KH and I attending First Lifestyle Club

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    #1 SleeplessInSeattle, May 2, 2024
    Hello CM community!

    My KH and I are going to our first lifestyle club tomorrow, and the theme is fetish night. We are both fairly new to chastity (infrequent lockups past couples years) but my KH plans to keep me locked the whole time. She voiced a few thoughts on what we could end up doing but I wanted to reach out to you all and ask what we can expect?

    Thanks again everyone for your input, advice, and suggestions/recommendations!

    -SleeplessInSeattle
     
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    #2 newplay, May 2, 2024
    not sure what to expect as I have never been to one.
    I do hope you have a good time
     
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    #3 SleeplessInSeattle, May 3, 2024
    Thats ok, I appreciate the response and thank you! I'm sure my KH will :)
     
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    #4 The Queens consort, May 3, 2024
    We will need a full report afterwards.
     
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    #5 CS2, May 3, 2024
    I have been caged a few times on standard/bi nights and everyone was really accepting and interested in the cage, it was a great conversation starter. Women seemed especially interested and you get all the usual questions, does that hurt? what about night time? how long does she keep you locked? etc etc
     
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    #6 Pepe_, May 3, 2024
    I'm quite curious now about the type of club that was, what it focused on, etc. Can you share?
     
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    #7 Rimmer69, May 3, 2024
    I can't add anything to your question, But I hope you and your KH have a Great night and you Both Enjoy your new experience.
     
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    #8 CS2, May 3, 2024
    Was just a normal UK swingers club on a standard night, also done some bi nights, no themes or anything
     
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    #9 SleeplessInSeattle, May 4, 2024
    Appreciate the insight! I didn't think people would be all that curious, so if they are it won't be as much of a surprise now, thanks!
     
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    #10 SleeplessInSeattle, May 4, 2024
    Thanks for your best wishes anyways. She seems pretty excited to tease me all night long and I'm definitely gonna enjoy wherever it takes us.
     
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    #11 Paladintwk, May 5, 2024
    Hope you had a good time, but your KH is in charge so whatever she wants or is persuaded to do will happen. First timers usually just watch a lot. If you have a more dominant KH you may find yourself sucking a lot of co*k , eating a lot of pus^y and finding out that you have a boi pus*y
     
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    #12 Locked PhL guy-n-Nj, May 7, 2024
    My wife and I have been to our lifestyle club a few times while I was locked in chastity. Our most recent time we started to go to the play room and I had to remind her that I was locked. My anxiety was so high but she gave me her key and let me unlock she said she wasn’t ready for ppl to see me locked yet.
     
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    #13 CS2, May 7, 2024
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    I guess it really depends on the club, the type of venue/night/event, country etc but I have seen a few people caged at clubs before even on fairly normal nights. I expect if you went to a kink or BDSM club/night you would see it a lot more. First few times I went caged I kept my boxers on but the last few times I haven't and everyone was really great about it and just super interested. I think it helps if you have a nice looking metal cage over a boring looking plastic one.

    I think if you are kept locked and she is playing it defo starts to move in to more cockold territory which is fine but be aware of that.

    @SleeplessInSeattle how did your club visit go?
     
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    #14 SleeplessInSeattle, May 10, 2024
    Hey all thanks for the well wishes and such! Sorry for the late update, but it was an amazing time! We mostly watched (first time after all) but did find ourselves being a bit handsy and mouthy later on one of the "private beds" until my KH couldn't take it any longer and we got an uber back to our hotel. She ended up having one of the longest orgasms ever with some of the toys she brought and I think set a record for O's in a night she tells me. Needless to say it was a success and we might be checking out this sorta thing every now and again!
     
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