Am I too strict?

There’s nothing to discuss, she says.

My fantasy, her rules.

This is from my wife.

At the beginning, when he first mentioned the subject of chastity, I was unsure whether it was for me. Now, 4 years down the line I find myself naturally becoming stricter and I would say this is a way of life for us now.
Yes he is locked and denied for weeks on end and he moans sometimes that he needs some attention, and in the beginning I would feel guilty and give in to him and usually that would end in an orgasm.
Not anymore!! I don’t feel guilty ever!!
I choose when and what we do and today he has reached his longest record so far of being denied an orgasm for 108 days.
I’d say I’m doing a great job!!

He wanted this lifestyle.
He wanted me to be totally in control.
He said if we agreed on one month then it should definitely be two.
So for all you new beginners just
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR!

 

Ps. I’ve had him locked since January 1st 2023, that’s 139 days.
He’s been denied a full orgasm since February 1st, that’s 108 days.

 

Or is some one writing with their dick again? mmmmm....not sure that was called for my friend!

Bit harsh considering the initial post was from my wife/kh.


Just for your information, she managed to get me to over 120 days, longest ever, without any orgasms at all, either full, ruined etc. Yes she did unlock a couple of times, and why we were away, she teased a little.

I loved it, and more importantly, so did she.

But for your informantion, she completley, "out of the blue" decided to unlock me this weekend gone, teased the heck out of me. She let me tease her too, but after about 1/2 hr she said i deserved to cum, she said she'd let me have a full orgams, but she'd do it really slowly with her hand while she stradled me, she got me to point, and just carried on, lovel and slowly, it was one of the most pleasurable orgams iv'e ever had, it was amazing, so worth the 4 months of waiting.

Not writen with my dick, total truth here..

Thanks

 

I'm allowed to be free for a day or two, then she's locking me away again, not sure how long for.

 

Mmmm, not sure it's all fantasy, it's the exact life she/we have been living these past 5/6 months. It's been an incredible experience, iv'e loved it, my wife has REALLY REALLY loved it.

And so it starts all over again....

 

Totally agree, thanks for posting..

 

Thinking back now, i too wish she'd been stricter, i actually deep down wished she'd actually stopped just before the point of no return, only to tell me i wasn't going to be allowed to cum.

I will show her these latest posts, and i bet she'll feel the same. Maybe the few negative posts put a little doubght in her mind.
I should imagine this next period might be a little different, strict is what she likes, strictness is what i love!

Maybe also a little reset is needed, me being constantly horny for her all the time may of been a little overwhelming for her.

 

I don't know whether other wives/kh's sometimes feel the same, interested to know actually!

 

Would you say the poll results are overwhemingly in her favour, 76% is pretty high, i think my k/h wanted it higher, maybe if it had of been higher then she may of stopped just at the point! Oh, that doesn't bear thinking about, at the exact point i would of given her anything to take me over.....

 

Question from my wife/KH.

Should I lock him straight back up?

 

I’m locked back up! It starts again, but unlike before, she’s had three orgasms this month, and she made me perform oral sex on her each time, it was heaven.

Not sure when I’ll be unlocked or teased, but if anything like this past week I’d to go by, I’m not really bothered. To be made to perform oral sex while locked is exquisite.

This time she’s going to be even more strict and demanding with me, she say! it’s a dream to hear her speak those words, sometimes I think I am I am in fantasy world, but this is my REAL life.
Thanks.

 

Hi, it's LM here.
I think she is doing the exact correct thing, but more importantly, she says she IS doing the right thing, whatever she decides to do, is the RIGHT way.
I suppose when we first talked about what we both wanted, then i did really want a strict k/h. She was unsure to start with, but has since grwon into this role, and she absoluetly loves it.
I'v always had a much higher sex drive than my wife, i should imagine most guys on here too, but now our sex drives are much different, i'm still incredibly horny all the time, but now mostly denied any pleasure, by that i mean orgams, edging, unlocking etc. all my wives sex drive has increased 10 fold, she now has the most orgasms she's ever had, all the time, i admit, mostly are without me, but she always tells me afterwards, or texts me the details while i'm at work.
Occasionally she'll let me touch her, she'll also make me give her oral (her new best way, since chastity, she adores it)
She'll tease me with her body too, getting undressed, sexy lingerie etc.
So in hindsight, i'm not totally ignored i think, i just do what she wants or allows me to see.

She did let me cum about 2 weeks ago, then she locked me back up, "no more orgasms, of anykind for you now, untill at least the end of the year" "your little dick is not worth bothering about or needing to cum" she's now told me, and i think she reaaly means it. Thats her strictness again, and ultimatly, thats what i dreamed about.

I think i'm very lucky.....

ps. my k/h wife agrees with your post...

 

Wife/key holder here.

10 month update……

I thought I’d give an update of this year.

Because I’m/we are still fairly new to chastity and orgasm denial I didn’t want to put any pressure on myself.
I initially thought and read that I need to try and give him as few orgasms as possible, he’s always had many each month, a fair few each week, mostly given by me to him! So I thought maybe I should try and limit him to at least once a month, he, LM secretly wished for as few as possible, (maybe once a month for him was not strict enough). It’s now September and so far he’s had 12, mostly ruined, while caged with my wand, or by hand.

Now, I've absolutely loved playing this game/living this lifestyle, it’s been so much fun, I've had more orgasms myself than I've ever had, so it’s been a win/win situation for us both!

I love the idea of him being crazy for me all the time, which he is, it makes me feel so sexy all the time too.

Something else we came across, my husbands love of SPH, I’d never ever been aware of anything like that before, I was unsure about it at first, maybe worried about hurting feelings, or making him feel inadequate, but boy, once we started, I just fell into that role naturally, I use SPH all the time now, I love it and find it fairly easy to do now, I don’t even have to think about it, the words he loves, just flow of my tongue so easily.

He’s been banned from any form of piv, his size does nothing for me at all, nor his stamina.
In fact, part of the teasing process I did allow him on three occasions to have piv, the first time he lasted about 1 & 1/2 minutes, then second time he lasted about 50 odd seconds, and finally, the last time he only managed 34 seconds before he came, and each time it happened he fell out and I clamped my thighs around his little dick so he couldn’t move it, totally ruined him on all three occasions.
To think he could only last such a short amount of time because he was that turned on by me & desperate gives me a huge sexual thrill.

Anyway, I’ve decided to have him unlocked
now for a while, he’s been locked almost since January 1st, he’s banned from touching himself, and he won’t even tempt too without my approval, which is a NO..

I’m still having lots of fun & orgasms, just not him anymore.

He’s had his quota for the year, I’ll tease and edge him when I feel like it, and sometimes being unlocked but unable to touch yourself is even more of a tease.

Am I too strict? I don’t think I am, I’d like to be stricter, so would he.

Next year he’s definitely having less than what he’s had so far this year, maybe I’ll try for once every three months, four times a year, what do you think?

The constant tease & SPH continues.

Have I been ok this year? Should I lock him back up for the remainder of the year?

Thank you for all the feedback we’ve had over the year. X