Does giving or receiving pain turn you on?

Ecstatic pain! What a great phrase! I've certainly been there. Coupled with her voice.... There you have it!

 

My wife, who was/is vanilla in most ways, loves to flog me.
We recently added a thing where
she stops a few times during our session to pull down hard on my balls. Then she goes back to the flogging. When I first asked her to do it, she was a bit timid.
Now she pulls down hard ! We had been married over 40 years before we figured out that she likes this stuff!
In the bedroom, grandma has game!

 

I am absolutely turned on when reviecing pain

 

My wife can be in the mood for flogging me without being in the mood for sex. A beating always makes me horny but being denied and sent to bed is hot too. As far as I’m concerned, she can beat me anytime she wants. And the harder the better. If my ass still hurts an hour later, so be it!

 

Yeah there's really no correlation between spankings and getting off in my house. I get spanked often because it's something she truly enjoys. I get off less often and actually laid way less often.

 

Yes, for me cock, testicle and nipple pain, definitely do intensify things

 

I like giving and receiving spankings.
Unfortunately, my wife made it clear that she is not interested in that anymore.

 

I enjoy giving spankings. Unfortunately, my wife only asked once, years back (before kids).

I have never liked getting spankings, but I do like that my wife knows it's within her power, and that thought itself is a pretty addictive turn-on.

 

I get turned on by nipple torture, love it.

 

It’s complicated. I would say it is not exactly physically arousing, but it can be mentally focusing.

 

I love being suspended by my arms hanging there while Master severely whips me. Its a real turn on for me. I love the markings.

 

me too.. its an immediate arousal for me.

 

Best comment on the site.

 

Yes and no. I enjoy letting go. I focus on our big picture. Flogging, paddling and spanking etc. doesn’t necessarily turn Queen on but rather puts her in a state of control. Queen knows I trust her with that control. It’s not necessarily used as foreplay to get us in the mood but it can sometimes lead to one hell of a pegging. It’s not something we do before I give her oral a fauxing either. Come to think about it I’m not dominated in that way before pleasing her sexually ever. I’m almost always dominated before being pegged which is honestly what excites me the most. That and the submissive feelings that come with it.