So our friend now knows

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    #1 Scovic80, Feb 13, 2022
    Last night we hosted a party to celebrate my keyholders birthday.
    We had friends over and plenty of drinks.
    In the early hours I headed to the loo as I had a few times previous but when I opened the door one of our friends was sitting on the edge of the bath.
    She said just turn your back and go
    I said it's not that easy and that she might not understand what's down there.
    This got her mind thinking, am I missing a ball or something else...
    As I really needed to go I just went for it.
    As I pulled my trousers down to sit I said have you heard of chastity?
    No she said, so I finished and then explained what it was.
    That my cock is locked in a cage and my wife holds the key. She was intrigued and wanted to know more so I went to get my keyholder and went to the bedroom to chat more privately.
    My keyholder explained all about it to her, the benefits to her, how it changes me, how she controls my orgasms.
    How she is the Dominant and I am the submissive.
    How she fucks my arse.
    How I keep the house in order by doing all the chores.
    How im kept in panties and wear womens lingerie.
    My keyholder told her about the strap on and cock sleeve that I use on her so she still has sex while I stay locked.
    The maid uniform come out of the draw to show some of the items I wear and before I knew it I was stripped off and found myself slipping into the uniform, stockings, garter belt and the dress.
    I stood there in front of both of them while they continued to talk.
    Then I was instructed to lift my dress so they could both inspect and touch the cage.

    Our friend had gone from knowing nothing about chastity to then saying that she wants to introduce it to her husband.
    I agreed to send her some information and where to buy cages and said that I will help her in whatever way she needs with getting her husband into chastity.

    My keyholder said that she was proud of me in being able to talk about it and be who I am.
    This was our friends first talk about chastity but I doubt it will be the last.
     
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Feb 13, 2022
    It’s good to share!
     
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    #3 Open2njoy, Feb 13, 2022
    You might soon be enlisted to help get her husband to recognize the benefits of being kept in chastity. That would be an interesting conversation.
     
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    #4 Fatkid1, Feb 13, 2022
    Agreed. Let us know how this shakes out, if anything develops as a result.
     
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    #5 Matthew989, Feb 14, 2022
    That must have been a wonderful opportunity to share your amazing dynamic - my wife is always surprised that more women don’t share the benefits of male chastity but hopefully this will all become far more mainstream as society develops
     
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    #6 krystalasbaby, Feb 14, 2022
    Yes would be interesting to know if she got her husband locked and if you had to assist
     
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    #7 Scovic80, Feb 14, 2022
    To be honest our friend is quite a kinky woman and we have all known that she is the more dominant in her marriage so we was both really surprised she had never heard of chastity before.
     
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    #8 DonnaSue, Feb 14, 2022
    Sounds very similar to my experience when Mistress told Her sister about my Cding, submission and caging. That was almost a year ago and since then, I have been "enlisted" into helping my brother-in-law accept wearing lingerie and then the cage. I am kept in the dark about his progress, except when I am instructed to have a one-on-one discussion to he;p jim accept his newfound situation. I even took jim on a lingerie shopping trip. Sometimes, I feel like a enslaved co-sonspirator in his emasculation, but it's all part of my submission.
     
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    #9 starflyer, Feb 14, 2022
    Wow what a fab experience, I would love for one of my wifes friends to find out about our chastity life. :)
     
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    #10 Junebug15, Feb 14, 2022
    Or one to lock me up!
    Great story
     
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    #11 MissyB, Feb 14, 2022
    Exciting tale. Maybe next party, you'll be called on to serve in your Maid's uniform. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    #12 Trapped, Feb 14, 2022
    Awesome!!! Another step closer to breaking down this Patriarchal society.
     
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    #13 Danny15, Feb 14, 2022
    My wife is tolerant of my self locking but has little interest in it , I guess she get the benefits of a chaste and submissive husband without the input. Don't think she realizes we live an FLR. The relationship has kind of evolved that way . .

    It does surprise me that she has no interest in chastity but I guess it's not for everyone.
     
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    #14 subrick, Feb 14, 2022
    Thanks for sharing. Like the others above, I definitely would like to hear about how the friend and her husband approach the topic, and what actions and result occur, if any.

    The other thing that struck me is, I'm guessing she was in the bathroom because she wasn't feeling too well? Apparently hearing your chastity situation took her mind off of her problems. :+1: Kinda like taking sugar for hiccups! LOL :)

    ~subrick
     
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    #15 Newboy1, Feb 14, 2022
    Great reply, Donna Sue.
     
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    #16 Berlin_sklave, Feb 16, 2022
    Great.. spread the knowledge of male chastity!
     
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    #17 Lovemetal, Feb 16, 2022
    Yes it is very good to be open with your friends. If they are shocked it only helps them to understand you better but if they turn away you that where really not your friends.
     
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    #18 Peter3811, Feb 26, 2022
    We are still new to chastity. My gf got curious about cages while surfing on cuckold websites. She always wanted me to masturbate less often and thought cages would be worth a try. We tried several different cages and she likes to have control over my cock. She took pics of my caged cock and show to her friend. They both like the idea and they voth want their partners to prevent from masturbating.
    Now her friend often looks at my jeans and especially between my legs with a smile. My gf told me that her friend also ordered a cage for her hubby.
     
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    #19 Scovic80, Feb 27, 2022
    So we see our friend again the other day and she is still very up to the idea of locking up her husband.
    We said to her it's important to start slowly, starting with denying in the bedroom for a few hrs at first then to go for a day, a weekend then build it up over time.

    We said we should all arrange for dinner and drinks and that I'd be happy to talk to him about it.
     
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    #20 Nicoftime, Feb 27, 2022
    Ok, I get the part that it was too hard rd to explain why you couldn’t stand to pee, and let the cat out of the bag about wearing a cage. For the life of me I don’t know why you would dump your purse out and get into the sexual details with her.

    You can explain a cage without mentioning any of that. My wife would be furious if I took it on my own to explain the sexual kinks of our relationship to her friend.
     
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    #21 Scovic80, Feb 27, 2022
    My Wife/keyholder was explaining to her the benefits that it brings and how over time we moved to a full.time D/s marriage.
    How we go to a bdsm dungeon for overnight plays and the things we do and wear. When you've had a few too many drinks things just happen and me slipping into my maid uniform for her to see was one of them.

    Our friend has always been open to talking about sexual encounters and has a very kinky mind, just like our own, and we both know we can all talk without judgement or prejudice.
     
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    #22 Open2njoy, Feb 27, 2022
    @Scovic80 She sounds like a great friend to have. I wonder if her husband will think the same of you and your wife when he learns about his wife’s new interest in male chastity and where she learned about it ;)

    Although to be perfectly honest, it would have great to have another couple take us under their wing and guide us through the common pitfalls most endure learning to get it right. Having another caged male to confide it would have been beyond awesome.
     
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    #23 Scovic80, Nov 7, 2022
    We all went out again at the weekend and all seemed like a normal night out until later into the night.
    My wife and friend where talking for a while.
    Turns out they was talking about FLR and the benefits it brings to marriage.

    The ladies where also talking about the 4 of us visiting a dungeon together in the new year.
    She still hasn't got round to caging her man yet but she said it's only a matter of when, not if.
    Next year looks like turning out like it might be very interesting.
     
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    #24 DonnaSue, Nov 7, 2022
    A note of caution here. Once the knowledge of a caged hubby's situation gets out, that cork cannot be put back in the bottle. Since my Sister-in-Law became aware of our FLR (and my being a sissy) I have been terrified that She will tell many others in our community and family as well as my status in the eyes of others will change. Not everybody would accept that news and respect our privacy. Mistress has had a discussion with Her Sister and warned Her not to blab casually about it. At this point in society, private relationships need to be respected and exposure to private detail severely limited, IMHO!
     
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    #25 downlow, Nov 8, 2022
    "Two people can keep a secret if one of them is dead." Mark Twain
     
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