Had a very bad thing hapen today

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    I been locked since December 2nd, in the short cage and urethral tube.

    I removed it today for cleaning and the tube had separated from the cage portion and become stuck inside my penis just under the head. I could feel the tube inside my penis, and gripped it while pushing my penis head down, effectively sliding it down far enough to grab the tube and remove it. See attached pic, it's an old one, but you get the idea.

    My initial panic is over, and the realization of would could have happened is quite sobering.

    Needless to say, I absolutely will not be using this type of device ever again.

     
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    That's a concern I've always had about non- metal inserts like that @sissyblueballs

    If it's not one whole piece, there's a chance of failure.

    Fine for short term probably, but not more than 24 hours I'd think.
     
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    did it unscrew, or did the rubber tubing slide off?
     
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    I've only used metal ones, but most now come with the metal tip and plastic tube arrangement. Glad you were able to retrieve it. I'd also like more detail on how it came loose.
     
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    that is why i don't use one. It is a hard limit for me
     
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    Thank you @sissyblueballs for validating my paranoia of that type of insert. :eek: Like @MissyB , I've only used the solid stainless ones that screw into the cage. So glad everything "came out" alright. I'm sure the panic was awful!
     
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    The rubber tube slipped/came off the stainless fitting. It didn't unscrew itself.
     
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    "Aside from that, how was the play, Mrs. Lincoln?"

    That sounds utterly terrifying. I'm too scared to put one in, and I never even considered the possibility of it not coming back out. Glad it worked out.
     
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    anybody ever get a little blood on the tip of penis head when inserting?
     
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    wow, am i glad i see this thread, I'm planning to buy one with a urethral insert and was debating on which to take, plastic or a metal insert.
    Gues i know now.
    I was even leaning towards the plastic one because i think being flexible, it would follow my penis more.
    Or is this thinking stupid?
     
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    It is scary that the tube came off the metal end. I don't know if it was partially caused by the duration of your use, or just a poor fit. Did you use a lubricant when you inserted the tube? I have several of that style of urethral inserts but have yet to use one.
     
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    The first couple of times only. Nothing to worry about.
     
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    I've been using such a device for a couple of years now. It stays locked on for months at a time. I've not had a single problem.
     
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    yes. but not when it go in but when it come out and Mistress sayed i dont have to have another put in me again.
     
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    good to hear :) it is too exiting not to. This last time I attempted with slightly larger plugs than before
     
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    I saw a suggestion a while back that mentioned a drop of super glue where that tubing meets the metal insert should prevent it from slipping off. It seemed to work for my similar device. I still don't like wearing it for more than a few hours though .... kinda freaks me out, and not too sure about how good that tubing is as far as toxicity inside the body goes.
     
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    I'm not sure exactly what the problem is/was. I've used this particular cage for the last couple of years with no problems, so, it could be age related. I use a dab of mineral oil on the flexible tube for ease of insertion.

    Thanks to all who replied. I was almost sick to my stomach after the adrenaline rush was over. I am still coming to grips with just how serious this could have been - trying to not sound like a drama queen and all - but still, damn.
     
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    imagine you had to go to the er explaining that, oh boy the embarrassment.
     
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    Supposedly "foreign object in penis" is fairly common....
     
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    @jemima and @I am tiedup : I've tried a device which was a metal tube fixed to the ring as at some point she sent me a picture of a chastity device like that and lightly insisted on it, that was in a kinda of joking with chastity period from us. Same happened to me when pulling out with that metal only 6mm plug: a couple of blood drops which subsided for a couple days. Made two attempts, the first one it just didn't get in and I bleeded, stopped immediately. In the second one, it was much easier to slide it in once the urethra's portion of the head stretched a bit with an hour exercise and lots of lube. The feeling of being plugged inside and very compressed is very pleasant for a couple of minutes, but I scared like hell with the outcome when pulling it out during my essay, cleaned and stored the device with the hopes of not using it ever again, unless she brings it up. At the end, I believe with a lot of practice (previous stretching of the urethra opening) and doing it with a metal only plug it would be safe to go, but for a limited time. Hope it helps.
     
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    @padlocked thank you very very much for saying all bout them things but really im glad i dont has to have one inside me no more now. my cage is better not having one.
     
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    @jemima, Thanks for the feedback - I hav had similar experience with. I just find the feeling of being plugged and maybe also "owned" kinda nice
     
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    @jemima you're very welcome, and I'm glad for you not having to wear it, as I'm glad for me too. I believe this is an addition much more in the punishment side. Also missed to mention albeit the full metal plug mitigates the risk of loosing a piece of the mixed plastic tube / metal tip assembly inside you, I also believe it has the downside of loosing flexibility inside, and that might lead to internal stress of the urethra and risk of tearing it.... Just a thought not meant to fire up a heavy discussion upon my last comment basically because I am not an experienced user of urethral devices, mine was just an experiment. Happy to hear from experienced users.
     
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    Well I am glad you were able to remove it. It must have really put you into a panic. I am wondering if there are devices that already have a metal urethral tube attached. As I am novice in this would that be better or metal cause problems too, Thankfully you removed it. MistressS
     
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    @MistressS besides the regular ball trap cages that fits an urethal tube, flexible or not, there are at least a couple of devices intrinsically featuring a metal urethral tube as the main restriction element, some have a hollow tube to ease urination, and some not, which provides the hability to KH to also control urination schedule of the subject. Both provides easy access to the whole penile length, leaving it exposed, but unable to get an erection, at least in full. An example of both, so to speak open style, urethal only restricted devices:

    Like the one I've tried (and failed, see above thread):
    61cs0tjJS8L._SX679_.jpg

    Another one:
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    I hope you'll find my comments useful. Regards,
     
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