Frustration

WomenWearTheKeys · Oct 16, 2018

AmaraValeris said: ↑

Your response was inappropriate. She controls your cock and your orgasms. Your orgasm belongs to her - however she wants it, whenever she wants it. If she wants to frustrate you until you're panting and on fire, you are not cumming until she says so. You consented to being caged and you're getting what comes with that. After telling her to be strong even if you beg, you almost got in a fight for her holding fast to your wishes. Selfish and disrespectful. You don't choose how she gets satisfaction from chastity. You're not thinking of her when you "want to make her cum," you're thinking of your own sexual titillation, satisfaction, and own frustrations. You don't control how she gets off. She chooses this.

Also, if she's not into cuckold stuff and would consider it cheating on you, stop bringing it up. You've said later on in this thread that it's your fantasy. If for some reason she did sleep with someone else because you're too sexually ramped up to think logically, you may regret giving her permission. Jealousy is funny like that, the reality after the fantasy can bring up a lot of emotion, and if you regret giving permission, you'll be dealing with blaming her and yourself.

Perhaps you two have a different of opinion between her role and yours. Communicate. What did you expect. What did you want. What does she want. What did she expect. Maybe you picked too long of a start window for being new to it. Locke and I started out with weekend chastity before increasing the window.

If you're truly sincere about having an FLR involving chastity, you need to realize that topping from the bottom and begging stops. She's in charge. She gets what she wants, even if that want is you making dinner and getting her flowers, without the expectation of anything sexual following up. You do it, because she's your key holder, she's your world, and you worship your world.
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WO , this KH is the real deal. Wouldn’t want to cross her. Sounds brutally strict,... and super hot.

WomenWearTheKeys · Oct 17, 2018

“When Locke and I were first starting chastity, I had to make rules to get him to leave me alone. Literally, a "no touching" rule. He was like a fucking octopus or barnacle or something else amazingly clingy. It's the sexual frustration. But we had to talk about it all”

I can sympathize with this! Clingyness is the result of sexual frustration. Good compromise is to allow any and all clingyness and touch below KH’s knees. This leads to lots of kneeling and groveling at her feet. Reinforces the sense of authority and disparity of power in the relationship.

Finn-egan · Oct 17, 2018

AmaraValeris said: ↑

He was like a fucking octopus or barnacle or something else amazingly clingy. It's the sexual frustration. But we had to talk about it all. Why he couldn't do those things.
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Best chastity quote I've ever read!!!!! We get lost in our frustration fantasies and forget all too often how we appear and act with the other people involved in this experience!

Doug Scibor · Oct 17, 2018

Wifewearsthekey said: ↑

“When Locke and I were first starting chastity, I had to make rules to get him to leave me alone. Literally, a "no touching" rule. He was like a fucking octopus or barnacle or something else amazingly clingy. It's the sexual frustration.
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Guilty as charged. I spend brain cycles thinking about how much cling I'm going to offer. When we first started, I would chase her around the house, into the shower and trap her in the walk-in closet.

sanlucas · Nov 22, 2018

Funny how chastity works differently for us huh? I am in it for the sexual frustration, I can`t get enough of it! We only play for a few days at a time!

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