Curious how often others think about being in a FLR? If you are in an FLR, it could be thinking about what you will do today for your partner. If you are not in an FLR, it could be about how you will communicate to your partner about wanting an FLR.
I think about it all the time. Living FLR it takes up a lot of my random thoughts. Like you said, a lot of it is what I’m going to do and have to do. Task, chores, etc… How much I want to please my Goddess. How much I love pleasing Her.
Frankly, I'm obsessed with the idea. The happiest days of my life were spent as a submissive to my partner, and I hope to return to that bliss one day.
FLR for me, is not a “when I get around to it proposition”. If you as a sub, are serious about submitting rather than prioritizing the kink, thinking about her at all times is a given, not an option.
I posted this survey because I constantly think about my situation. I wonder if maybe I’m an addict. I think no though. This has been with me for a long time. I wouldn’t call it a fetish, bit i s definitely a need. Yes, I said it. It’s more than a want. With a want, i could get along without it and manage to be happy. I don’t think that i can be fully happy or satisfied without this dynamic in my life. So, good to know that others think of ot often. I am not alone.
Like others, I think about it all the time. It takes up a majority of my free thinking. However, I wonder how much my KH/Mistress thinks about it and her control over me.
I think you should have had an option for continuously lol Cuz even when I am distracted by other stuff its still running in the back ground.
I suspect what you are going through is normal in this state. We have been moving this direction for years and currently are more and more moving to a tru, FLR. I am seriously enjoying it and is seems @TimidKeyHolder is as well. It will say its hard to get off my mind which I enjoy. As an example while reading through the forams at 2 am I realized I didnt prepare coffee machine (something she never asked me to do). So, I got up and made sure the coffee was ready for her at a press of the button. Certainly this is part of being locked up recently, but nearly a month later all I want to do is serve her so push that energy into serving her weather she ordered you to do something or not, as I am I hope for you it will foster her to expect your service to her.
I devote all my sexual energy to my Goddess through being Chaste and submit to her complete control over my body, mind & soul.
I think about it less frequently when the dynamic is functioning well. That's not to say it's absent from my thoughts, there's just less to actively ponder when things are flowing nicely - as intended.
I am collared 24/7/365 so I am always thinking how I will be asked to serve my wife. Mostly chores and foot/back rubs. Nothing special.