First time caged at work?

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    My Mistress Wife and i have been heavy into orgasm denial for years now. Only just recently we've been using a Jailbird chastity cage. Most we have done has been for four days when I was off work recently.
    She has started to really enjoy the control she has over me with the cage on and we're both looking to push for longer durations.
    Next time, She wants me to wear it for a full 7 days (aroused I am masochistically all for it). However, this means that I'll have to wear it when I go to work next week (office setting).
    I'm more than a little nervous.
    Anybody want to share there experience going to work caged for the first time?
    I know it won't show and I know nobody's looking down there, but I can't help getting all nervous.

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    It gets to the point that you forget that it’s there
     
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    It's a bit weird your first few times in public.

    You know it is there. A constant reminder. You are her bitch.

    But no one else knows it's there.

    But you are still her bitch.

    It's definitely a mind-fuck. One you'll learn to crave.
     
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    Sounds like you need to learn to tuck it (i.e. hide it). You might try getting a gaff to keep everything mushed back and out of sight. That’s what I do, anyway!

    Here’s a good one:
    https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B006VYQ1NE
     
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    And happy birthday!!!!!!
     
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    I wear briefs or a jock strap to keep things together
     
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    Wearing it at work for the first time is very exciting. If only they knew, you keep thinking, and that is a delicious thought.

    Truth is, though, it's perfectly safe and there's no reason they will find out. Good luck.
     
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    First time was scary. Would anyone notice?
    But what the ….… ,my cage is that small.
    Nobody will ever know
     
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    like @maid julie said, you will reach a certain stage that you will forget about it. In particular in an office setting it will be not difficult to wear it (and receive the constant remiders when working). One of the first "changes" I discovered was to select the other mens toilet...stand to pee will no longer be possible...
     
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    You get used to it very quickly. Thrilling the first couple of times. But did anyone state at your crotch previously? No, so why should they now? Unless there's that cute girl from accounts....
     
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    Sounds like @Disciplined Boyfriend needs a little discipline! :rolleyes: But I digress, @bitchboy1979 , soon that's all you will know and you'll love it! :+1::lockkey:
     
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    How do you know, that Lady C is going to do that imminently?
     
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    It’s a total mind fuck because you know you’re locked and are sure everyone else must know it as well (even though they don’t). Just remember to not use the urinal - unless you want to chance getting your pants wet! However, once you get past the first few terror filled days it will quickly become your new normal and you’ll both wonder why you didn’t do it sooner.
     
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    Thank you :)
     
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    Thank you everyone for your words of encouragement. Always feels less scary when I'm not the only one.
     
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    I work outside with menly men, digging utilities up, in all sorts of wierd positions down pits etc covered in filth and only have piss pots on vans to use.
    Been in mine a while 24/7 except for the odd deep clean. And once you get past the boners when you go out on public with one, you realise no one is looking and you aren't walking about with a football sized bulge you think you have.
    Just avoid tight work trousers, uplifting underwear, and maybe have an untucked shirt if office rules allow it, longer tie etc.
    You'll be fine, piss in a cubicle and before you know it it'll be normal.
    Just remember when you get to the uncontrollable leaking dick stage when you haven't had release and everything's suddenly erotoc, to try and not think about sex too much as you'll be leaking like a racehorse and wondering why your legs wet at work HAHA
     
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    I’m in an office setting. I’m always wearing panties, mostly thongs, with my cage and it’s fine. You can see the bulge throw my dress pants, but I think most of all my colleagues just think I have a large cock… if only they knew…
     
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    Put a rubber band on the lock to avoid the clanking noise
     
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    they are very good them am but hurt if you has to be lock up still in a cage. well it hurt me anyway. i only wears one now if i am allow to tuck.
     
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    What's a gaff? Like a tuck ?
     
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    All the comments are true about being paranoid at first….then you calm down and realize no one in a million years would guess your caged.

    Only hitch is if there is a shared male bathroom….if its a large office and has multiple urinals, could be odd if you are not the only person in there and you head to the stall to sit and pee.
     
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    thats only odd if you think it’s odd. I always sit to pee…
     
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    Probably easier to hide if you wear jeans or khakis. I wear scrub pants so have to be extra careful. Luckily the bathrooms are one person only
     
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    Same here! I foolishly sent my madam of me wearing small size scrub trousers, after I lost weight as it highlighted my cage, and she ordered me to always wear them after that.
     
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