She said no and I'm ready to burst

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    #1 AnonJohn97, Jul 19, 2022
    My girlfriend was going to let me have piv sex tonight, but changed her mind.

    We got naked and she pushed my head down so I gave her her first orgasm while still locked up, after while I was caressing her I asked her if she had thought about what she said this morning about finally having piv. She got really apologetic and explained that she knows I've been locked up a long time and it's really hard for me, but that her rule is to only unlock me for piv sex/blowjob and she just didn't feel like it tonight like she had hoped she would. She said she's really been enjoying the orgasms I give her other ways instead, specifically fingering and nipple play.

    She must have seen how disappointed I was because she said sorry a couple times more and she seemed sincere, but then without realizing the irony of the situation said she was still really horny and that she wanted to fuck some more. While we started kissing while I fingered her she interrupted me kissing to say that because of how difficult the situation is for me she didn't want to get my hopes up and thinks she probably won't feel like piv or blowjobs for another week or two as she's really enjoying how we have sex now, but she'll let me know if she changes her mind. We had some really good sex after despite my immense frustration and I'm typing this as she has a bath.

    I have never been more sexually frustrated in my life, and am feeling hopeless snd distraught and so uncomfortable, I NEED to cum, I can't imagine waiting another week or two... I'm following her rules still and don't want to end things so I guess I just have to wait and see... This is the most difficult thing I've ever done, my dick is still pressing up against the cage trying to get hard. I'm worried it may be a full month by the time I get to have an orgasm again. How do I deal?
     
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    #2 maid julie, Jul 19, 2022
    Hello. You need to keep her needs first. You said that you need to cum, why is that? I think that when you look at it you will find that what your thinking is that you want to cum
     
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    #3 AnonJohn97, Jul 19, 2022
    I need to cum because we've been having sex for 2 weeks and I haven't gotten to use my penis once
     
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    #4 NowIveDoneIt, Jul 19, 2022
    You have a looooooooooong journey ahead. Or based on your current thinking a very short soon to be over one...
     
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    #5 OwedbyJM, Jul 19, 2022
    It’s been 3.5 months since we had PIV. I don’t ask to be unlocked normally, but last Saturday she was leaving for a week. After I got her off, I ask if the belt could come off? Answer- NO. I have one full orgasm in that time…. I think must of starts with our fantasies and when it begins our queens/key holders we start to worry about what we’ve gotten ourselves into….
     
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    #6 Andy88, Jul 19, 2022
    Live with it… let the reality sink in.. your penis is of no good use anymore. You dont deserve her pussy.. things are just not meant to be.. keep your mouth shut too..stop pestering her.. open your mouth only if you need to eat her pussy and rim her thoroughly.. a good chaste man should learn his place.. at her bottom.
     
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    #7 Xileh, Jul 19, 2022
    Who asked for this?

    It sounds like she is doing a fine job of indulging you. And, I’ll wager she is just getting started.
     
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    #8 LesterBallard, Jul 19, 2022
    One day at a time
     
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    #9 squier, Jul 19, 2022
    She does much things a lot of the men here on CM only can dream of. Sure, 2 or 4 weeks may be hard for You. So if You'd like to live the chastity lifestyle, there is no need to complain but to accept and learn.
    Accept her rules, accept Your chastity
    Learn how to deal with it so that it becomes easyer for You.
    Learn to focus less on your horniness.

    Talk to her about your feelings, but don't want to put pressure on her. In this way, she learns how things really are with you and can make better decisions.

    Btw ..... How experienced are you both in the whole game?
     
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    #10 Chaste Bear, Jul 19, 2022
    Possibly you're being too pushy asking for release like that and inadvertently adding to your own sentence. You should really be in the bath with her washing her back and rubbing her shoulders. Redirect that horniness into productive KH worship at every opportunity and maybe she'll show you mercy, maybe not.
     
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    #11 starflyer, Jul 19, 2022
    Stop squealing, ride the wave and embrace, a lot of men would love to be in your place...
     
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    #12 King Hippo, Jul 19, 2022
    I have been seeing a lot of the comments here and they need to keep a couple of things in mind.

    • She introduced him to this and this was something she wanted.
    • She demanded 24/7 right away 2 months into the relationship.
    • She has done the same thing with 3 other guys, and he is the fourth.
    • He is really young and she is too.

    Maybe she should be easing him into this if she is truly interested in having this work because she had 3 other guys in her short adult life not have it work out. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all.
     
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    #13 borbulls1961, Jul 19, 2022
    Dont worry...its a dream come true!
    On the serious side, if I'd been locked up at 25 I think my (romantic) life would have been quite different.
     
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    #14 madams-sissysub, Jul 19, 2022
    I agree!
     
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    #15 Crowe, Jul 19, 2022
    Going on 10 months without even a ruin. Some days I'm ready to burst, some days I forget all about it. You get used to it.
     
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    #16 borbulls1961, Jul 19, 2022
    And do you make your lady happy?
     
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    #17 Lali's slave boy, Jul 19, 2022
    Your wife is so good. I wish mine would be like that. I hope she keeps you orgasm free and locked for another 10 weeks. That will change you into her fun toy.. a thing just to be used for her pleasure. Nothing more.
     
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    #18 Elfman, Jul 19, 2022
    Buy a nice realistic dildo and fuck yourself senseless for a while and/or go get some strenuous exercise.
     
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    #19 Crowe, Jul 19, 2022
    Anytime she wishes. She gets whatever she wants, whenever she wants. Lately she's been a little more ornery than usual and really pushing my limits.
     
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    #20 Xileh, Jul 20, 2022
    Wow, not a lot of sympathy from this group, but we can also sympathize since many of us have been in your shoes or wish too.

    You have a rare lady. Take very good care of her and she will reward you with no end of frustration. Be patient, and those nasty orgasms will soon be only in your dreams.

    Good luck and enjoy your good fortune!
     
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    #21 Andy88, Jul 20, 2022
    Thats right.. we can only dream in our next life to have a woman like his.. stop pestering for sex like an 18yo.. in fact she should whip his dick into submission and cage up forever.. go scrub the toilet floors now..
    ok i just scrubbed the entire kitchen floor.
     
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    #22 JaySaysYes, Jul 20, 2022
    My GF says to transmute the horny feelings into blissful feelings. I'm working on it haha.

    Aside from that;
    * Exercise
    * Meditation
    * Cold showers
     
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    #23 borbulls1961, Jul 20, 2022
    I'm too feeling quite desperate because I'd like to touch my cock and I cant because she's hidden the keys...I'd really like to cum too! Don't understand why I m feeling like slapping my keyholder wife.
    Ofcourse that's just ridiculous fantasy as it was me who asked her to hold the keys.
    Anyone else feel or fantasize violence after being chasted?
     
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    #24 krystalasbaby, Jul 20, 2022
    Keep quiet, and you may end up getting some before you know it. If not you will become ex bf #4 and the person is right she should be working slowly into it, not all at once.
     
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    #25 IB-Chaste, Jul 20, 2022
    She didn’t realise the irony? She said she was really horny but wasn’t in the mood for you to have any pleasure? She didn’t feel like a blowjob or PIV just kept pushing your head down to lick her clit?
    I wish my wife was like this… but I read your story and I feel you wish your girlfriend was too…
    Either that or you’ve literally found the selfish bitch of everyone’s dreams. Who knows.
     
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