It only takes a few minutes of reading through CM that for the majority of guys who are locked it was initiated by the men. I'm curious if there are other KHs out there who initiated the chastity and FLR aspects of your relationship? To those who are not familiar with me and @Thatguyontheinternet, we are a real couple who have been practicing chastity on and off for the last 5 years. The last two have been "off" since we had our first child. but he is now locked back up for the last month. We started out by seeing a cage in the local adult superstore and it intrigued me/us, so we decided to buy one and try it and out the rest is history. Of course he was reluctant to try it in the beginning since our relationship started out with him as the Dom and me as the sub, but it turns out that male chastity and FLR fit us quite nicely. He has grown to really appreciate what chastity does for us, but he has never enjoyed or craved the cage itself. As time goes by, the longer he is locked and the more he is teased, the more obedient, doting and submissive he is, just as you would expect anyone who is locked it be.