other denial sessions were just practice for this one and, in Her words, this one is going to be "special".

 

“I actually enjoy spanking and paddling you”

 

Lady Kat was leaning over the couch looking outside at the snow falling. Me never missing a chance like that, walked up behind her and grabbed her hips. She looked back at me
" you are in the wrong position slut "
Later on today, i was leaning over the couch and looking outside. She came up behind me, grabbing my hips and thrusting into me. With a handful of hair she pulled back & pushed forward my head.
" is this what you wanted to do earlier? You dont have what it takes to do this "