Hello, I have been meaning to do this for a couple of weeks. I am a 51 straight male and am pretty new to chastity and have only been doing it for about 6 months. It is pretty funny how I got into chastity. About a year ago, my fiance made a joke that if I didn't behave she would lock me up. At that time I knew pretty much nothing about chastity and told her that it would never happen. Well the fact that she mentioned chastity got me intrigued and I began to research it. A few months later I ordered a CB6000 to surprise her as a way to keep us connected over long distance. I don't consider myself to be submissive. I am more dominant and have a problem with authority. I hate people telling me what to do. I like to be in control. I understand that this is a bit of a paradox since chastity is a submissive act. I have tried both the CB6000 and CB6000s which i hate because of all the comfort issues which has prevented me from wearing it for more than 2 weeks at a time. I just got a mature metal jailbird today which is hands down so much better. There is absolutely no comparison at all. It really is amazing the difference a custom fit device makes. We will see where it goes from here.
I hope you like the jailbird; ive had one for a year and love it but it is very confining. i can scarcely throb in the stubby device. My preferred device is the slightly larger steelworxx steelherart2. No escape, which is my preference.
It took me a long time to decide on the measurements. It fits perfectly and is not confining at all. I could never wear a stubby. I am more of a shower than a grower which I guess makes it easier.
It's quite common for people who are dominant in most areas of their lives to be submissive in the bedroom. For example, being the boss at work, in charge of things all the time can be stressful and tiring, and it's quite an opportunity to unwind and "let go" to submit to your partner at home.