Consequences & “Punishments” (Seeking Ideas & Suggestions)

Chained naked in the basement while being forced to orally service both the women's and men's volley ball team seems quite popular.

 

A good sub aims to please his mistress no matter the cost.

 

Fund these forms of punishment.
Punishment #1 - Ball Kneading
This is a simple yet very effective technique. I will usually sit between his legs and begin kneading each of his balls using my thumb and index finger. I’ll continue to increase the amount of pressure used as time passes. Sometimes all the focus is on one of his balls while other times, I will knead them both simultaneously. This is VERY uncomfortable punishment for a man no matter how high his pain tolerance. It will leave a lasting throbbing aching sensation in his balls for many hours afterwards serving as a constant reminder of the unacceptable behavior. I will usually administer this punishment for 10-15 minutes.

Punishment #2 - Tapotement
Tapotement is a technique that uses a small cane and a series of rapid taps to the balls in a progressively intense fashion. The male’s balls are grasped with one hand and the cane in the other. You begin by striking them at a low intensity for a specified period of time. The intensity is progressively increased as is the time. I will usually begin with a series of 5 sec taps and work my way up to 10-15 sec cycles. This is VERY painful and requires little effort on the woman’s part. I will usually take my hubby through 20 cycles. I’ve found that extended moderate intensity is more effective because it leaves a lasting effect on the sub’s balls as constant reminder of why he was punished. His balls will usually remain sore for 1-2 days afterwards.

Punishment #3 - TENS
If I’m feeling lazy, I will usually hook a TENS unit up to his cock and balls (or balls and ass) and turn it up to an uncomfortable level and let it run for about 20-30 min while I read or tend to some other things.

 

Perhaps you need to improvise.

 

If it's serious then I'd say a talk about why what you did was wrong should suffice.

If it's a minor or non serious offence then some sort of play-based punishment is usually fine. Something that reinforces your place as a submissive.

Maybe for you that's impact play, bondage, high protocol servitude etc whatever it is, have it focused around what you did that was wrong. She could make you tell her what you did and apologise and ask for forgiveness over and over until she's satisfied.

Anyway, there's no reason it can't be fun if there's something in there that aims to correct the unwanted behaviour.

 

Bring it on. Do you have a number for them?

A

 

Denial doesn't need to be sex. Could be denied using the computer for a week, watching your favourite TV show, not being allowed to go to the pub, or just not alcohol.

A

 

(1) Being made to kneel in the corner for 20+ minutes. Length of time correlates to how bad the issue was. (2) Losing privileges with my friends - basically being grounded.
(3) As a compliment to all punishments, I am required to wear punishment panties, which I must hand wash each night, for a few weeks. The idea here is to help me refocus and stay good. When mistress is satisfied that I am performing at a high level, then I don't have to wear them anymore.

 

My goal is to make her happy.

If I do something that does less than that, her disappointment is all the punishment I need.

 

What a helpful chap :-D

 

Wow I love the ball tap with cane idea. Can I wear my girly pink panties while u punish me. I would love to meet u madam for punishment please

 

That's exactly how it should be. Was it a normal sex shop or a specialist in BDSM?

A

 

Humiliation is always a useful and adventurous consequence. Here is one from my list.

CHASTITY #6 My roommate will lock me in the chastity cage she chooses but no panties, She will have me dressed like a slut in a mini skirt, a white blouse tied at my waist, thigh high stockings and heels. Then she will drop me off in the parking lot of ABS with the glory holes and give me 2 hours’ worth of booth tokens and nothing else. Either I can walk the 7 miles home or somehow entice someone (I may have to swallow more than my pride) to give me a ride home.

 

Read a book about Chastity or FLR Relationships and then write a book report about it followed by a oral presentation about the book and what you learned.

Write a paper about what you did and what your mindset was at the time you did the infraction. Then write about what steps you are going to take to ensure that the set in fraction does not happen again.

-Iso.

 

My Queen figured out long ago that I am a complete masochist, and that pain was what I craved. She got frustrated when the thought of not unlocking me for extended periods of time didn’t bother me because I am one of the few that enjoys prolonged periods of lockdown. She found what worked for my punishment though. The first time I had to write an essay about how much I cherish and adore her, and how much my behavior has disappointed her. Although it sounds like an easy task, it wasn’t, my mind was filled with all these words, but they wouldn’t come out. I wanted to write about the ways she had completed the puzzle of my life, but couldn’t put it in words. I wanted to write about how thankful I am to be owned by her, but again the words were jumbled in my head. I wanted to convey that the very thought of disappointing her made me feel ill, but everything I wrote sounded like a complete idiot had written it. I somehow stumbled through it, and handed it to her. She tossed it in her drawer, and never said a word for five years. We have a yearly “State of the union meeting “. Where we go to dinner in separate vehicles, discuss the relationship, agree to any changes, no holds barred. This year, she brought out the essay that I had written all those years ago, and said that it was one of the most raw and honest things she had ever read. Needless to say, I don’t require punishment very often. The very thought of hurting her kills my spirit.

 

"Biological adult human females hold the key to a happy life." says a lot too!