It is six years now since my wife passed away and I start wondering whether she would have allowed to take off my chastity cage? I still go through the routine, once a week it goes off, everything is cleaned and then it comes on again. It does not hinder me, it is just I am (maybe) too used to it. What I certainly miss is her tantalizing words and actions, I hardly get hard anymore. Maybe once every six months and even then. Should I give it up?
First off let me say I’m very sorry that you lost your wife. Secondly, its something you guys shared together and as long as there’s nobody else in your life I think you should keep going and hold onto the good memories as well.
@Frolicking ooooh im very sad to hear that your wife has gone and I hope that it has got a bit better for you after 6 year. I dont know what else to say or bout your cage but what ever you do I hope you get more happy again.
I'm very sorry that you lost your wife. I think it's a great tribute to her that you remain locked. I am permanently locked because my wife wants it that way. If she should pass before me, it will remain locked till I pass because I know that's what she would want.
I expect the reasons for wearing it are more complex than anyone except you can understand, and they're rooted in memories of the past and the march of the present at the same time. I suspect you will know, instinctively, when it's time to move on. Good luck
Sorry for your loss. I agree with LesterBallard, only you will know when to give it up, if you ever do. It must and should only be your decision as you feel it is right. I don’t think anyone here is qualified to give you advice beyond listening to yourself. I see the irony in giving advice by saying no one here is qualified to give advice (0: but I think you see what I mean lol