A New Chapter Unfolds

you are a great Mistress. I would love that, as bondage is my first love

 

Omg. Being tied up with his parts in chastity and licking your pussy. That should put him as close to the edge as possible.

Sure would work for me I know

 

Being restrained and blindfolded and listening to your domina's slow approach, her high heels clicking on the hard floor, is a wonderful thrill and one that I love. Yes it is very arousing.

 

sounds lovely

 

I love how you have taken the lead in your relationship

 

May I ask how you managed to get him locked up in his chastity cage again after being so aroused and denied? Did you have to ice him down?

 

Thank-you for sharing your story. I have enjoyed reading it very much - especially when you made love to him on your anniversary. I love being pegged by my KH like that.

The most recent entry on restraint for a period sounds interesting - my KH and I aren't into bondage. Longest I've been restrained was about 10mins a few years ago and I think I could have easily escaped.

I have some issues with my mental health that make me a bit weary of trying being fully restrained (especially anything with further sensory deprivation, etc.) but following reading your posts I've just discussed with my KH so we'll see what happens if she wants to encourage me to try.

 

You said at the beginning that you were looking forward to "a stretch without the responsibility of being in charge." Yet you seem to be over thinking it.

 

this sounds fantastic. While I really oppose this one

, but that could just be me.

 

Are you still incorporating ‘games’ into your chastity play? As you could still give the illusion of keeping control, but abiding by the game by allowing him the chance to earn it. A simple rigging of the draw could give you exactly what you want, whilst never giving the impression you’re craving a little freedom.

I wouldn’t worry too much about the aftermath and sub space as my current experience has shown me that there is nothing like a bout of release to really make the cage work its magic. Truly enjoying the freedom makes giving it up all the harder and the cage becomes super effective almost instantly. I’ve been back in for 10 days after a month or so without, I’ve had almost no teasing, I don’t need it, I’m bending over backwards to ensure all my wife’s needs are met.
I’d give home one last fantastic experience right before locking him up.

I would focus you attention on ensuring he enjoys the weeks stretch as much as possible. Actively encourage him to pleasure himself, touch, play fondle. Comment on how much he must be enjoying his erections. When I was free I was almost still feeling guilty about doing those things and if my wife had acknowledged them occurring, and further more encouraged the whole experience would have been more fruitful.
Give him the fantasy wife in the bedroom, ask what he wants to do you and comply (within reason). You can keep the element of control by allowing whatever he wants but first asking him to do something for you. Could be sexual or just domestic. Nothing like building expectations whilst carrying out something else first.

“Ok, I’ll be on my knees waiting but I need you to take the trash out first.”

“Ok, but I’m going to need you to wash me in a nice hot bath first” - and then when he’s rushed through that make him wash your feet for 10 minutes or so. Draw it out.

I really enjoyed my freedom. I did miss the controlling wife I was accustomed to, it’s why we allow chastity - ultimately we’re submissive, but there was no way she could control my masturbation or sexual urges without the cage. Embrace it fully.

 

You're the leader MsPamela, do it how you like. Send a definite relocking time, "6:00 on the 7th," so he knows exactly and can watch the clock tick towards his resubmission. And I definitely support continued recycling, that's just the price of vacation and the privilege of you.

 

A break may be a fantsatic for you both to reset and take a little vacation from the power control.
I am guessing that wuopld be very enjoyable for both of you. If you want to ogo back to chastity afterwards you must negotiate before the break and be sure that he will be going back into the cage. Use leverage to be sure that all remains as you wish. You have all the power and leverage right now. It would be a shame to loose that.

Not sure what your take on this may be, but take away his mens under and hive him panties and bras, tell heim he has to wear them at all times, except for bedroom time, until relocked. Or buy him a maids outfit and make him wear that all the time, unless he has to run errands for you. When you get to the time to go back in the cage. Tell you have invited friends over, He will want to get out of the uniform. Tell him no unless he gets relocked. (leverage) That will make him want to go back in the cage at your desired time. Anfd that time should be left up to you when you desire. could be a day, could be a month

The other option I have read that you already used.
Hubby entered the room precisely 30 minutes later, smiling when he saw that I had laid out some of our bondage gear. I greeted him with a brief kiss, then tied the blindfold around his head. I made sure his eyes were completely covered and the knot was tight. I wanted to ensure he could not see a thing. I moved behind him, kissing his neck and running my hands over his chest and shoulders. My hands continued down his arms until I reached his wrists, which I pulled towards me and then secured behind his back.

Returning to his front, we kissed again. A deep, passionate kiss that left me tingling. I unbuttoned his shirt so that I could caress his bare chest and he moaned softly as I pinched his nipples. I unbuckled his pants and let them fall to the floor, joined a moment later by his briefs. His cock was straining in its cage, bits of it bulging between the steel bars. I cupped his balls in my hand, giving them the gentlest of squeezes. I pressed my lips to his cage, giving it a quick kiss and then running my tongue up and down its length. I sucked the tip into my mouth, continuing to tease with my tongue. Hubby can only feel little snippets through the cage, but it was enough. His moans were music to my ears.

After a minute or so I stood up, announced that I felt overdressed and began to remove my clothes. I took my time, letting hubby's anticipation grow even further. He leaned his head back, attempting to catch a glimpse of me from under the blindfold, and giving up once he realized it was futile. I returned to him, kissing him full on the lips while pulling him tightly against my naked body. The feeling of his bare chest against my breasts was wonderful. He instinctively tried to return my hug, only to be caught short by his bonds.

We continued to make out, with me rubbing my body against him while he was forced to remain passive. Unable to see me. Unable to touch me. Finally, after several minutes I broke the embrace. We were both breathing heavily, both ready for something more. I looked down as his caged cock, swollen and straining, and felt it deserved a little freedom. I unlocked the device and hubby's cock immediately began to grow. It was fully erect in seconds, jutting out and begging for attention. I resisted the urge to fondle it.

Instead, I retired to the bed, leaving hubby standing there as I slipped between the sheets. The cool linens were refreshing against my skin. I began to awkwardly caress my own breasts, self conscious and uncertain. It had been a long time since I had indulged in self pleasure, and even then I hadn't been very adept at the practice. I nervously looked over at hubby, standing there helplessly with his pants around his ankles and his cock poking into the air. I stared at his cock and imagined stroking it, or maybe having him stroke himself. I was starting to feel tingles and realized that I had been pinching my nipples. Pinching a bit harder than hubby ever does. Not so much as to be painful, but just enough to make my pussy ache.

I slid a hand between my legs, surprised at how wet I was. One finger easily slipped inside, then another. My other hand continued to pinch my nipple and the combination was amazing. My earlier awkwardness had all but evaporated and my hands knew what my body needed. I closed my eyes, savoring the experience and losing track of time. After a while I realized that I had been moaning, quite loudly. The brief pang of self consciousness was wiped away by the sensations flowing through my body. I ached for more. I grabbed my vibrator from the nightstand, and eagerly pressed it against my pussy. The pulsating vibrations built and built until suddenly my body was in the grip of an orgasm. Wave after wave coursed through me, followed by more gentle aftershocks while I gradually came back down to earth.

It was peaceful and serene as the minutes ticked by. Suddenly I remembered poor hubby. He was still standing there, hands behind his back and cock begging for attention. I walked up to him and pressed my fingers, still glistening with my juices, to his lips. As he licked them clean, I think his cock became even harder. I could only imagine how much he ached. I was very tempted to give him a little relief, perhaps a dozen strokes to get him right to the edge,

Now at this point you can have your pleasure, but before letting out of the bonds, clean him up, let him relax and lock him back up yourself.

Either way, you must remain in control.

Good luck,
can't wait to hear more

 

I always feel all of these relationships should have a vacation from the kink each year. A chance to reconnect, have fun and stretch things out. I just had a week of freedom while on vaca- but by the end of the week I was looking forward to relocking- you might find he feels the same way.

 

Oh keep us up dated please

 

Do you plan on performing oral on him during this vacation or is that out of the question? I remember you saying a while back that you stopped performing oral on him, even prior to chastity, but that you do occasionally do it now, but only when he’s locked. Ironically, that is exactly what happened with my wife.

 

What about your needs? It seems like you must sacrifice along with your husband which is something my wife and I don't want to do. There's cuckolding, but she also doesn't want to do that. There's oral, which I like (a lot), and she does too, just not as much as PiV. We even have a strap-on (for me to use on her, thank you), yet she wants the real thing. So the only real way forward is that I am let out to service her.

The holy grail would be if I could last indefinitely, Essentially, fuck her till she can't take it anymore, then put the cage back on. Sign me up, unfortunately, I think that's still a science experiment that no one is telling me about.

 

This is a wild, and fantastic, way to think about it!

 

True! But in actuality its more like a steady up for about 4 weeks and then you start to plateau, thank God!. I think I'd break down if it kept going up after that!

And for me personally (your mileage may vary), I don't feel fully satiated from a full orgasm after waiting 4 weeks or more. So I don't experience the full drop.

 

I am catching up with your tread and updates. Truly amazing reading your experiences and how your relationship is growing.

Every now and the Mistress/Wife does the same for me: she has the desire to be the sub roll for my time taking care of her. I never go too far but she seems to really get a lot out of it and some of her most intense orgasms which excites me (really tightens the cage a lot!). Its not something she wants all the time. When she does I work very hard though to try and give her what I think she wants. It cant be me thinking what I would want in her place there because she isnt really true sub and I am not a true dom but it works for us and I am glad it worked for both of you.

 

I wouldn't really get going dom for the night I'd have to self control in so many ways. After everything she's put me through it would be extremely painful and humiliating. So completely different set of rules where I have almost no hard limits. I think we both know this so thankfully hasn't come up in discussion, it would be a set-back in what we're doing I think. On a side note she recently quit self love, although I said I can't help to enforce this whist also submitting to enforced chastity I think it's a good idea.