Anyone else cringe when you see this word?

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    This stuff doesn’t upset me, it’s just a word, it also makes me cringe when people overuse the word fiancé. Nothing that is getting my panties in a bunch. As far as it’s use and how would I feel if a woman used it? I’ve never really heard one use it, and the few that have may have had female on their profile but they weren’t. So I’m not sure how I would react if a female used the term, I’ll let you know if I ever find an actual female that says it.
     
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    It makes me cringe when people overuse the word panties : )
     
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    Im am indifferent about what sissy's and their partners or anyone else calls their genitals

    I agree wholeheartedly that I have never heard a female call her clitoris a clitty either.
    But I would have thought that the whole point is that a clitty is a man's small penis and not a woman's clitoris... rather it serves to differentiate between the two. It is quite obvious to me I'm surprised you can't see it


    You are of course entitled to your own opinion, but by posting you invite other opinions too.
    In light of that.
    Yes I do think you are being pointlessly oversensitive and have completely misunderstood the way others choose to use the word clitty.
     
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    I am indifferent to what terms people use for underwear whater gender is using the term or the underwear. But I can respect that a woman I respect does not favour the word and that's enough for me.
     
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    Pointlessly? I think there was a point. It being mainly that they are making themselves out to be somewhat female by using a word no female would ever use. I thought it was rather obvious, I’ll try to be clearer.
     
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    Hmm - is the use of the offending word meant to indicate how minuscule the part of the body is? Or is it just feminising the male part which has similar erectile tendencies and a seat of pleasure? Who knows?

    As a child in the Northern part of these Isles, there was, and still is of course, a nursery rhyme titled Wee Willie Winkie - who ran through the town etc. If the term that irritates, @Nicoftime , relates to size then I think Winkie would be more appropriate. ;)

    Now, the other words and usage that really annoy are ........ Hmm, maybe best not go there! LOL
     
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    I think wee Willie winky is perfect lol
     
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    Just to be clear it doesn’t upset me, I’m not mad at anyone, and I’m certainly not saying anyone or place needs to change. I was just venting a lil after reading the 500th “clitty” ...shudder... and thought “hey I wonder if I’m the only one here it makes cringe a little”.

    No pitchforks:p, and like I said before, I have my own gender issues so I’m not immune to or new to being or acting femme.
     
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    Screw it, I'll be the voice of dissent here (because it wouldn't be the Internet without it).

    W/we use clitty / dicklette around O/our household to describe my private area. It's not about the size or the inadequacy; it's that the cock has been tamed, controlled, and feminized (i.e. orgasms controlled, locked in chastity, squirting using a vibrator on occasion). It's like being referred to as Her "pet." It's about domestification and "clitty" and "dicklette" are the colloquialisms of choice.
     
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    I think people can call their genitals what they like, especially if it gives them a buzz. And people should most definitely pursue their consensual kinks.

    However, 90% of the time when I see "clitty" in the forums, it feels like I'm being made to be complicit in something quite sexist: the idea that the feminine is somehow inferior.

    Also, the clitoris is something a lot of us practically worship. Using the term for a penis feels blasphemous.

    So, though I don't judge people on their kinks - we don't usually get to select them! - I'd be very happy to never again see a post entitled "My Mommy locked up my little clitty..." etc.
     
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    Perhaps cringe is too strong a word; but I do think clitty is such a twee word to use. OK at one time all males basically have a clitorisis; but now it's a dick or a little dick as the case may be. On the other hand it could more accurately be called a big clitty rather than a little clitty.
     
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    By all means dissent :D! One way discussions are boring.

    I totally understand it’s use and it’s intent, but let me ask you this. When you say colloquialism of choice... is it your or her choice? Like I was saying, I’ve never really heard a female use the term.
     
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    Isn't the whole sissy thing meant to be twee?
     
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    I didn’t really mention it too much but yes I think the marginalization of their parts is a big part of it too. I am also not a fan of the word titties either for the same reason.
     
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    It may well be.
     
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    I figured it would be half the fun! Discourse about this sort of thing is important. I will also be the first to say that we do not generally conform to the typical sissy tropes that circulate. O/ours is a more bespoke version. The term is something W/we both use. I'm sure I introduced the term into the relationship, but ultimately She adopted it. I would say that I cannot see Mistress typing it online frequently, but it is definitely used frequently around O/our house.

    The way that W/we look at it is through a lens of Female superiority. This means that a clit is the superior sex orga and that a "clitty" is less than a clit, as a penis is inferior to Female anatomy. It's especially germane when locked up. I cannot speak for anyone but myself, but that is the logic in O/our household.
     
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    So you basically just don’t like baby talk. Oochie coochie coo and the like. Next time a sissy talks about her pantied clitty just remind her that somewhere the Queen has a tear rolling down her face for her language being butchered.
     
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    Not really sure where you are getting any of this, I don’t think clitties or titties is baby talk, and I don’t remember being too concerned about the queens English. Nor do I recall why this subject, or more to the point me, seems to stir animosity.

    You can dress it up all you want, give whatever reason you have for saying it, and I will listen and understand where you’re coming from...it still leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Some people just don’t like sauerkraut and I’m one of them. We can discuss it, debate it’s merits and delve deeper into the abyss of why I dislike it. In the end I don’t care for it, and never will. I don’t like sauerkraut or clitty.
     
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    Or fiance and titty.
     
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    #46 jemima, Oct 2, 2019
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    @Guy
    please Sir, i love what i do. its lots better than working in bars.
     
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    What do you do?
     
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    i do cleaning Miss. and cooking.
     
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    Make sure to stack the tuppies properly in the drawer when they are dry so that the drawer doesn’t get stuck when you try to open it next time.
     
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    Exactly my point, you are proud to be what you are, a house-maid. As my maids are.

    They choose to doi, so it is not humiliating, demeaning or degrading.
     
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