Has chastity saved your marriage?

Our marriage wasn’t in trouble, but things had gotten predictable. Chastity definitely added some much needed and appreciated spice to things.

 

Saved? No.
Improved? Dramatically.

 

Saved no. It's improved it though. After a long time of being together it added a much needed new dynamic. I think we're both happier now.

 

Not at all. It's just part of ours, never needed saving. It's merely a part of our sexuality we both enjoy.

 

No but, it opened my eyes on how it should be.

 

Saved, no, but it might have led to ours. She introduced chastity a few years before I asked her to marry me. The intensity of the passion I felt (and still feel) for her convinced me we could make it work. It doesn't solve everything and we still have our ups and downs, but no question the sexual tension and passion is as high as I ever hoped. Indeed, that might be helping us get through some of the "down" patches.

 

I’d say yes and no on this… our marriage was in a bit of trouble many years ago, and I found chastity as a possible solution (kinda jokingly at first) but as we evolved, what it did the most for us was open up communication to the max level, and that was an amazing thing… fast forward 13 years or so and our relationship is rock solid, we have great communication and have a LOT more sex and intimacy than before. Absolutely improved our relationship and it continues on and on.

 

it always improves my relationships with Women, directly and indirectly

 

Not saved but eventually improved my marriage. For years I felt very let down that my wife had no interest in it & felt her lack of interest might drive a wedge between us . I realized that was me being selfish and decided to commit to it on my own, I've now been self locked for 4 years I've tried to live the male part of an FLR in the last year even if my wife also appears to have no interest in FLR . I have to say that I feel better than ever about our relationship, she has told me she loves me in chastity even if she doesn't get actively involved, I believe she appreciates my FLR efforts even if she doesn't recognize them as FLR . So it's all positive in my world at the moment

 

Saved? No, but has certainly had reinvigorated it. Her in control of me completely has had nothing but positive results. We were a bit stale after 30+ years and now we have a tremendously erotic life. Just the other night I said I wish we had discovered chastity years ago. She said “me too!”

 

Saved? Not sure! We were committed to staying together, but we were living in a sexless marriage and were emotionally disconnected. When I found chastity, tease & orgasm denial, I found the recipe to restore intimacy & sexuality in our marriage. We went from zero to 60 overnight and have been cruising ever since. We both recognize the significance chastity & orgasm control has played in our resurrected marriage.

Actually, chastity has saved me from a sexual addiction for which I will be forever grateful!

 

It's seems many of us say similar things . I used to satisfy myself daily, sometimes more than once . Hardly a surprise that I lost interest in sex . Practicing chastity has stopped all masturbation and now means I always have the appetite when my wife wants to be intimate. I wouldn't say we have any more intimacy than before but it certainly feels great when we do make time for each other

 

I would say chastity is saving my marriage. We are in process. My wife needs a lot of sex, many orgasms a week. I cant deliver that with my natural force. Also, its quite enough for me now to have one orgasm a week. So, being uncaged, I opt for one sex per week with luckily no orgasm for her. When I am being caged, my wife gets number of orgasms a week. I know, its important to her.
So, maybe chastity is saving our marriage.

 

Yes from my point of view it has. We have been together for over 20 years and we had fallen in to a rut the same day in the same day out I would wake up early go to work she would get up deal with the kids taken them to school come home do the house work then get the kids after school do dinner I would then come home sit down she could complain about her day I would complain about mine we would have e dinner sort out kids with homework reading bath but kids to bed she would then watch some junk TV show till bed time I would then watch something till I went to bed and that's what it was like for years our sex life went out the window if it was once a month if we was lucky since we have been playing with chastity we are more involved with each other we are both interested in each other and although our sex life is not normal as you guys can imagine it's working for us we have gone from doing locktober to now being locked up till she decides

 

I never thought that the answer to saving my marriage would lie in the concept of chastity. When we first exchanged vows, love and passion were at the forefront of our minds. However, as the years passed, the flames dwindled, and our connection seemed to fade.

It was during a particularly challenging time in our relationship that we stumbled upon the idea of embracing chastity as a means of rekindling the spark. Our communication had become strained, and intimacy felt like a distant memory. Desperation led us to consider unconventional solutions.

Initially, the suggestion of practicing chastity raised eyebrows and provoked skepticism. How could abstaining from physical intimacy possibly bring us closer? But as we explored the idea together, we realized that chastity wasn't just about denying physical desires; it was about rediscovering emotional and spiritual connections.

The first weeks were tough. The absence of physical touch felt strange, and we grappled with the unfamiliarity of it all. Yet, as the days turned into weeks and then months, something remarkable began to happen. We started communicating on a deeper level, opening up about our fears, desires, and dreams. The void left by physical intimacy was slowly filled with emotional intimacy.

Chastity became a journey of self-discovery and mutual understanding. We learned to appreciate each other's strengths and vulnerabilities. The space that had grown between us gradually closed as we explored new ways to express love and affection without relying on the physical aspect of our relationship.

Surprisingly, the absence of physical intimacy made us yearn for it more, but in a different way. It wasn't about satisfying immediate desires; it was about reconnecting on a profound level. The anticipation created a renewed sense of excitement, and when the time finally came to break our self-imposed chastity, it felt like a celebration of our emotional and spiritual growth.

Looking back, I can confidently say that chastity saved our marriage. It forced us to confront the issues that had driven us apart and encouraged us to rebuild our connection from the ground up. It wasn't a conventional solution, but sometimes the unconventional is what a relationship needs to thrive. Chastity became the unexpected savior of our love, proving that true intimacy goes far beyond the physical realm.

 

Very well said JaySaysYes! My wife and I were definitely disconnected for many years and drifting apart with growing resentments. What saved our marriage wasn’t chastity at first but finally having open communication and being brave enough to be vulnerable in sharing our true thoughts and desires. Those conversations led to my revelations about my secret kinks including wanting to be a sub, cuckolding and chastity and orgasm denial. Chastity has helped keep my mind in the sub space which in turn helps be a better communicator, partner and lover.

 

It didn’t save our relationship, because it did not need any saving, but my KH says chastity is the best thing that happened to us since we are together.

 

Im amazed that ChatGBT could write all that… hopefully it will be programmed it to use proper English next.

 

Shhhhh, don't spoil the illusion for the others.

 

Not sure if it saved our marriage.
Many things went wrong before we starte this livestyle and through chastity and kink play our togetherliving has improved.
Saved? Not sure about this.

 

Hey and welcome, My husband and I have had a lot go wrong with our marriage as well. We started this chastity stuff about 2 months ago. It took a lot of processing, but it is fun having the play times and enjoying each others more intimacy and company. Nothing will ever be a quick fix. But anything is worth a shot if you want to save your marriage.

 

Trying to save a marriage is always a good idea. Well after two months you are surely in the absolute overarousal tmwith this new thing.
An exhilarating rush of happy feelings.

Enjoy it.

 

Thank you, I have been posting about my own journey in this. Feel free to read about my experiences if you want any more insight.
Claud's KH Wife. How I have evolved.

 

Awe so sweet. So glad it is working out for you.