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    #1 gklcorvette81, Mar 13, 2021
    Hello everyone, How is everyone doing today?
    Been a member on here for awhile so its about time I actually introduce myself. I've been locked for the last year or so of my own doing unfortunately. My loveless marriage of 6 years is coming to a abrupt end. We have never had a good sexual life and have had nothing for the last 5 years. Now I will admit I was masturbating a lot during some of this time. So I found chastity like many have to stop that. Hoping that would fix our relationship in someway by me being more attentive to her. Sadly as hard as I try our marriage simply can't be saved. When you have given everything you can and its not got any better its time to face the truth. So that time has come.
    Anyways I just bought a cheap cage off of the internet but have been really happy with it. And have actually come to enjoy the feeling of it and it has definitely stopped the masturbation. I've always enjoyed cross dressing and have most of my life. No one has ever seen or known about this part of me though. As I have kept it hidden from everyone. But I want to live. I would like to be further feminized and be who I really am. Would like to find someone to accept me for who I really am. But right now I could really use some like minded friends. Hopefully this is the place to find those friends.
     
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    #2 corsac, Mar 13, 2021
    Sorry to hear about the marriage ending. Welcome (officially) to the mansion though!
     
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    #3 Guest 2684, Mar 13, 2021
    Welcome hope you find what you are looking for
     
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    #4 King Hippo, Mar 13, 2021
    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!

    Sounds like there might have been a huge gap in communication or honesty in that communication. If you want someone to vent to though, shoot me a message.
     
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    #5 MissyB, Mar 13, 2021
    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable, as you move on with your life and explore chastity.
     
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    #6 Jeanette_Phillips, Mar 13, 2021
    Hello and welcome I hope you can find what your looking
     
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    #7 tvalex, Mar 13, 2021
    It is a tough time your going through. Things will get better, even if it doesn't look like it at the moment.
    Hang on there buddy.
     
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    #8 jemima, Mar 13, 2021
    hello @gklcorvette81 and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well. its nasty when things happen and it make you sad and i hope it get better for you.
     
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    #9 Chaste J., Mar 13, 2021
    I always feel great sadness when I hear of a marriage failing. I know it's not worth carrying on just for the sake of it though. I hope you both find what you are looking for and welcome to CM.
     
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    #10 Alana, Mar 13, 2021
    I have been in a similar place in my life, I divorced in 2014
    Divorce Sucks, there is no sugar coating that.
    You can send me a PM if you want someone to talk to.
     
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    #11 spider203, Mar 13, 2021
    Sorry to read your marriage could not be saved but no one could say you did not try.
     
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    #12 Sissy-CJ, Mar 13, 2021
    Welcome to CM, I’m sorry to hear about your relationship. I hope in time you find what you are looking for.
     
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    #13 Jessica Alexander, Mar 14, 2021
    It sucks now but now you have an opportunity for happiness. Once it’s over, most people regret waiting so long to end it. Focus on wrapping things up with her and tying up lose ends so you can put it behind you.

    I’d suggest working on yourself for a while and reading some writings by the great stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius. Welcome to the board and you can message me any time!
     
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    #14 LesterBallard, Mar 14, 2021
    Hello and welcome
     
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    #15 gklcorvette81, Mar 14, 2021
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    Thank you all for your kind words and for welcoming me to the mansion. I really appreciate them during this rough time. You all have exceeded my expectations. Thanks again.
     
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    #16 DonnaSue, Mar 14, 2021
    Welcome @gklcorvette81 to CM. For most of your story, I can say, "been there, done that". But now its time to look forward and not in the rear view mirror.

    Like you, I had a secret fetish for ladies lingerie for most of my life. Once my wife discovered it and after an adjustment period, She began to use what She perceived as my "dirty little secret" as a wedge to get me to submit to Her. As it turns out, one thing led to another and She has now been feminizing me (not unwillingly) for about 5-6 years. We both enjoy our FLR.

    I can only wish you a similar future. If you would like to chat, please hit me up.
     
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    #17 Shepherdsflock, Mar 14, 2021
    Super important question: who are you really? If you could be exactly that inner person that you know you are, what and who would that be?

    You might be in for a journey that spans a lot more than chastity.
     
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    #18 Dr MBogo, Mar 14, 2021
    Sorry to hear it! My experience here has been that most people are very tolerant and very understanding. I think you'll find plenty of people to talk to and things to talk about. Good luck!
     
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    #19 subrick, Mar 15, 2021
    Hi!

    Welcome to the Mansion!!!

    I'm sorry to hear of your marital issues, but I really think you've come to the right place to find a sympathetic ear or two (or two hundred!).

    Good Luck, I hope things go smoothly for you.

    ~subrick
     
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    #20 Ms. Joanne, Mar 15, 2021
    Hello and welcome.
     
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    #21 Anonoman, Mar 15, 2021
    Welcome @gklcorvette81 !

    My faith in humanity rises a little every time I read a post asking for a little help and so many people immediately offer; what a great forum... :+1:
     
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    #22 Jack In A Cage, Mar 16, 2021
    Welcome. Other than the cross dressing stuff, this could have been written by me 5 years ago....It does indeed get better. What helped me was little steps, my dog gave me a reason to get out of bed. Then I met two incredible women, one slowly became my Mistress (@Destiny103181) the other remains one of my closest friends. I can honestly say, I am much much happier than I was 5+ years ago and I never thought I would be happy again....Good luck to you and stick with it.
     
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    #23 prien2, Mar 16, 2021
    Welcome and keep looking forward. Better times are coming.
     
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    #24 subhubandy, Mar 16, 2021
    I would not wish a divorce on an enemy, it sucks. BUT it was the start of my life getting back on-track so here's hoping for the same with you. Control your masturbation and seek outlets of service for your pent up energy...
     
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    #25 John, Mar 17, 2021
    Welcome I see we have many things I common. It's like when the wrong relationship ends it's time to live the life you always wanted but never did.
     
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