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    Lol, not at all, just making sure folks know what they're getting themselves into.
     
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    I am a castrated submissive, for over 4 years, and I have never lost any of my sexual desire
     
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    Conversion therapy is now... acceptable?

    Forgive me if I am wrong, but I thought trans women were born with female brains, yet she converted your male brain to female?
     
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    If I may jump in for a moment...
    I'm a trans-medicalist, meaning I believe there is a variation in brain or body chemistry which makes us either "born this way" or tweaked into being this way so early on, the timing might as well be "born this way," i.e., before 4, basically. But it can also be induced.
    Femininity is seductive to the male mind from the start. The taboo of acting feminine makes it a turn-on; the fabrics are sensuous, adding to the turn-on; the thrill of being desired, something a man rarely feels unless he's the top 3% or better - it's like a drug. Once that happens, the sexuality is paired with the crossdressing, and it can easily develop further, becoming an obsession.
    There have been stories about this since before I went to college. Used to be adult comics, vintage years earlier than 1995, plus it was already well established prior, based on the porn shops back in those days... It obviously is not too recent, as well, since we have historically seen a collection of terms applied to gender transgressors, so to speak. Hejra on Hindi, for example, predates the British occupation...

    For inducing gender dysphoria, you might appreciate A.J. Relenko, at Fictionmania.tv. The first volume is the key, describes the process. Now that we have established Femboy and Trans cultures, and p0rn is everywhere - recall that what's normal for Victoria's Secret today at the mall, was almost Playboy in the 1990s - we're hyped up on sexual tensions that most people aren't getting met, especially males. A woman just needs to say, "DTF?" and she'll have a line of men willing. A man has to work very hard to appear to be a potential lay, let alone mate, and even then, many women won't be interested at that time. Which leads to an "incel to trans" pipeline, google TransMaxxing. Logic being, can't make it as a guy, can't get laid, small, weak, effeminate? Here's how you transition, use those weaknesses to get as much sex as you want! (Though the younger crowd tends to forget trans women have been killed for deception by straight men. One of the reasons I'm disliked, I tell them to be careful and maximize femininity to be safe, and they don't like the implications... But I've known people making the wrong choice, and let's just say, can't talk to them any more.) We haven't even talked about Blanchard's work with the AutoGynePhiliac vs the HomoSexual TransSexual (AGP vs HSTS). It's another developmental theory, I think there may be some validity to the concepts, but guesstimate that it's invalid due to faulty premise (we sexualize the body before we sexualize the mind; i.e., you develop characteristics first, and the brain follows, making desire in the brain a result of hormones affecting the body, so the HSTS just hasn't had the awakening yet, and is arrested at Point X develop, while the AGP has internalized an image of the ideal partner as a result of developing further to Point Y. The AGP who is treated young is just HSTS... Which would suggest that it's inborn whether AGP or HSTS, so we're classifying people about as well as a phrenologist reading bumps on the head.)
    Side note, the books the Nazis burned were from a sexuality research facility in Germany, not just random books out of a library. They Targeted this facility as "deviant." And ALL of us are at risk from that sort of thing. Let's us also recall Natzi is National Socialist, though, which is first and foremost SOCIALIST, so no one had a chance to argue - they were fighting the entire might of the government. Just as a reminder.
    Not to get too deep into politics.

    TLDR, there are many ways a man can be seduced into a feminine way of life, and most will have positive reinforcement from sexual levers, and it is difficult to separate these people choosing to become feminized from those "born this way," to the point it's basically impossible. Humans are adept at lying, and classifying to the point of absurdity. ;-)
    -Dianna
     
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    My theory is a lot less complicated, all so called trans women are living a fetish, some are aware of this, some pretend not to be aware of this, and for some it is a subconscious fetish.
     
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    Very nicely put boss.

    Most theories, in my humble opinion, are created by scientists. To date, things like the Big Bang have not been proven in one experiment.
    Another theory: Should I just bark from now on because I feel tired as a dog today? I'm still far from being a dog. According to rumors, there are apparently countries where, with all the gender madness, there are X variants from which you can choose your gender. So today I'm a bunny because I want to fuck?

    Well, maybe in the future it will be handled like this: the tip and the nuts are removed and a new chip is inserted into the hard drive and you are a woman. Let us surprise......
     
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    though all humans start out as female it is our exposure and acceptance of sex hormones that decide what our physical form will be.
    saying that some xys are born with female brains might be a stretch considering they only have 25% of their brain at birth. full development is not complete until their late 20s so nurture may play a larger role than nature. currently prior to hormone therapy there is no physical brain evidence of an xy having a female brain. after estrogen therapy there are permanent changes toward a female brain which could be less advantageous than one might expect. depending on who's stats you use sexual orientation can change up to 2/3 of the time, not always desired or appreciated.
    bottom line here is an individual whether with a kink or not, knowingly or not, willingly or unwilling , with the desire or not to be female exposed to adequate amounts of estrogen can be dramatically and permanently changed in a multitude of feminine ways.
    our community's experience with heterosexual alpha xys being subjected to years of estrogen and progesterone leaves them with 3 choices. 1. they can reject what they have become and cling to their self image before the hormones.( though some spend a some amount of time here they have always moved on ) 2. accept the changes without appreciation for what they now are and make do (again none have stayed here but some have spent a good amount of time here). 3. embrace what they have become and enjoy it to the fullest( at this point they say this is the best life possible for them) . .it normally take a pom 3-5 years to become a puck.
    sara lynn appears to be here in record time which seems to be a real stretch. facial and body hair required electrolysis( a total of 2-3 years). their penises did not shrink but the testicles lost 50% or more. they did not start out submissive and it did not make them submissive. sperm production is reduced but regular ejaculation have maintained function and viability. there are personality changes which hormones probably played a role but not like a magic pill. we give more credit to proper training. pucks are fit with little fat if any but they do develop a little more padding on the hips though their hourglass figure is more likely from corset training. sexual orientation changes were not dramatic but moved enough for pressured bisexual activity.
    in conclusion concerning sara lynn i am inclined to agree with lucy that she was predisposed to being mtf.
     
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    Yes, it's all just theories at this point - best guesses, especially in this realm, where there is a biased selection in the first place, and the alternative is more people who have other "defects" (E.G., chemical castration of sexual offenders).
    So there are many different data points, all questionable, and we don't have a baseline of any sort (much of the research - which might've still been biased or questionable - was destroyed in WW2. Everything since has a biased selection pool, due to radiation, chemicals in air, water, food, changes in diet - the foods themselves are altered, different types of apples and tomatoes and flowers - affects honey - etc, etc, etc.)

    At the same time, if we lived in a decent world, the question would really be, Why does it matter? Whose business is it what I, or you, or Steve or Harriet do - as long as it's not hurting others? If it hurts others, that's a different question, but Karen MAKES it her business to ensure we're doing things "right" according to her (him as the case might be.)
    So research might help, but the Karens will reject research that doesn't match their preconceived notions.

    Oh, well. Life goes on.
    But I'd also say, sstay strapped, just in case. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. maybe you never need to face the worst, but if you do and you aren't ready - that's bad, maybe fatal. better to be prepared.
     
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    The whole trans thing is if you let it bother you ... a nightmare
    my philosophy on most things has always been ... each to their own
    as long as non-consensually no adults kids or animals are getting hurt physically or mentally
    and children being unnecessarily confused is not acceptable either


    I don't tell folks not to do a thing if they are aware of the potential consequences
    though I may offer advice about that if it looks like its necessary and I care about them

    I don't expect people to try and alter my opinions either
    nor do I take kindly to anyone telling me that I MUST or MUST NOT do something especially when the outcome of me doing so is more or less inconsequential


    I'm not going to acept that someone has changed their gender ... it can not be done
    There are only two genders no matter what someone has had done to them surgically
    I am not going to mess about with pronouns either. If a guy looks like a guy then no matter what he is wearing I will call that person he or him same goes the other way it looks like a woman ill call it her or she
    If "correction" to my vocabulary is attmpted I will not accept it
    I wont be pushed on this but may and have respond favourably if asked to
    I have no reservations about using the terms it and those if I'm not sure what they are they are gender neutral if they don't like it...tough.

    As they say
    Demons in the Bible refer to themselves as as they and them

    and I dont believe in either demons or the bible botjh have been around a lot longer than the modrn day bolshy gobalot trans loonies.


    as for the OP i'm not prepared to accept that anyone made an adult alter their established sexual orientation
     
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    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isla_Bryson_case

    It can be quite complex and come down to biologically women's rights vs mtf trans' rights. I offer no opinion at this moment other than to say that both sides of the argument should be studied carefully... even that of the "Karen" convict who is forced to share a cell with "Isla" Bryson.
     
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    ... It should be noted that Isla, a convicted rapist of females, became female after they were convicted and still has their male genitalia. Here's the thing; in my country (guess which?) I can't express an opinion on the subject due to Hate Crime laws. So I won't, but certainly the vast majority of trans people don't bother me so live and let live. The question is more about straight men masquerading as women specifically to access biological females nude or prey on them in a woman's facilities. And that's an open question not a view or opinion.
     
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    #62 Dianna1395, Apr 26, 2024 at 10:10 PM
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    I feel the need to chime in here, and I'll likely step on several toes...
    If you have not read about Dr. Money and the Reimers twins, you should. Short version, twin boys, David and Brian Reimer, went to hospital for circumcision. David was injured by the electrocauterizatuon unit, and the p3nis damaged beyond repair, basically. Dr. Money was on staff, and convinced the parents David would never be normal due to the injuries, but that since children were a "blank slate," he could just be raised as a girl, and never know different.
    Dr. Money had multiple therapeutic sessions over the years, and at like 7 or 10, went public and declared his success. However, David always fought wearing dresses, always played like a boy (climbing, running, digging, etc), and hated the pills he was forced to take, until at 15, his parents had to tell him the truth, at which time, he immediately transitioned back to being male.
    Dr. Money has never paid for his bad faith evil practices, but the brothers are dead, one by OD and one by suicide.

    So, the takeaway is:
    Sex is biological;
    Gender is innate, as David Reimer demonstrates;
    It's not our duty to force others to meet our expectations, and others are not obligated to do things Our Way - so STFU, "Karen."
    There IS an Agenda, unfortunately, to capitalize on human misery, and many of those people are outright froot loops - Marxist, everything should be free, anti-Christian, pro-Hamas is the latest thing... Diametrically opposed views in there, you'll notice. Several have been involved in attacks in the last few months, as well. So we have mentally ill hiding among the LGBT population - but we're supposed to be OK with that? That is also insane, unless you're OK with them in the priesthood and public school teachers and whatever authority profession they might use to cover their behaviors.

    So now that I've probably tweaked everyone off with a notable case that shows we are who we are, and the surgical options are quite recent, changing the landscape, and now muddying the waters while predators seek to make others miserable and cause more problems for everyone - I'll get quiet again.
    Just remember we all must have the freedom to fail, or we aren't truly free. No one owns me, no one owns you, our kinks notwithstanding.
    Respect each other's choices.

    Edited to correct names and an age on David Reimer.
     
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    You left out the porn and sexual acts he made them do. Not commenting on whole trans thing but dude truly was an evil man.
     
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    Yes, I wanted to keep it short, and not get into the sexual abuse under color of "therapy." It would be "conversion therapy," at that...
    He belongs in hell, but Satan doesn't want him back yet ...
     
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