I often wonder why the thought of of been locked in chastity is such a large turn-on for me? I dream about it, it what makes me hard....that thought of been locked on an ever increasing basis. Why do I get so turned-on about it when I'm locked and cant do anything about it.... I get to the point that the thought of been locked is the only way to stay hard... I am locked practically ever night and it never fails to remind me that it is there. Its not that comfortable, its not always easy to wear with jeans..... but I want it all the same. I would really appreciate peoples thoughts and ideas on why chastity is such a turn-on even though the long you wear it the less you can take advantage of the pleasure.
For me, it's that loss of control, I hand over to my wife. While locked everytime I move you can constantly feel it there in place. Reminding me shes in charge of my orgasm.
For me, it's being controlled. And the more I think about it, the more it controls me. At the same time it makes Lady C more dominant which I also crave. Submitting to a not as strong as me woman really messes with my head and as long as the cage is there it's 24x7 domination. A
Welcome! Lots of differing personal reasons. Mine is really based on the idea of "Don't Touch" or the old "Keep off the grass". What is denied to me becomes a things of increased desire. It increases my focus on the source of freedom (i.e. my Keyholder wife), it's weight and feeling a constant reminder of what I want but can't get. Restraint and restriction are often seen as negative things by society or people generally - but in fact the opposite is often true. Take someone on a diet for example, they eat a limited selection of foods in order to control what they input, to reduce their weight and achieve an ideal. What helps is the occasional 'cheat' day, or a 'reward' day where they have a special meal. That meal is appreciated even more because of the restrictions or restraint practiced the rest of the time. Same for chastity and orgasm denial - the very anticipation is what is driving me. The fact my wife doesn't tell me (now) when I'll be released, when I'll be able to have any sort of orgasm (ruined or not) is all a huge turn on because it feeds into that "sweet reward". The added loss of control by not being able to release myself and feed into my own desires whenever I feel like it adds to the effect. As for longer? Well, how well that works for me is really down to how well my Keyholder practices her teasing, she often goes through bursts of intense play, then it's barely perceptible for a while. As long as the feedback loop of being reminded by the controlling force of my wife that I am in submission to her exists, the turn-on remains. Her dominance is growing all the time - she laughs at my torment in tease and denial sessions, she experiments with different ideas, heck, she's even looking at bondage so she can let me have a full orgasm and cage me back up now because she realised the mistakes we'd made in the past (she'd never considered this up until recently). I'm not getting out of this game for a long time now. She often reminds me there's too much to lose. It's so hot and such a turn-on even now.
New with chastity, and that is part of it, new and exciting. Started because realized taking breaks between orgasms, and teasing and anticipation, make them better. So starting chastity helped me take time between and being caged keeps up the anticipation. Not sure how long I will continue, but since I am finding the being out of control and submissive aspects are also exciting.
It´s part of me. I love be locked. No sex activity or tendence when in presence of women. And of course feel the world like a woman. Pee sit...
Dominance and submission for me. The feeling of being controlled or helpless presses all sorts of buttons in my head.
Thank you all for your wonderful and informative feedback... I really appreciate it.... It's amazing how one from of pleasure can replace or even enhance another... I am still exploring just the beginnings of so many possibilities.... I look forward to discovering new ideas, thoughts and areas to explore on this very interesting journey... I look forward to sharing and chatting with anyone who would like to discuss topics, ideas and thoughts. Again thank you to everyone who shared their ideas and experiences....
My wife keeps me in chastity during the week so that when we do have sex on the weekend I am much more engaged, with a lot of pent up sexual desire and also knowing this will be my only outlet for the week. Also helps to keep me more submissive to her.
Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion. Being caged now is the best thing that could have happened to this sissy.
I would like to again thank everyone for their feedback. I really appreciate everyone's reasons why chastity is such a turn on for them. It is such a wonderful journey with so many areas to discover, explore and experience...
The male chastity has been the recurring theme thats fascinates me from late teens.. back in college, i would self-lock and go attend lectures and do stuffs while leaving the key back in my room. It was exciting, suspenseful and worrisome in case i might just need to unlock when i was outside.. and it appeared to me i was carrying a little secret that the public didnt know.. I returned to my room in the dorm and did my stuffs like usual … i was just trying to break my masturbation habit… to each our own.. i was sharing the room with a male friend who couldnt understand my kink.. fast forward to now.. glad to have a wife as a key keeper.. who doesnt just keep the key.. she keeps me. I feel belonged.