Preventing erections

You’ll still get an “erection” even in a small cage. Most of it is just inside your body. If you have a proper fitting cage you shouldn’t wake up through the night. I only wake up if I have to pee. I can sleep through the night now that my cage fits well.

 

Either it's more of the power trip side of femdom or it's getting into total emasculation and sissification or even castration level kink play. Like, "haha your little dick can't even get hard anymore!"

 

Exactly what Marcus said above. I have at least an erection an hour when sleeping. I used to wake up 6-10 times a night when I had a cage that didn’t fit properly.

 

I mean it's a hot fantasy somewhat but you don't actually want to break your dick.....do you? Some guys actually do. Be careful what you wish for....

 

I had a base ring that was too small and it was quite painful during erections

 

Never made it that far myself. I could see how the temptation could get out of control. I'm just giving my opinions and experiences. I'm a novice/newbie. By no means an expert. I kind of see the whole kink with fresh eyes so to speak, as someone who didn't read about it until a few months ago.

 

I have had the right size (small) cage and ring for over a year now. It's not on permanently, but as much as our busy lives allows. To be honest, it's a lot more comfortable having my erection attempts restricted and controlled by it. Morning wood appears to stop and be nulled before it gets anywhere close to waking me up. So to answer the Ops question about erections, for me it's comfort whilst I'm caged.

 

I've asked that question before too and didn't really get an answer.
My queen has her fun with my erections in our cage only PA device. That I already get VERY hard from caressing her.
Mostly she strokes me a little before we get up in the morning. And goes to the bathroom knowing that I can't just go on without her since pulling out is not an option at all.
Worries about ED or sleep disturbances can't come up that way either.

 

I don't have a PA. We use a Vice Mini with an anti-pullout that is very effective at preventing erections. I'm caged 24x7. We both like that I only get erections with her. The couple of times I left my cage off overnight after a release were the most difficult because of the temptation to touch myself when I was awakened by a nocturnal erection.

 

Many chaste husbands and keyholding wives reason as follows: Erections are the core of having a penis and masculinity. Without them, there is no penetration or ejaculation. Men with erections are thinking of penetrating, of ejaculating, of women and vaginas as receptacles, of themselves as the active or leading or initiating force. Men with erections are inconsiderate and many if not most cum too quickly or selfishly to satisfy a woman's slower more intimate needs. Erections are the enemy of intimacy. Only when a man has given up erections can he stop thinking with his dick, stop thinking of his needs, and seek and accept the slow intimacy a wife needs, can he worship the divine vagina selflessly with his tongue. Erections are a privilege granted by our wives on those occasions when she desires what they have to offer.

 

You are so right! And I forgot to include this in my last post. Not being able to have an erection while we are being physically intimate changes my approach to my wife to be selfless and not focused on my personal pleasure. I actually am having a more fulfilling sex life with my wife by being in chastity most of the time that we are physically intimate.

 

Well said

 

that easy to anser. when men have erection they play with themself and the Lady that has lock them in a cage dont want them to do that.

 

i dont know really cos i not seen one but i dont think it wud stop a man play with his willy cos if it what i think it is. it only cover the top bit.

 

Erection control is a much more flexible reward system than orgasm control because there is no downside and it can be used way more often. If my KH gives an hour of erections and then locks me up again I am ready and eager for another hour of freedom instantly. (Which admittedly I never get.) We use spikes on my cage to enforce control. (Small spikes, which don't do any damage. Actually I don't know that medium or large spikes would either. I have never needed to try those.) Anyway I only get three or four orgasms a year, so erection control is a much more useful system. I am set free for thirty minutes to a hour several times a week for any of a long list of purposes (which is growing all the time). If my KH wants me to do something not on my normal list of tasks -- walking the dog when it is cold and raining -- she will promise an hour of freedom. Of course I would do the task anyway, but this makes her feel better. She feels she is not exploiting me. Not that I would mind that either.

 

@MichaelAlan I presume the glans cap device you are considering is similar to the following. I can see how it would work but would require a PA lock. Looks intriguing but odd to me, just my opinion.

https://www.dhgate.com/product/latest-stainless-steel-chastity-device-cock/427006172.html

Also, any form of vibe against either a cage or glans cap would provoke a release. Whether you'd find that satisfying or not is purely personal preference.