Do you fantasize about your wife?

My previous fantasies were split between my wife and other woman. When traveling, I would masturbate thinking about some of the ladies i saw or talked to in transit or the meeting I attended and even of my wife. Now I still fantasize about woman I pass in transit, but mostly of my wife. This is due to the fact since retired my circle of meeting people is limited and my wife is my primary contact every day.

 

100%. Now that I am locked I am obsessed with Her. Before I would masturbate thinking of other people but now my cock is locked for Her and my mind is locked on Her.

 

I have the capacity to fantasize about a lot of difference scenarios. Why limit yourself. It's a fantasy after all. Some escapism is good.

 

While there may be different participants, my wife seems to be included most of the time. Any gay fantasies she isn’t.

 

Of corse I do! We sometimes go through fantasies about celeb crushes to, but she is the only one I want.

 

Whatever the fantasy, she is always the centre of it!

 

Yes, mostly about her taking control. Imagine that.

 

I'm not married, so I fantasise about other people's wives...mostly serving me drinks, while I sit on my throne

 

If you're not married, then why are you replying to this thread?

 

*checks rules*

Because I can.

 

My wife, with my blessing, took control of my access to porn. She utilized Salfeld software that blocks all adult websites and allows her to limit my time, access and how I can use my phone and laptop. In doing so, my daily porn habit was quickly replaced with thoughts of her and how she keeps me locked and controled. We are in a 24/7 FLR, so it was a natural step for her to upgrade control of porn, leaving her as essentially the only nude woman I see. Lately, she has allowed limited supervised viewing of Fet and tumblr, but her intention is to keep me excited but dependent upon her for my limited sexual release, thus making her the focus of my lust. It has worked. The occasional times that she allows me to masturbate, I must kneel at her feet and look up into her eyes as I cum or ruin. It's difficult to let your fantasies run when looking directly into your Mistresses eyes. Overall it has been a humbling experience allowing her complete control of my sexual excitement, but well worth it. The bulk of my fantasies now revolve around her, something she really appreciates and rewards me for.

 

Not an isolated incident and some users think it's great to go round being social hand grenades. That's internetland for you. Many of us just ignore and don't engage.

 

Good point.

 

Straight forward and simple. Years ago, my fantasies almost always centered around other women…often women I had been with or had wanted to be with. Now…not a chance. When I have an erotic dream, which happens on occasion, she is always there. When I have the random fantasy, it’s always about her. Considering we have been married nearly 32 years, that’s not too bad. Not to mention it’s a huge source of joy for me personally. I’m a lucky fella…most of the time…

 

Good grief, yes.

Once she found her dominance, she is my fantasy. A fantasy I cannot improve on. A fantasy neither of us previously imagined.

 

Bravo! I love hearing those kinds of realizations.

 

I can't say I have fantasised about other women. I've fucked more than I can remember.
But my wife.. Oh my god yes I fantasise about my wife.
Since the first time I met her. That's why I wanted to be with her, wanted to marry her and never wanted to lose or be without her.
Yes, while locked or denied orgasms I want her more. A lot more, and she loves it.
But the truth and the whole truth is.
Chaste or not. The only thing I want when I'm close to my wife, is to be closer.
I think in our case Chastity has worked so well because we work so well.
Bear in mind we have only been together twenty three years. Ask in another twenty three. If I'm still alive at that age the answer will most certainly be the same.

 

Bravo!

 

110%

 

I fantasize about my Wife, usually half the time about what she’s going to allow now that I’m a locked subby, and the other half is usually about the long piv sessions we used to have pre chastity cage.
What’s really frustrating now, is even in my dreams I have a locked penis, so no freedom there either

 

I can't but fantasise about my wife while lying next to her in bed, caged and impotent. She's also got a great figure. It's agony.

 

Yes, being in a Chaste lifestyle definitely transforms my attentiveness and strengthens my devotion to my Goddess, wife & key holder.

 

Only fantasise about my gf now because she's such an accomplished dominatrix. Most of our sessions would get pulled from the www for being non-consensual. She will take my punishments off the menu if I break her chastity rules in any way however and that's working fine.

 

I'm the exact same.