No cage can deny my orgasms

Maybe keep all wands, etc. in a locked drawer that only your KH can access.

 

I can with difficulty orgasm in both my Neosteel and Lori's #5. But without the pleasure of skin to skin contact. Isn't quite the same, sort of a ruined orgasm. I find myself just as horny as before orgasming. Only the clock starts over counting the days till I might get to have a normal orgasm again.

 

This is what my KH has done for me

 

I also lock he wand away as it is the only way I can, and even then it has to be after a certain amount of time in the cage or its just a frustrating experience.

If I manage to crawl over the line its pretty shitty ruined orgasm....so unless I really have the shits about something i wont try (and indeed cant if the wand is locked away).

Currently using a modified steelheart 2 with the tether spout (in my gallery)

 

No cage is going to keep someone from having an orgasm if they are persistent. You could get your wife to punish you in a way that you wouldn't enjoy. My wife can tell when I have had an orgasm by my mood change.
If nothing else works, try to stop playing with it.

 

What's the old saying, your mind is your most powerful sexual organ. If you are going to cheat/orgasm, no cage will prevent this, overcoming the urge is the only way

 

Maybe you should lock up your hands instead of your cock, since that seems like the real problem. Hopefully you will be able to enjoy chastity the way you say you want it...

But first you will need to stop undermining your wife's control and abide her wishes.

Good Luck

 

So what you are saying is that you love to violate your wife's/KH's trust... how noble. You need to work on a better attitude, not a better cage. You are lucky enough to have a partner who denies you, start behaving with the respect She deserves.

 

It will be tremendous effort to cum without removing the cage.. and longer the duration.. and keeping an eye out for wife from barging in.. maybe u you should impose self punishment.. everytime you tried cumming with or without success, you should offer your wife 5x oral orgasm.. while locked… the next time you fail again… offer her 10 sessions of anal lick… again? Go for electro numbing…

 

Don't you have any self control?

 

No cage precents you from having an orgasm so I guess that means your game is over :-(

 

You could try the steel cages that have punishment pins. The pins come in different lengths and shapes. It will make your election painful. That will probably work but it won't make you very happy. I believe Mature Metal is the place to get them.

 

How About Jemima's least favorite thing to wear - KTB (Kali's Teeth Bracelet)

 

Unless you are getting a full belt and more a restrictive regime, trust and self-control are something you need to develop. If she punished you in some way (in the right way) for getting yourself off, your brain will rewire so that cheating the system makes you feel guilty. Not proud of your ability to come. I can do it in any ball trap cage I've worn, but don't without permission to finish. I back off. What's the longest you have gone without an orgasm?

 

Try willpower

 

I’m fascinated that you’ve made it clear what your dynamic is and despite that most everyone is insisting that, you are doing it wrong! That you need willpower. Screw that! As long as you can budget new devices keep looking. It is possible that there is not a device that will prevent you from orgasming. Hell many on this site are positive that “..anyone can orgasm in any device”. Interesting enough in my current device I can’t. All attempts get frustratingly close and then damned uncomfortable and then, …nothing. Also, I have another device just a fraction different in size that I can with great difficulty achieve a very unsatisfactory orgasm. In my wife’s words, “screw your cooperation, I want control”.

 

Burn the witch!

 

lol!