When my kh and I started dating almost two years ago- we had sex very nearly every day for 15 months. I ddnt always plan it, but damn when she comes to bed in her thongs..Yikes! Yes I take Cialis daily, I still do because it keeps me desirous of her. I find the feeling of my penis swelling against the cage very arousing. It keeps the pre cum flowing, iykwim. Anyway, lately she admitted she wasnt always into it the daily or more sex until I seduced her, but I wonder. Add to this I was frequently pushing for more scenarios like MMF play. She would seem initially interested, then the idea always seemed to fizzle. Now of course I am locked. She took to male chastity as soon as I mentioned it and really seems to love it. I dont think she would ever give it up now. I think I may have set the table for chastity, so to speak. I guess others might have similar experiences? If any of you out there would like to interest your person in locking you up, maybe you should take note.
What you seem to be saying is: You were horny all the time, asking for tones of sex and every possible fantasies... She was a little overwhelmed but played along to be nice, and let you have more sex than she really wanted. Then one day you said: Chastity? She said : oh yeah! You deserve to be locked
This seems to be a very similar scenario with my Domina. When we were dating, it was an every morning and every evening type of thing. We pretty much did it whenever we had an opportunity. Now, I'm locked up as commanded by Domina and I'm not sure when I'll be released, not sure if we will have PIV, or me ever having another orgasm (ruined or full). I will say that the uncertainty of everything does make this much more exciting.
We have plenty of sex, it was too much wanking that got me locked. I’m always locked when I’m unsupervised, and at night to stop me wanking in the morning. as I get up pretty early.
As a fantasy such a scenario existed with an ex girlfriend. She routinely begged off from sex, too sore or otherwise to do it as often as I liked. Her taking control and locking me up to keep me from ravaging her repeatedly still is a scenario that drives my tease and denial fantasies. The ex and I are long gone but that sceario itself is why I started looking at chastity to begin with. A denial kink that built up over time from exes with bruised or torn vaginas lol. But, being denied over my size was an element as well. So we make our own beds indeed.
This was similiar to my situation: me asking for sex regularly and her complying; only my Wife suggested chastity. Now I do want she wants
Quite the opposite for me. I was masturbating far more than we were having sex. I was upset with my wife for "forcing me" into this form of sexual release. I was angry because she didn't do the stuff the porn stars did in the movies I masturbated to. I thought our problem was too little sex. I found happiness in a solution that was the polar opposite. I can say with confidence that there was never a time where I said, damn I am having too much sex.