A New Chapter Unfolds

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  1. IB-Chaste
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    You told the wrong Marcellus off!
    Poor guys going to think he’s done something wrong…
     
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    There's a series of books by Janice Parker on her husband as her maid. In one of them she wrote, "There is another thing that you should understand and accept. Much like buying a new dress for a special occasion, having all of that power is really no fun at all for me unless I get to show it off to my friends. Inevitably even the most modest Mistress comes to this conclusion—she simply must show off how powerful she is to her friends. For you that means that you are destined to eventually be exhibited much like that new dress—an object to be shown off to the women who matter in the life of your Mistress. This might mean close friends, a sister, or sometimes even a mother. No matter whom your Mistress decides to show you off to you need to be able to present yourself properly should this situation present itself."
     
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    Oops - well spotted- will amend
     
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    JaySaysYes I identify as someone that is always right

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    Janice Parker is a man.
     
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    Link?
     
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    I don't know what to say. It's pointless to debate someone that is convinced of their rightness.

    I've spent the last year and a half telling all of you who I am. Maybe you believe me, maybe you don't, or perhaps you don't care. That's your prerogative. If you are convinced I am a fake, then stop reading what I write. It's that simple.

    I hope most of you stay. Sharing my experiences here has helped me find community and grow. I'd hate to lose that. But I may slow down posting for a bit. I felt attacked in what had previously been a safe space.

    For those that think my life has taken a sharp turn recently, you're right. We have a friend that is losing her fight against cancer. The last time we visited her she mostly talked about regrets: all the things she wished she had done or said or tried. Hearing that, seeing it first hand, packed a punch. It's not like hubby and I came home and decided "hey, let's do all kinds of crazy shit!". But our default position changed from "let's think some more and maybe do it in the future" to "why not now?". Perhaps some of you think that's fake as well. Whatever - I don't want to waste time arguing about it.
     
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    Link that they are a woman?
     
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    JaySaysYes I identify as someone that is always right

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    Are you convinced of your rightness?
     
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    cshorts Locked in love for SL

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    I imagine she is convinced of her gender.

    Don’t let the trolls get you down @MsPamela
     
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    You stated that Janice Parker is a man. I presume that you have a link to evidence to support that.
     
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    You need to quit the habit of presuming, much like you did when you presumed Janice was a woman, lol, omg.
     
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    I feel that quote more directly relates to a domme/slave relationship, not what most on this life experience. The quote implies ownership whereas most here are relinquishing power.
     
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    I read a lot of posts in this thread that I think to not fit in.

    I have followed @MsPamela since 7 years, starting at another platform. She brought me over to CM (which I'm grateful for) and I have no doubt at all and whatsoever about anything she wrote, she writes and she will write.

    If you don't, why don't you document that in another thread. Or in another community. Or planet. Just don't do it here. Nobody, really nobody wants to read that.

    You take pride and joy from provoking others. How poor is that.

    Anyway, @MsPamela , please don't let the trolls succeed. Please keep up the pace. Please continue sharing your journey and inspiring us.
     
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    No matter how safe a place is, there will always be someone who wants to burn it down. Please feel free to continue your posting and observe the rule that pre dates the internet- ignore the trolls...
     
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    Don't pay any attention to ass holes. You've made a difference and are continuing to make a difference. I for one would not be where I am........my wife and I would not be where we are if not for your wisdom and support. Let the moderators do their thing and if they keep trolling, they will get the boot. It's that simple. He has already been warned.

    Listen to @little_dude and @NowIveDoneIt . You are doing good things.

    Some people just can't handle others getting more attention.
     
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    I'm sorry if you consider me a troll. I don't intend to be. I won't post on this thread again. I didn't join this forum to be a troll. I am a male in chastity and I know we all enjoy hearing from dominant females however rare but i think some others on here need to continue to contribute but be who thay they really are. You're playing with people's deepest desires. I don't think that's trolling.
     
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    @MsPamela, why not become verified? That would put to rest any speculation.
     
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    I don't think anyone is owed any verification. It's the internet, so anything is of course possible, but the posts I read for many years on 'the other website' before it became a disaster area tell a different story. Things have definitely progressed to another level from those days, but IMO the constant theme in her posts throughout the years has always been on the love relationship between two people and this aspect of their sexuality, rather than implausible fantasy masturbation fodder. Either way, I've enjoyed everything I've read.
     
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    Where did I say that anyone was owed it? You are misstating what I actually said.
     
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    I don't read the journals just not my deal. I don't have a dog in the fight, don't care either way. It does seem though that becoming verified would be pretty painless and put all the nonsense to rest. So why not do it? Anyway carry on.
     
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    Ms Pamela could simply get verified…
    I think that would stop any doubts about what she/he/it is immediately
     
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    In one of your last messages, you planned to contact Jen to make sure you’re on the same page. Can you tell us what you were talking about and what Jen’s feeling was after this session last Sunday
     
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    That's a perfectly valid question.

    I did the verification thing on another site years ago, and almost immediately afterwards I was bombarded with lots of unsolicited and aggressive messages. It felt like I had just painted a target on my back. I told myself I would never make that mistake again.

    Perhaps times have changed. Perhaps this site is better. I don't know. Maybe at some point I will feel it is worth taking that chance in order to have the verified banner on my avatar. But I really bristle at the idea of being coerced into it.

    Besides, all that would prove is that I am a woman. It won't prove any of the rest. Maybe I let hubby cum every day. Maybe my husband reeks with toxic masculinity, dominates me, and this is my escape. Maybe I've never married.
     
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