Locktober 2022

Everyone does their own thing.
For us, Locktober means you stay in the cage all month, but cumming in the cage is not disqualification.
NO NUT November means you don’t cum but it’s ok if the key hits the lock.
It’s a tough one cause if you don’t get a caged cum in before the end of Locktober…you’re straight into NOvember and you can’t cum at all during that.
Unfortunately there is absolutely no time in between the two.
I have not been permitted a caged cum yet so I’m really hoping I get one before the end of the month.
If not, now it’ll be 61 days minimum.
My current longest is 25 days which I’m just shy of now.
That was Sept 5th to Sept 31st of this year.
Mistress is not likely to give me that caged cum before the end of the month and I’m pretty certain I won’t be getting out until we fly in the 2nd week of December.
I think she’ll let me cum after that which will be 70ish days….and just 2 orgasms in the last 4 months of this year.
After about 60 in the first 2 months of this year.
Next year is looking like I’ll be lucky if I cum 4 times.
Time flies when you’re having fun!
I’m living the BCWYWF lifestyle

 

We just got our latest adjustments from mature metal in September (thank you MM you're amazing!), so we were already excited at the turn of the month for this much more comfortable experience. We tend not to plan for set periods caged, rather taking it a few days at a time. We just check in with each other to see if were still enjoying it, and if so, we keep going.

We've been taking it "a few days at a time" for almost 3 months now...

 

I use a razor every time I shower

 

Well My mistress allowed me some stimulation with my pinkie.
It is about 5,2 x 20 cm.
She said I am allowed to cum if I do it via my pussy.
And so I did this last week on thursday I think.
We went out for camping in Luxemburg with the kids, so I have been allowed to take the cage off for two days in the nighttime.

When we came home She adviced me to put in the smallest birdcage I have with an urethral plug.
This didnt manage well ambecause of pain in the urethra. So I had to switch to the bigger birdcage which was okay. But the gap is too narrow and so I git some sore skin on the scrotum and balls as blue as a midnight sky in a bloodmoon night.
My mistress said, that it seems that I needed some milking.
Sooo. Now I am free. Which feels strange after all these weeks. I will put on the smaller cage without plug or the original with testicle separator.

And now I am of course horny as hell again. I hope she lets me cum somehow today.

 

She ordered me to put an the tiny one and because it is somehow sissystyle a string tanga over it. She let me clean the bath hub, cut her side hair ( ahe wears an undercut ponytail, which I love very much) and let me bend over to slap my ass in the tanga.

Then she just sent me away like nothing. Do some housestuff! She said.

 

To be honest it been quite easy so far. Well up until a few days ago. Really feeling it now.
I think the difference this year is my mental attitude to it. I seem I in a much better place.

 

Also really starting to feel it. Was bratting yesterday. Got the crop for it.

 

I was doing ok until a few days ago.
I don't think I have ever felt as horny and desperate as I do now.

Certainly, there are a number of factors why this Locktober has been a lot tougher than the previous one in 2020 (we skipped last year due to travelling).
For starters we had the Covid lockdown restrictions whereby my GF/KH and I were obliged to isolate away from one another on a number of occasions, as we were living in separate houses. She had Covid symptoms a few times during this period.
The restrictions in place at the time seemed to create a favourable scenario for remaining caged for Locktober 2020.
Since then my GF has become a lot more comfortable in her role as KH, and for this year she decided on a 3 months locked, one month unlocked cycle.
This means that I'll be kept locked from October until the end of the year.
The big difference now is that we moved into a new house together a few months ago.
It's only now that I'm recognising that She is thriving on having so much control over me!
I'm teased and denied most nights, and She has definitely ramped things up a notch or two recently, particularly with the number of orgasms she receives without reciprocation.
I haven't had an 'O' since the middle if September!
Not sure when the next one will be!

 

Well done to all approaching the end (maybe)

 

Sooooo close! Sooooo horny!

Hope she's in a good mood on Tuesday!

 

Great! We both got a flu finally. We wanted to go out on monday. I hope we will be able to take part. My balls are already shrunk.
They always do this, whenthey are not used.

 

Going to be busy through next week, so that will help.

I had a vivid sex dream a couple nights ago. Well, sort of. I was dreaming I was masturbating.

 

Oh I sometimes have this as a daydream. Mostly when lying on the sofa or in bed
I can feel my hard cock standing up and in my hand. How I jerk it up and down.
I am feeling how my balls fill with cum, how the prostate swells. And get this moce precum feeling.

I bet I could cum by stroking a dildo, which is on my strap on.

 

Well nearly made it. It's the longest I've been without an orgasm so feeling good about it.
Undecided if I could possibly make it to the five week mark.

 

I am no longer the "master of my own domain" (Seinfeld reference) but it was her insistence that I have an orgasm for my birthday that closed out my Locktober. She doesn't know Locktober is a thing and wouldn't be the least bit swayed by an artificial date to make her decision.

To be fair, I was locked for 10 weeks? I lost count which she finds funny and commented, "I guess it is a good thing you get to reset the counter."

I stared at her like an idiot, since she always seems to have a different plan than I'm expecting, until she finally explained that she wanted PIV.

Having been that long without a proper orgasm (or any orgasm) when it happened, I felt it from my ankles to my shoulders while the sensation seemed to just persist.

I was given the day to remain unlocked and she waved her hand toward the drawer where the cage was stored after I brushed my teeth and headed for bed (later in the day).

"Get your thingy... I want you back inside." I put my freshly shaved package back in the Jailbird and let her seal the lock. "Click."

She finished with "Okay, you're secure again."

 

I’ve been out twice this month, both times because she wanted to orgasm with me inside her. She made it a point to not touch me in any way nor was I allowed to touch myself. No orgasms for me either and I was locked immediately after. This was our first one so I was surprised she took it so seriously.

 

Man, I love my keyholder : D

 

Well, it completely mind that the work function I needed to attend yesterday was at a venue with a level of security that I was not willing to faff about with. 02OCT-30OCT, with a brief unlock on about 08OCT to remove a Tetherspout that was causing damage.

There was no significant pain or odor upon removal. As expected, I had a pink to dark pink area of chafing where the ring lives. The skin was not broken, and I would expect to heal in a couple of days. I was surprised to find two red dots of abrasion under the penis. They corresponded to where the outside points were on the "anti-off ring" that I had ground blunt. While the middle spike was flush with the tube, these two protruded in.

As my second shower started, I was alarmed by a general stinging around the penis as the water ran over it. On the underside, again, I found reddish streaks, a few more abrasion dots, and some red bums. I'm guessing multiple factors, rough spots inside the tube, the blunted spikes landing on a different position for a few days, moisture trapped in the tube, and possibly soap not getting rinsed fully away. It's obviously not a design that supports indefinite term 24/7 wear, and I'm surprised it managed as well as it did.

 

I'm still going, and no orgasms. Looking like NoNut November is in my future. I'm not ready to start over yet.

 

Still locked and the half day is over already.

No single word about end of locktober from the side of my lady. I am not sure if she didnt recognize it, or if she just doesnt matter, because she gives a shit about my cock.

 

My LOctober was fairly sucessful but not quite 100% as I had 4 times out and one incredible piv session.

I had 2 unlockings for mountain bike riding. There would have been more for riding but I was busy with other projects so my riding took a back seat. I will not ride locked up, it could be very dangerous if I crashed. I have had a big crash this year so for sure it can happen.

For my piv session release she asked if I want sex, I always do, and when she asks that its not really a question for me, its her saying she wants her sex. It was a quick pre-work session, she always gets to finish first using her vibrator and me inside her moving slowly, just the way she likes it. After she came I asked I could, a formality as she always insists I finish, and I came hard!! My orgasm lasted 2 minutes and was still going but I hate to let the wave ride too long, that seems selfish. She never says "ok that's enough" but I felt it was. My best O this year by far.

I had 1 unlocking to travel to another city to get a suit for a wedding. I wanted to wear it but figured if I was getting a tailered suit it would not be good when getting measured at the high end store. As soon as we got back home I locked up right away.

The last unlocking was due to changing devices, for the wedding, after a shower but we had a house full of company and I did not have time to put the new one on due to a time restaint so I had to go a couple hours unlocked, but remedied the situation as quick as possible after.

My cd was wore at my son's wedding and I did give a speech. I wasn't sure I should wear my device at the wedding but sime advice I asked for on this thread earlier in the month was taken. What it came down to in my mind is I like wearing my cd, it has become a part of me. Like the wedding ring symbolizes so much so too does the ring and cage on my package. I feel naked without it and even though having sex or a masturbation session was the furthest thought from my mind, wearing the device seems right and makes me feel complete.

Congrats to everyone who participated this month and a special shout out to all tbose that had no unlockings.

 

This is the first year we've done Locktober. Husband actually made it through it! (I actually made it through it, too. I had to tell myself "Be Strong, Miss Cecilia" a lot. Oral and toy stimulation are great, but it's just not the same, not for me, at least. But I was "Strong, Miss Cecilia"),

I decreed it after I caught him in the act looking at pornography. The moment, me having to discipline him all the time for pornography (although a lot less than i used to, but still), I just decided it was time for a real lesson and to let him know just how displeased I was.

I caught him on the 26th of September and locked him up immediately. On the 28th, I unlocked him and we had a lovemaking session.. .He thought he was off the hook. I did it on purpose for a couple of reasons. The next morning, I locked him back up and told him he was under Discipline, there would be a Disciplinary Session on the 30th and Best Friend would be there. He did his usual begging and pleading, but I silenced him quickly by speaking sharper to him than usual.

He got the Disciplinary Session. After it was over, I locked him up again and announced he was being locked up until today. I decreed we were doing Locktober this year. Of course he protested. Of course, I spoke sharply to him.

He wasn't the super attentive guy any more than he usually is. He wasn't like what you read in chastity pornography. I did have to discipline him 3 times during Locktober, but they were quick sessions with the cane coupled with threats to extend lockup to NOvember.

I have to admit the power rush was fantastic! I really enjoyed giving him reminders every day he was staying locked up and demanding stimulation from him while he got none. I could tell he was hoping for a shortened sentence when he did do extra for me, but I stood firm. It felt good to watch him try and me know he was not going to get anywhere, but PLEASE keep trying.

Me, him and Best Friend took off work today. When she came over, I unlocked him and gave him another Disciplinary Session. He's in the corner now, sniffling. I'm going to send him upstairs in a few minutes to fix his makeup and put on a maid dress. He'll be doing sissy maid service and serving us lunch. When Best Friend goes home, I'll take him off Discipline.

We're going to have to do Locktober again next year. I thoroughly enjoyed seeing him locked up and frustrated. The feeling of Power, Control and Authority is AMAZING! Eventually, we're going to have to do both Locktober AND NOvember.. He gets his Holiday Hiatus from about a week before Thanksgiving to just after Valentine's Day, so it's only fair I should get Locktober and NOvembier. I guess we'll have to adjust the end part of Holiday Hiatus if I'm going to keep him under lock and key for all of NOvember.

 

Got released this Morning made all 31 days so I went and got my junk waxed and cleaned up today since it had been over 31 days since it saw a razor!...If any of you guys are in the Hamptonroads area I highly recommend Missy over at Velvet Wax in Newport News...she does a great job and is very personable the wife loves her work!
They also offer services to the trans community as well for those looking for a judgement free place.

 

Don't assume that they remember you're locked. I'm telling you that they don't think about it as much as we do. Go to one knee and humbly remind them that it is November.

 

We locked up before starting Locktober, it's been a bit over 6 weeks with no orgasm, a new record. Last night I asked Mistress if I was allowed to cum, she smiled and replied "not tonight". She explained that if I was a good boy I might not make it to 7 weeks, but we'd have to see.

I'm still locked up!