Did I waste my money?

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    There is no need for your rudeness. Please do not do it again.
     
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    Thank you Miss Lucy. :love:
     
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    Sorry @PornAddict103 didn't mean mean to be hurtful. Hope your journey works out well for you and you continue sharing your story with us.
     
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    Ok, so I concluded I didn’t waste my money after all… I just chose bad first and second times to try the strap on. I put it on 3 more times with my cage, only these times while I was not aroused and I didn’t risk blowing my load again. It’s working great! :+1:

    Just to be clear, I’m not a cross-dresser, nor am I into sissification, but I do feel like a dirty little slut with it on. :D
     
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    I equate what you did to my beginning of chastity and the rest of real life. I started out with a plastic cage and when it broke and bit me, I thought it was a waste of money. My wife found a metal cage and after I healed we tried it on and have stuck with metal ever since. We even tried a different model and that didn't work for either of us, so lesson learned. You have to gain experiences with practical application and trial and error.

    As far as standing, my wife likes the idea I have to sit to pee. We have not had a disagreement in 7 year on the position of the toilet seat.
     
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    I actually have some difficulty peeing while sitting down, unless I’m REALLY full. I didn’t seek an opinion on it, but I suspect it’s because of my prostate. It feels very different after a few months of chastity play.
     
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    Yea, sounds like BPH, got it and the pills to help it. Try to stay off the pills as much as possible and go see a doctor.
     
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    Thanks :+1:
     
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    There is so much trial and error involved in getting the perfect set up, there are some general guidelines but everyone is different, it took me 30+ cheap cages then one custom to get to the perfect device. You just have to keep learning from your purchases, researching and hope to improve on the next one, rinse and repeat.
     
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    Couldn't have said that better myself.
     
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    Awww, I got click-baited by the title haha!

    I was expecting to see some crazy and amazing contraption, with cogs and wires and things
    that go whirr and whizzz and pop :(

    Goddess Jade.
     
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    Sorry Goddess... Honestly wasn't expecting you to chime in on this one. A pleasant surprise. :D
     
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    What can I say, I like mens toys, they fascinate me.
    Especially the ones with the spikey things inside ;0

    Goddess Jade.
     
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    Very intriguing Goddess. This is why I follow you. :)
     
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    I recommand to use one, it helps a lot erection with the ring pushing the balls and hurting. You need to adapt and you will find it comfortable after a while. I have one when I am allowed to be caged and it is very nice to wear. It cut erection by itself after a while, especially small erections, the ones that are half hard.

    It also put the cage near your body and don't let it fall down, especially good for metalic cages.
     
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    Wife impose to sit since many years and I go into chastity step by step, I talk to a lot of people here and I could say that you are not into crossdressing YET.
    Let time to do its effect, like you and many other I because a sissy slut before getting sissified and crossdressed (a bit different for me as I always loved it) but it is a quite common path on caged slut I have seen.

    And don't be scared, you will love it when it happens.
     
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    LOL! We shall see. :D
     
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    #43 CS2, Mar 6, 2024
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    Yeah it can get you as you get more submissive while caged lol, im happy for KH to cuck me during our swinging play sessions as long as I am there and part of it, I don't mind wearing panties, fluff, clean up etc but I dont think we will go down the whole sissy road much further, other than panties im not really in to the sissification thing, cross dressing, makeup etc.
     
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    My whole purpose for buying that strap in the first place was to just to better hold my cage in place and stop it from slumping down after my balls relax in the middle of the day. Feeling like a Dirty little slut with it on is a fun little bonus, but that isn’t why I bought it. Thus far it seems to be doing its job but I think it’s still too early to call it.
     
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    I'm thinking as suggestion you might want to try
    masterbate a few times and make sure you are as empty as you can get
    then after a wash put the cage on
    you might be aroused but I doubt you will come straight away
    then wear it without removal for a few days and see how it goes.

    might make a diffeernce ...i have no idea
     
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    I found a way to deal with this... I take the cage off at night so I can sleep, then first thing in the morning is I attach the strap to the ring, then put it and the cage on like normal. Problem solved. :+1:


    By the way, I started a new journal for my new session if anyone would like to give it a read:
    My March (and hopefully April) Journal
     
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    The strap is working so well that I just ordered 2 more of them and I’m going to make it part of my daily wardrobe with my cage. I also just bought 2 packs of Jockey stretch briefs so I have some “full balls” support (to stop them from swinging like a pendulum when I move around).
     
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