FLR and Permanent Chastity

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    MistressL I'm through

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    #1 MistressL, Nov 24, 2013
    Yes, our lifestyle is D/s. Yes, we live in a FLR. Yes, he is in permanent chastity. His device will not be removed.

    This was not decided in haste. It was after months of discussion and investigation, and thousands of dollars put into many devices, many of them we will sell. And I wanted things to be simple, eliminate hassles, and make life easier for me. I was sick and tired of the "games" he wanted to play. Years ago, he gave me full control and I finally challenged his gift and gave him one back.

    This decision was not made in anger or as punishment. It is simply a gift, one he was not really prepared for, but one he will become acclimated to in time. Yes, he could request the removal of the device, but that would seriously jeopardize our relationship. Niether of us desire that, a completely vanilla lifestyle. I know I would seek my kink fix somewhere else, and with someone else, even though I love him dearly.

    I have my personal reasons why I want him chaste. He has requested a possible release but I will not even consider this for two full years.

    This may be misconstrued by some and completely foreign to others, but I assure you it is real for him, and the two of us in our lifestyle.

    Please address any comments or questions to me, here at Chastity Mansion. Personal friends have my emails. For questions about his device please contact him (dclann). We both have accounts at one of the other sites where he is allowed to post pre-approved pictures. Mine is inactive at this time because I choose to spend my time here and not there.

    This is a post in response to many inquiries over the last month.
    Mistress L
     

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    #2 lockit, Nov 24, 2013
    A few years ago I would have dismissed that as a fantasy.
    However that was a few years ago.
    I wish You luck
     
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    #3 Norwegianwood80, Nov 24, 2013
    Poor dclann ;)
    Good luck.
     
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    #4 kickball, Nov 24, 2013
    dclann must be in serious shock. Good luck to you both
     
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    #5 MistressL, Nov 24, 2013
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    Thank you, lockit. It is not fantasy. It is very real. I do not plan on unlocking him with one exception.
    The one exception will be if I decide to send his chastity tube back to Ms Lori Lancer for a 2 gauge pin.
    In that case DC will be placed in the yoke with his hands locked. He will go into his Neosteel belt until the device gets back.
     
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    #6 lockit, Nov 24, 2013
    Oh I know its not a fantasy. I just find amazing a Mistress can make a decision like that.
    I don't really know anything about You both. For it to work I would think you would have to be living together.
    As before I wish You good luck,
     
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    #7 Joroincharge, Nov 25, 2013

    My subbie's in the same case. No way out. Period.

    I have my reasons to do it to him, and I do it also because I can. His shaft's not going anywhere into F pink piping again.
     
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    #8 gabri34, Nov 29, 2013
    There will be no milkings for dclann even while his chastity is permanent ? Photos of him locked in Lori's device look so great but I wonder if it is possible to cum by just touching the head of his penis ? While he tries to get erect the part of it is visibly exposed.
     
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    #9 filltee, Nov 29, 2013
    I have always thought all the Lori tubes leave you two exposed. Whether I would or not is one thing and its easy to say I wouldn't but in permanent chastity with a known 2 years denial I would much prefer that there be no temptation. To me it looks far too easy to be able to cum in any Lori tube I've seen.

    It looks a though they might be a tight fit, do they really completely prevent erections or or any stiffening. Although to be honest if you have gone long enough you do not need an erection to be able to ejaculate. Nor as I have recently found out for myself do you need to emit any fluid to orgasm.

    Don't get me wrong I admire your mutual decision and wish you luck I just don't think that I could undertake such a challenge sucessfully in a tube that allows so much access.
     
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    #10 Her Dividend, Dec 12, 2013
    What is the point of your decision? Why did you make it, and what do you hope to achieve by it?
     
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    #11 Mascara^Snake, Dec 12, 2013
    Your Knowledge of anatomy is presumptous filtee
     
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    #12 filltee, Dec 13, 2013
    by Mascara^Snake, "

    I am intrigued as to why you think my comments would indicate either me claiming any knowledge of anatomy that was out of the ordinanary, or that you would go so far as to say I had been in anyway presumptuous in this instance.

    I merely raised some questions, in which I was not alone, and spoke of nothing I have not experienced myself other than of course actually trying one of the tubes Lori has on offer. I did explain why I was loathe to actually try one given the price.

    Don't get me wrong re the price, its relative, if they work for someone and their partner for a life-time then the cost is low if you buy one and it does not do what you both want but claims to do so then the price ius very high. IMHO of course.
     
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    #13 Slave@heart, Dec 13, 2013
    I wear a Lorie # 2D and let me tell you, orgasm is impossible when locked in! Escape is also impossible to achieve on my own.
     
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    #14 MistressL, Dec 13, 2013
    Her dividend, I sense a degree of remnification (पुनरेकीकरण) reflecting and boardering on an antagonistic inquisition. In as much as I am tempted to acquiesce, I refuse to banter and decline your soliloquy. ~l~ LL
     
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    #15 LadyFedora, Dec 13, 2013
    Hello MistressL,

    I've read your story with great interest. It's great that you made up your mind and made this decision.
    I'm personally wondering one thing, I've been thinking about permanent chastity quite a often. The thought is always quite trilling to me. Having that kind of 'powers'.
    But I've always run into one thing, I just like unlocking my sub sometimes to tease him like crazy. Of course you can tease with the cage still on, but I think it's not the same.

    Don't you miss that? Don't you love teasing him? And how do you do it now, with his cage permanently locked?

    Would love to hear your opinion!

    Lady Fedora
     
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    #16 MistressL, Dec 13, 2013
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    Those are valid concerns, pertinent issues and since I know my husband will eventually read this it's important for me to be straight forth and succinct. Perhaps the idea of permanent chastity has multiple connotations. The action itself has been quite thrilling and continues to be so. Frequent teasing still is part of our relationship and I love it very much.

    The device used on him allows for wonderful stimulation but is limited. It is very different from the full belt and the confining metal cock cages we've used before. I wish you could see it in action, you'd understand more. For one, it does allow him to have a partial erection and colitis is possible with this device. There is some similarity with numbing cream and two condoms. This has worked for us to stop any possible ejaculation for him.

    I am exploring different ways of accomplishing total frustration for him driving him mad with passion. There will come a time that he will beg with all his heart to be released. He is almost there, but not yet.

    Failing miserably, I'll try to be more specific. We both want to see if he can orgasm via anal sex. Pegging has become a popular sport in this household, above football.
     
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    #17 Joroincharge, Dec 14, 2013
    Maybe a Viagra will be a way - straining at the bit & nowhere to go....
     
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    #18 kinky6666, Dec 15, 2013
    Great to read your story MistressL. I have been chatting a bit with dclann on Fetlife and he is counting the days, very funny knowing that he can continue counting forever. To some of us it is the ultimate fantasy to never be unlocked again, but when it becomes reality it may be a different story. Some of us have gone very long periods, 6 or 12 months or even longer. It must be great for a Lady to have such control, and control must be very strict. That is why perhaps 'the key to his Lori's' seems to be too nearby for dclann, I mean he knows where you hold the key. My wife keeps all 4 keys to my (2) Lori's somewhere I don't know. Perhaps not even inside our house.
    May I ask you if it is difficult for you to keep him locked? My wife has no problems with it, although sometimes after 2 months she feels that I should orgasm, or she wants to see me cum for her.

    I admire your choice and dclann must be a very lucky husband with the strict keyholder you are.
     
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    #19 ladylionzsissy, Dec 15, 2013
    l think this is a charming way of expressing a FLR... so comforting too!
     
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    #20 MistressL, Dec 15, 2013
    It is simple. I don't think he needs to be unlocked. His permanent chastity creates a peaceful atmosphere, precipitating a slight buzz and calm aroma similar to Christmas candles. It is wonderful.
     
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    #21 subken, Jan 1, 2014
    Thanks for sharing MistressL, I have the same sort of relationship with my Wife Superior. I'm locked permanently with no tease and denial, no orgasmic releases, no removal of the device (Lori #2). We went through a year of exploration much as you did, and have come to what we believe is best for Her. She decided I should commit to 12 years of this type of chastity during which I will be re-made into an "extremely obedient woman" in her own words.
     
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    #22 MistressL, Jan 1, 2014
    Your post is appreciated and I respect your new lifestyle. It is not of interest to me, feminizing my husband. I still enjoy his manly attitude and cherise his endless personal attention to my needs. He is the most kind and selfless individual I've ever known. I am the one that is overwhelmed with thankfulness and blissful joy.
     
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    #23 Caged Wolf, Jan 3, 2014
    MistressL,
    Congratulations on your choice and the outcome of it so far. It sounds like a lovely situation. I wish my Mistress was active on here so she could talk with you about this and learn...

    Very Best,
    Caged Wolf
     
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    #24 dereknor, Jan 3, 2014
    This sounds like a really great relationship. I think it is a very special bond when a man gets the gift of permanent chastity. For two people who love this fetish, this is a really romantic action :)
     
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    #25 Joroincharge, Jan 4, 2014
    I'm not into feminizing a male either, to be honest. But I've nothing against it. We're all different.
     
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