The Wife Has Turned

Hello world,

I figured it was time to join the party.

I’ve had a thing for chastity for about six years now. I told my wife about it four years ago by ordering a device on Amazon without telling her. When it arrived, she asked “what the hell is this?” Just some new sex toy I saw online I thought could be fun. She’s naturally a bit kinky so she will try just about anything, and she asked me to put it on. I did so in the bathroom and when I came out with it on, she freaked. She wanted me to take it off immediately. She thought it was hurting my junk. After a bit of time, I tried it again. She still didn’t like it. But I didn’t give up. I ordered a different cage, this time steel. When it arrived, she texted me a picture of it. I came home and put it on, she had to go out to meet a friend, so we left it on while I was home. After a couple hours I drove to pick her up. She’d forgotten I had it on and quite frankly didn’t give a shit. We got home and she told me to take it off. A month or two later we went to the movies. Before we left the house I asked if she wanted to “do the cage thing?” She said whatever, fine. I put it on, we went, I felt stupid. We came home, I took it off. Done. I hated that cage so I tossed it. Too heavy. But I order another, a black CB6000s knock off. When it came she got a bit annoyed that I ordered another. Some time passes and the cage sits in the bag. But one night, as we’re getting ready to go out to dinner, my wife tells me that I should wear the cage to dinner. Okay, we’ll that’s different. I do as she asks, we go to dinner, come home, take the cage off and fuck. That’s it. More time goes by and that’s it. One day when my wife wasn’t home I put the black cage on and, it being a cheap knock off, it snapped. The next cage I ordered was a clear plastic holy trainer knock off. Great quality, surprisingly. And the most comfortable of all. One day I decide to broach the subject and ask if she’d think it were hot if I wore the cage all day on a Sunday. “Okay.” Still not really into it, but Sunday is usually the day we clean the house, and I told her that since my dick is locked and she has the keys, she has the power. I offered to do all the chores if she’d unlock me later. She liked the sound of that. We’d do every so often, granted it wasn’t all that often. But then I started to make her realize that if I’m really horny, I’m more inclined to do more and be sweeter and be at her beck and call. Which was true. In fact, when we fuck and I finish, my attitude changes and she started to notice. More time goes by, a few more cleanings in the cage happen, but it’s really not escalating. We did spend one Saturday running errands with me caged, but once we went to bed, she wanted it off. But then, in January this year, she thought it would be interesting if I wore the cage to work. So I did, all the while being nervous as hell! I came home, we took it off and banged. Then the cage started going on more during the weekend. She started calling me her slave. Things were taking a turn, but then I had to go on a work trip for eight weeks, and all the air went out of the sails. But the last few weeks have been promising. More so than ever and they’re why I finally spoke up and said “hi” here. The weekend Sunday caging started happening. Then, she wanted me to wear it to work. I’ve worn the cage three times to work this week. And today, I put the cage on when she was in the shower this morning. I didn’t tell her I did. When she got out, I was kissing her and she told me to put on the cage. I told her there wasn’t enough time, and she was bummed. So she drives me to work, and just as I get out, I reach in my pocket and hand her the keys. She literally squealed with joy. She texted me saying she left the keys out on her desk for anyone to see all day. When I got home, she said she left the keys at work and didn’t know where they were. But eventually she gave the keys back and told me to take it off. I think we’re really headed in a great direction.

 

Hey everyone!

Wow, I can’t believe it’s been over a year since I posted. Let me bring everyone up to speed:

My wife really enjoys being the boss. Like, big time enjoys it. Me being caged has become pretty normal when we do it. We are both very comfortable going out with me caged, shopping, date nights, going over to a friends house. It’s not very taboo to us.

My wife loves to call me “slave.” She reminds me all the time that I’m a slave, the trick now is to have her associate the cage with the whole slave thing. She’s enjoyed all the perks that go along with me being caged, but can sometimes let the fun of the cage escape her.

Now let me be a little honest: there was a point this year where she really liked this new lifestyle. The only problem for me was she was really taking the slave thing to heart and could really be a bitch sometimes. I started to feel kinda embarrassed by the whole thing, and when she would order me to put the cage on, I’d kinda laugh it off. So things fizzled a touch. My fault.

One of the problems has been the cage itself. The plastic holy trainer knockoff gets pretty putrid after a day or two. Plus my wife is still nervous about me sleeping with the cage on. So the fact that I’d always take it off at night and put it back on in the morning was a bummer.

But, I recently purchased an open steal cage. A short, modest cage so it’s not all that heavy. I showed it to here and her reaction was wow, it looks so serious. I said it will be much more hygienic, so we can leave it on.

The base ring that came with it was too small. It was comfortable, but the slightest arousal wild turn my balls blue and cold. So I had to wait for a bigger size, which I just got in the mail. Yesterday was the first day wearing the new cage. I’m super sick at the moment so I slept in the guest room so my wife doesn’t get sick, but I slept with the cage on. I don’t think she’s aware of it. And I’m not going to remind her that I have the cage on or that I slept in it until she remembers we never took it off, or when she sees me get in the shower. Then, hopefully, she’ll realize it’s no big deal sleeping in this cage.

Okay, another development. I don’t think my wife would tell anyone about our little secret, but her sister was over the other day, and while my wife was making dinner and I was cleaning up some stuff, her sister called out to me if I can get her a drink. I said sure, and as I walked by, she said, “thank you, Slave.”

Sooo.... not sure what that was about.

 

Running into an issue and hoping you wonderful people can help me out.

My wife can’t seem to get over her worries of leaving me locked over night. She simply says she “doesn’t like it.” I think she is worried that I’ll hurt myself or something like that.

I went back to the plastic HT knockoff since the ring on the metal cage was just slightly too big. One day I’d love to get a custom cage but with all things considered that’s still a long way away.

So yeah... really need to get over this hump. She genuinely likes me locked up. She’s probably have me wear it everyday, but just not over night. Like the past three days we’ve taken it off at night and she told me in the morning to put it back on. And to be honest, if I wanted to (and I have in the past) I can squeeze one out in bed without her waking up. So I’d much rather be locked overnight just in case.

 

Thanks for the replies! So here is where we’re at.

This morning my wife told me to put the cage on. Nothing new, pretty standard. We go through swings where she wants me caged during the day so I thought that’s what this was. Not even an hour into it she wanted to play. I said I’d get her vibratory and she should cum while I help. She got a big smile on her face and said okay. Then I said I’d get her laptop so she could watch porn, which is her standard when vibing herself.

So we get set up, she picks a video and dives in while I touch and suck on her tits. Of course I get so damn hard it really starts to hurt. I try to adjust myself a few times and she asks if something is wrong. I just say that I’m really hard watching her. She asks to see, so I show her and of course my junk is fucking purple LOL. She is like oh my gosh take it off. I mean, why am I supposed to do at that point.

So I take the cage and ring off. So I start jerking off and she says “don’t cum. I didn’t say you can cum.”

Damn!! That was hot! So I keep jerking off and she cums and once she’s done she slaps my hand off my dick and says “that’s enough.”

After asking if she was serious and testing her a bit, she said that I wasn’t cumming and to put the cage back on. Honestly that was new because normally she loves seeing me cum and always wants me to.

Cage goes back on and we go about our day. About midday we take turns showering. When it was my turn I took the keys (she leaves them on her nightstand, which sucks) but only took off the tube so I can clean. She likes the plastic cage over the metal, which means daily cleaning.

When I’m in the shower she asked with disappointment if I had taken off the cage. I said I left the ring on dont worry. Just need to get clean then I’ll lock back up when I get out, which is what I did.

Nothing else happened the rest of the day. We watched a movie and some shows at night, then went to turn out the lights. But before doing so she asked, “do you still have it on?”

I’ve heard that before, and it’s always followed with “take it off.”

But tonight all she replied with was, “good.”

 

Well, went through the night waking up once with a massive erection that hurt like hell. I dealt with it and after twenty minutes or so was able to get back to sleep.

When we woke up as usual. Checking our phones and getting ready to work from home. I’m not sure if she has forgotten about the cage being on or what but she didn’t mention it at all this morning. I haven’t brought it up either. On it stays. I wonder when she will realize it’s still on, or if she knows it’s on and is fully meaning to leave me locked for a bit. I’m sure we will talk about it later today.

Sorry, nothing interesting, but at least we took this step.

 

Well! Went another night locked up.

Granted I think it’s because my wife has completely forgotten that the cage is on, LOL.

We didn’t talk about it yesterday and she didn’t bring it up. With how crazy the world is and us both working from home and keeping our seven month old entertained, I’m sure this is the last thing on her mind.

We’ll see how today goes. If she has forgotten, at least she can’t say anything bad happens if I sleep in it. But damn those night erections!

 

So yesterday it dawned on her all of a sudden that I was still locked up. We walked by each other and she was like, “wait, do you still have it on??”

“Yes, babe. You asked me that two nights ago before we went to bed, and said good. So yeah, it’s been on.”

We continued about our day but eventually I needed to shower and clean up. I asked her if I could take it off to shower.

“Obviously, you have to clean you dick.”

Correct, but the big question came next. “Do you want me to put it back on after?” She said no. Damn.

We went to bed later, and this morning I just said fuck it and put it back on. I put the keys on her night stand which she’ll find at some point today.

Trying to figure out why she is holding back even though I know she loves this shit as much as I do.

 

Hey everyone!

Thought I’d post an update since it’s been awhile and nothing significant has happened these past few months... until now.

No lockups had happened for awhile. It’s not that we didn’t want to it’s just that I didn’t initiate it and neither did she. My wife is more the type that if I put it on, she’s into it, but she isn’t going to force me to put it on.

So the other day I said fuck it and put it on in the morning and gave her the keys. She was excited, but then forgot about it to the point where she forgot it was still on that night so I ended up sleeping in it (she still doesn’t like that, thinks I’m going to cause damage).

So the next day I spent all day in it, too, after she realized it was still on. But that night she told me to take it off. But! And this is a big one for us... she said:

“I want you to put that back on first thing in the morning, and every morning! You put it on like it’s your underwear.”

Nice!

So I put it on as told the next morning. She was more touchy feely with my locked up junk that day. We showered together after taking a swim. So that was hot.

The next morning I didn’t put it back on right away since our 9month old was being a little demanding that morning. But she asked, “did you put it on?” I said that I didn’t and she asked why. I told her that because my wife wants me to take it off every damn night so I have to go through the process of putting it back on every morning which takes time.

I went and locked up after that.

 

Nearly a year since I’ve posted. I have not had much to report—on and off lockups (self initiated) that last no more than 24 hours.

But I feel like things are about to change. Here is why:

1. Our second kid is due any day. We wanted two kids, and that’s it. So snip snip coming, and my wife isn’t worried about hurting the balls anymore. She has had an issue with me sleeping locked up because she thinks it would hurt the nuts. That’s not an issue anymore.

2. She told me about a conversation that happened during a play date. One of her friends’ husband was upset because it had been two months since they have had sex last. They have four kids. So not surprised by the no sex. My wife mentioned there are other fun things to do besides sex. She didn’t go into detail with the girls, but she told me that we’re lucky. Obviously that means that we do things a lot of others don't, and don’t even think or k ow about. So, she likes locking her dick up.

3. I bought a Kink3D cage.

4. We bought (emphasis on “we”) a locking container with a timer.

I’ve been trying to figure out why my wife has been hesitant on keeping me locked up for longer stints. She likes it. So what gives.

It dawned on me that it’s probably a key thing. I don’t think she likes having to keep them from me or what have you. I think she feels bad almost. This will solve that.

In fact, when I sent her the link, she asked if it could fit two phones, thinking I wanted it to curve our phone use.

I said, “I don’t know but it can fit a set of keys.”

she responded: “Oh, you’re good. Done.”

 

Long time between posts because our journey is slow moving, but progressing slightly. I don’t really push the subject of being locked and denied. Sometimes we play with the cage. Sometimes she recoils and thinks it’s weird.

I feel like maybe the seed was planted and it’s slowly growing. Because I’m seeing signs of it manifesting in her mind, on her time. Will no external influence by me.

Case in point (and why I’m posting) is this morning she texts me saying that, and I quote, “No nut November is coming up for you.”

I responded acting as though I had never heard of that.

“Lol, what now?” I text back.

“No Nut November. If I see any semen laying around I’ll make you lick it up. You may like that. Freak.”

We’ll see what happens next, whenever it happens.