Have you trained your cock to not have nocturnal erections in a cage?

My wife let me sleep cage free last night (after she ruined me ) . First time in almost two weeks. Worst night of sleep! I woke up every two hours with a raging erection.

I've got so used to the cage, it feels weird to sleep without it.

 

I have been on hormones and the Cyproterone Acetate (T blocker) has lowered my testosterone levels wonderfully. Also i have been locked for so long that i think i have forgotten how to get an erection.

 

I had to change my vote ever since mistress said this cage will never come off erection for the last two nights have been waking me several times a night.

 

For myself the first 2 days made me wake up with erections you just have to get past it your pp will soon understand getting hard is wrong

 

i no longer get nocturnal erections. I sometimes get a bit puffy if I'm really turned on.
I have no idea if they will come back when I am unlocked.
I actually miss erections more than orgasms.

 

Good god no.

They won’t go away. They just remind me of the beautiful, soft, warm, available woman laying next to me. Who controls such activity.

 

This is not controllable i think. If everything i fine working down there.

I have always erections, aometimes they hurt in the morning. For my wofe it doesnt matter if it gets limp or i get impaired. So no stress about it.

 

The study is a bit dated but it states:

"In contrast to men in the younger age groups, the majority of men above age 60 did not have full sleep erections even though they and their partners reported regular intercourse."

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3418036/

I doubt it is a matter of "training" but rather primarily aging, health issues, and medications taken. It seems the majority of men active on this forum are in their 50s, so they are in the gray area. ;-)

If you no longer have firm erections at night, wearing a cage at night is less likely to be a problem.

I generally don't get erections during the day, even when looking at porn, but have 3-4 erections a night. I also experience sleep apnea, so can't wear a cage 24/7 like I would prefer. I'm caged two nights a week, in a row.

 

I have always had painful nocturnal erections, with or without chastity. Not just once or twice, but usually 3-5 times a night. Sometimes, urinating helps, other times, it makes no difference.

I'm hoping that long term chastity, now that I've got something I can wear comfortably, will help with this.

Barring that, I'm going to look into androgen suppressors.

 

I've recently downsized to a 45mm base ring and using an elasticated strap to stop the cage tugging. It's still waking me though. Hoping the erections stop or at least my brain registers the fact that my balls aren't about to drop off and lets me sleep through.

 

You downsized to 4.5 cm. Damn! I think about to downsize to 3.8 cm because the 4 cm dont fit so good anymore.

What do you mean with the strap?

 

Same, when I’m caged it turns out that I just miss being able to grip my hard cock and I don’t even care about the orgasm.
I ask Mistress almost every day if we “can let the old boy out for a stretch”
Almost every time she says NO.
I love that about Her

 

One of these that threads under the base ring and around your waist. Keeps the cage snug against your body. I bought it for nighttime to stop erection attempts tugging at my balls as it basically anchors the cage. I've taken to wearing it during the day too, limits cage shift/movement (and therefore any potential chafing) and just feels generally good to have on.

 

The cage you wear is the primary factor in whether you do or do not get hard in your cage at night.

Started out with a jailbird that had a little room in it. I had painful night erections every night. Tried a micro cage that had no room. Slept right through the night and didn’t wake up with my cage strangling my balls.

I then got pierced and wore a cheap cage that had room to let piercing move a bit without directly pressing on the cage. Night time erections were back.

Now I have a piercing prong that is part of the cage. This was a tighter fit like the jailbird, but with the prong going through, it was held in place and no place to expand. No night time erections. It probably does the same thing it does during the day when horny…plumps up a little then immediately returns when the blood has no where to go.

I do not think anything is “trained”, the cage simply doesn’t allow for it. It’s probably more of a science question on why the blood returns when erection doesn’t happen.

 

This absolutely is not the case with me. My cage is quite small, there is no room, I get erections that start under the cage, and force everything up and away. I use a strap to hold the base in place, yet my head tries to force itself out of all of the holes in the end of the cage, and that is the most painful part that wakes me up at night. I don't even feel this thing during the day at all... Yet, at night, I either still get extremely painful erections, or I go inverted and fall out of it (without a tether). I used an insert that was about 1/4" longer than the base ring, and I still wound up pulling entirely past the insert...

 

Once I downsized to a 1.75” MCN Amicus, I rarely get nocturnal erections. When my Queen allows me to sleep cage free on a Friday or Saturday night, it’ll wake me up once or twice with wonderfully hard erections.
The strange thing to me, is when he’s free and I try to get him hard, even on daily Cialis, it’s 50/50….unless I give my Wife some attention. At that point he springs to attention lol, so apparently my mind and my smaller brain are trained, no pleasure till the KH is getting pleasure! Which is a good thing I guess, fitting for this way of life

 

Ah I had something similar in mind, when I read about your strap.
Indeed something which presses the cage against the body keeps the erection firmer.
I sometimes wear underwear and since my lady makes me wear womens panties sonetiemes even in the night the erection is held down in place.

Now we went on holiday and I will check out the new cage. The last nights i felt an erection evolving but though it is snug it didnt work out. So maybe ill try a strap to keep it down. And maybe get it schrinked a bit.

 

But mr bear, it still comes with a ring and erection attempts will drag the balls along. The same type of strap can be improvised to clip onto the cage instead during sleep at night, using the hinged type of ring that can be removed easily without having to remove the cage in its entirety. The pain is so much more and intolerable at the balls.. the penis can suffer all the torment, all the better.

 

I use a shoelace that I tie off to both of the guide posts on mine. Runs around my back, holds it up a bit. Then I run a second shoelace from the bottom of the base ring down about 2", tie a knot, then run it up my bum cheeks to the first shoelace, and tie it. This keeps the ring very securely in place, keeps the shoelace from trying to saw my butthole open, and assuming correct knots, it's quick and easy to release to go pee in the middle of the night.

 

I wear a full steel belt with a 2 inch tube. The nocturnal erections are just a enjoyable full feeling. The belt goes not allow any movement away from the body. After 4 months of basically 24/7 wear and only 1 uncaged hard on, when I get that fullness it feels almost as good as a full hardon.

 

That's also what I love about my KH

 

my nocturnals got softer and i wake up 1 time in a week

 

11 weeks since the key was in the lock and I no longer get woken up by a raging boner attempt.

I still get them when my GF is around, when I turn over and there she is with the sheet off her and her delicious curves on full display, or when she grabs me.

But the night boners are definitely getting less.