Hey all! My wife and I have just begun our journey into chastity and have decided to use the forums as a way to document our experiences and to get some authentic feedback and support along our journey so please feel free to ask questions, give advice, or be a part of our journey in any way you would like! How we got here we are married in our early 30's and are both very dominant type personalities. We both work jobs where that works out well but that definitely causes issues at home when it comes to decision making and that then spills over to our sex life. We are not happy with the lack of sex or the sex we currently do have. It is very vanilla and neither one of us really prioritizes it. So after feeding my wife some strong drinks, i sat her down and began to talk about our sex life. We were both able to be open, honest, and it was refreshing to be able to talk freely. We downloaded some apps, took some quizzes, and then i asked her what one thing i could do or explore that would excite her sexually and thats when the last thing i ever thought i would hear came out of her pretty lips; PEGGING. I am very adventurous and I have definitely been curious to try but never had i the courage or the boldness to ask for that. Needless to say, i lit up like a kid on Christmas (at least on the inside). Then it was my turn to share and of course, my number one thing was chastity. Unfortunately, its not one of those things that she is initially drawn to but she loves me and was willing to give it a go. I did not want this to be a forced thing where she doesn't enjoy it cause its a chore so i told here i have no expectations, she doesn't have to play "domina" and have some elaborate sex scenes to interact with me ever so often or whatever. The expectations were clearly stated as 1) lock it on me and unlock it when you want sex 2) i need to keep that sucker really clean 3) she spends at least a moment of her day seeking knowledge on chastity and what it means for her and me. to aid with this, i bought her lucy fairbourne's book and she desires to begin plugging into the forums to seek advice or ask questions. For the rest of that night we talked, we smiled, and i was locked up on the spot and my mind was sent racing in anticipation for what was to come.