I have a newbie question regarding contacts through here

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    #1 CuriousWonTon, Feb 1, 2022
    I've gotten notices (and emails outside the site) that contain phone contact info. When I click on the link where the message was originally listed in the CM site - it has been removed. Is it a given that it was removed because it is likely a scammer threat...or is there another reason?
    On another topic - I noticed on the site metrics the other night that non-members and bots outnumbered member by more than 10 to 1. That's a little concerning as well. I really like the site and would like to engage with someone...a real someone.
     
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    #2 CabanaJack, Feb 1, 2022
    I think that's a pretty typical ratio, based on the handful of hobby and technical forums that I'm plugged into.
     
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    #3 Neith, Feb 1, 2022
    I haven't had any issues here and have had great interactions with people.
     
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    #4 Alceste, Feb 1, 2022
    Note that the site has privacy settings to limit access to your profile, and separate settings to limit access to your photo album.
     
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    #5 Chaz69, Feb 1, 2022
    I've had several of those, they're obviously from pro dommes looking for new clients and that sort of contact is strictly again the CM rules, so no doubt someone lets Lucy know and she takes care of them pretty quick.
     
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    #6 MtnViper, Feb 2, 2022
    I experienced the same until I changed my email settings. I stopped all email.
     
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    #7 CuriousWonTon, Feb 2, 2022
    Truthfully, Id prefer not dealing with a pro...but that seems to be a submissive male's lot in life. I'm more worried about scammers.
     
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    #8 LesterBallard, Feb 3, 2022
    Almost certainly a scammer. Steer clear.
     
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    #9 madams-sissysub, Feb 16, 2022
    Same here, I just delete them.
     
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