Chastity book that my wife could relate to

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    It seems like my wife would be more open to read chapter in a book, than to login and browse on CM for chastity information. I am looking for a book that is instructional and has chapters that would apply to married FEMDOM couple, an all encompassing guide. Thanks for tips.
     
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    My Queen really enjoyed this, and got a lot out of it. It made her feel better to know that in most cases she was on the right path.
     
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    "Be Careful what you wish for" By Sarah Jameson. Really informative, really honest, really normal. Very helpful. Reall explains it in good language.
     
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    This three book series was a good first read for my husband and me. We are currently rereading the third book. It can seem a bit reparative in some points. However, it’s a good start. We read to one another in bed at nights.
     
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    It only took four responses for someone to offer what you asked for, a book.
    So sorry about that, it's very standard here.

    Ask for a hat, you will get a bicycle.
     
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    These are the books we've read. They were great for our one-on-one discussions and knowing what to expect. I highly recommend them:

    Male Chastity Play for Modern Lovers: Rekindle Romance for the Best Sex of Your Lives! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B087SDMNBD

    Locked-In Love: How two weeks in chastity can end the barter system, renew courtship and make a better husband. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1723974013

    I also bought this one, and we read it together after about 18 months of chastity. I would recommend it at the beginning of a chastity journey as well. It is written by a self-proclaimed "vanilla wife" who has learned that chastity is very beneficial:

    Chastity: A Guide for Vanilla Wives https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0948GRVT5
     
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    This is pretty straight forward, normal down to earth approach. On amazon
     

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    Those are some great books, but I could never get my wife interested enough in reading an entire book. So I gave her these 3 blog posts to read one at a time. Each is about the length of a chapter in a book. She read 1 each over the course of a day and we discussed them over dinner. It REALLY helped her accept chastity at the very beginning stage:

    https://cuttothechaste.net/your-husband-wants-chastity/
    https://cuttothechaste.net/benefits-women-can-expect-from-male-chastity/
    https://cuttothechaste.net/the-care-and-feeding-of-the-male-in-chastity/
     
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    keep them coming! I think some of these will make it for good bedtime reading. Thanks.
     
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    There’s also www.evolvingyourman.com
    There are some great posts (older ones) about chastity, orgasm control, etc.

    Start here https://www.evolvingyourman.com/chastity-orgasm-denial/page/4/
     
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    I read all of these aloud to my wife in the evening before bed or while she was in the bath. Zero work for her, and a way for us to spend quality time together. Really helped us get on the same page.
     
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    Sounds like your KH is similar to mine,

    What I found works is not books, not web,
    but a hybrid.

    Find a site like www.evolvingyourman.com

    Find some articles you think are relevant,
    Print them out in no more than six single sided pages.

    Then give them to her and tell her these are some informative articles which will take less than 7 to 10 minutes to read. Tell me which you like, tell me which you don't and I will provide you a bespoke packet for you to read once a week. (dont be pushy)

    Best of luck
     
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    IMO That’s probably because there’s not that much to write about. Most of the information isn’t new and it’s been beaten to death by numerous “books” out there basically repeating or copying what the previous person wrote.
     
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    I purchased this one for my wife after reading through the reviews.
    As I just gave this to her this morning I have no idea how it reads as it states I'm NOT supposed to read it, however many female reviewers appreciated the Baseline, porn free, non fetishised, and vulgar absent approach of the Female Author.

    Will update once she has given me her opinion....
     

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    I bought that for my wife. It is good reading for both male and female, because it gives the male insight to the female’s mindset.
     
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    Then I may ask to read it once she's done, however the inner workings of the Female Mind is something only an infinite number of volumes could possibly hope to cover
     
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    Try this one. Pretty short. Very basic. Even more basic than the happy marriage article website. Not too kinky, or over the top. Very easy read from a woman's perspective.

    Written. Specifically for men the introduce the concept of male chastity to their spouse. Screenshot_20231030-085930.png
     
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    It's 9.99 for paperback edition
     
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    cannot find that one
     
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    That is a really good book.... very short..... but excellent. Here's the link:
    https://www.amazon.com/Exploring-CHASTITY-ORGASM-DENIAL-Beginners-ebook/dp/B0CJRTX9RC/
     
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    Got it. No much reviews, but seem quite interesting. Thanks.
     
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