FLR and Permanent Chastity

Hmmm.this is a personal subject really.
My wife loves me in skirts and dresses.
Fully done makeup as well. I am in 24/7 chastity and never allowed to orgasm or cum. The only one who cums in her is her boyfriend. Funny thing though, this has all made us inseparable. We have become "joined at the hip". If she ever decided that I was to never be unlocked again I would remain as devoted as ever.

We are all such different critters huh?

 

wow...i thought its just fantasy...permanent locking and no release
but mistressL is make it happen...

wish i could find same mistress that have guts to do something like you do

 

Although we live a chastity lifestyle, I am not locked up all the time. There is no need as I am not going to masturbate anymore. I never cheated on her and even though she always was able to see other men, she tried it once and said she never wanted to do that again and stuck to girlfriends instead. Worked out well for me as I always had a small harem around the house.

As far as my orgasms go, my wife is truly in charge of them and she varies the period of my chastity and whether I get a ruined or full orgasm. Since she has had girlfriends more than not, it has always been a female led relationship around our house. This was practical for us because I was away much of the time on business and my wife would have her girlfriend of the month keep her company and they ran the household and I was glad they did. I even did as they asked because I was not stupid enough to ruin a good thing.

Our wife led marriage was non sexual before six months ago. It was more like a business arrangement where I was the employee and the women were my bosses. When we started chastity we quickly learned that it was not like our other fetishes that ended at the end of the sex. Chastity never ended at the bedroom and it worked out better when we incorporated our sex life into our relationship. I was sexually submissive but dominant outside of the bedroom. My wife was the opposite. Now I am submissive and she is dominant but not like you read in the online stories. She does not act like a Mistress or have me do things like kneel, call her Mistress, or anything like that. To our friends we are just another normal couple with a lucky wife that has a very attentive, but masculine, husband. I still walk into a room and want to dominate it. That has not changed. What has changed is that I have surrendered control to my wife in the context of our relationship and not a fantasy game.

 

This is how our relationship seems to be going!
My wife is also not into the feminisation side of the lifestyle and said only yesterday that my attitude is so much better when I have not had a release. She even said in a joking way that maybe I won't be unlocking you as I have not been attending to her needs as much as I should!

 

MistressL,do you have a sister with the same likes?
I would give everything to find a lady like you.
your sub has got to be one of the luckiest men on the planet.

 

MistressL,
Are you from India? I am from Mumbai, India. The word you have used for remnification is in Deonagari script, which is from my language. If you are an Indian, then please let me know! May be we can chat!

 

MistressL, Could we have an update on you two please?

 

Mistress i read your post with interest and also admiration. my Lady Owner has had me permanently locked without release now for 480 days in total with no immediate chance of release. so much so that she now feels release is both unnecessary and a waste of time. i have not suffered any ill effects at all and even feel more males should be permanently locked permanently as at the age i am there is absolutely no need to be free.

 

I agree!
I am following the same path
My wife feels exactly the same!

 

We live a very similar lifestyle. His last time to have sex was last October and his last time will be this next October. I have led him cum three times since then but that too will stop in October. I love having him dread the upcoming date, knowing his next pleasureful experience will also be his last.

 

LOL! What are you locking on him now?

 

Mistress L,

I am new to this site and still learning to navigate CM.

Please forgive my ignorance, but can you briefly tell me what "FLR" means?

My wife and I lived the B/D & S/M lifestyle for 2 years (until she was diagnosed with bone cancer) this also included me in chastity in my CB-3000 cock tube. Just have not heard of "FLR" & "FLM" relationships.

Also can you please briefly explain "Permanent Chastity? " Is your subs chastity cage welded or glued closed or did you throw the key away after it was locked on? Or is it you just never remove his cage by choice? Just curious.

Thank you for your time, sorry for being dumb


Bobbie

 

FLR - Female Led Relationship

Permanent Chastity is usually the idea that the male will never orgasm again. Ever. It can also mean the male never knows when or if he will ever be allowed to orgasm again. He stays locked until the woman decides when or if he can have a release.

 

oooh i knowed that as well. i wanted to tell him.

 

To answer your questions
FLR is a Female Led Relationship
FLM is a Female Led Marriage. both are the same thing however...

What a couple may mean when they describe their relationship as being one of the above will undoubtedly mean different things to almost every couple. It may mean she leads in every possible way and does so for every aspect of their lives or it may just mean she has the upper hand when it comes to decisions that effect only one or two aspects of most or some of the time.

So really the meaning of either of the above terms is subjective.

Permanent Chastity means diffferent things to different people too. It could mean the chaste one being only let out for maintenance (perhaps not even that) and permanently denied orgasms or maybe one every X months or years or something inbetween; and even though their denial is permanent their partner might still want penatrative sex all the time or once in a blue moon.

Permanently locked usually means locked in a device all the time except when their KH lets them out for what ever reason, from full on sex with or without an orgasm to just out for maintenance.

Again "Permanent" is a term that means different things to different people and if that differs from your concept of the meaning it does not mean either of you are wrong.

Still confused ....... in a sense perhaps we all are .... some of the time at least.

 

Thank you for the information. You are correct in saying it can get a little confusing and people do "Tweak" their definition of the terms.
You could compare it to the question of; "How long is a piece of string?" Everyone will have a slightly different answer.
Thanks again.

 

You quoted exactly my wife's words!
Yes, we are having a wonderful life since November 2014, when she sealed my cage
My wife has categorically stated that she is never ever going to unlock me. No discussions
To experience the pleasure of this kind, one needs to be locked permanently!