Chastity as a punishment for premature ejaculation

Get used to being locked up?

 

You're ready for the next level.
Take it to a month.

 

Be thankful she doesn't have you locked all the time, and only release you for the teasing it sounds like she is already doing. I do hope you are finding other ways to fully satisfy her, since 3 minutes wont even get her warmed up, let alone to the finish line.

 

That sounds like a fun way to be tormented. I would add a day each time you can't last the 3 mins

 

Three minutes will take my wife over the finish line at least once

 

It's going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy that. Punish someone for premature ejaculation with something that's likely to increase the chance of premature ejaculation, see what happens.

Maybe that's her plan?

 

Increasing chastity for not lasting long…I’m guessing neither of you understand that doing so will make lasting longer an impossibility. It’s like taking away someone’s food for eating. They are going to be less hungry if you keep taking the food away.

Sounds like an excuse to lock you up

 

Use numbing cream and viagra

 

Evil

 

Surely that depends . . . on how close she was to the finish line to start with. My wife / KH likes to have 'crossed the line' at least once - and often more - before the start the 'race' . . . and even then obviously for me to finish second !

 

Generally, no. Taking health/age out of the equation, the longer you stay locked, the less stamina you're going to have.

Unless you actively work on improving it, of course. You can try having your wife unlock you more often than once a week to edge. No cumming allowed, but repeatedly bringing yourself to the edge and then stopping is supposed to be able to prolong your stamina.

 

I was never able to last that long, chastity or not.

 

Oh boy oh boy I totally get this. If I somehow avoid looking down at her breasts, I can last a bit, but once I'm looking at her body, my brain goes *boom* and it's over. This happened recently, as I was telling myself in my head over and over "you have one job", and then accidentally looked down at her breasts.

The other problem is teasing and foreplay. No foreplay for me? I sure can last a while. But as I'm caressing and exciting her (which I could do for hours if she allowed it), she gets a compulsion to touch me in the most amazing and mind-blowing ways, and so by the time she tells me to enter her, I'm probably already 90% of the way home. I can't tell her to stop touching me (she gets to do whatever she wants to, obviously ... I'm the one following instructions), but it is just really hard not to be way too excited by the time we get to fucking.

So yeah, I'd say 2-3 minutes would be about all I can last for under normal (aka OMG OMG OMG AMAZING!!!) conditions, but if I could avoid the penis foreplay and if I could avoid seeing her gorgeous body, I could almost always last a lot longer.

 

Its all in your brain. you have the power to control .
Harness the power.

for what it worth.

 

LOL!

 

Seems more like a game she’s playing with you knowing you’re not going to win and she likes that. When I’m locked up for a week or beyond and my wife allows me PIV it’s over very quickly for me. In fact my wife even encourages me to cum quickly and teases me about not being able to last while we’re having sex. Her saying that to me always pushes me over the edge not that I needed much of a push anyway lol. On the rare occasion and why this happens I have no idea but there are times I’m able to go longer, like 10-20 min. She’s always amazed that I’m able to hold out but like I said it’s rare when this happens.

 

On that note, when she really does want a good romping and she knows I can’t do it, the strap on with the big black dildo comes out and she’s plenty satisfied

 

Think you need longer lock ups until your mindset changes.

 

Every woman should have a Hitaxhi Wand.......much more reliable and long lasting than a man and will guarantee a woman as many orgasms as she needs to be satisfied.

 

We played a '100 stroke challenge' the other day, where hubby's reward got worse with every stroke. It was surprisingly powerful. If he went over within 20 strokes, he could properly come, if it was within 50, I'd give him a ruin. But over 50 wasn't allowed, and would mean he got put in the nub rather than his usual cage, which drives him crazy.
It was good fun! And I guess is playing with this whole premature ejaculation aspect.

 

I think you need a penis pump or a glans vibrator to increase your ejaculation threshold, so as to fundamentally solve the problem of fast ejaculation.

Drugs like Viagra are not only harmful to the human body, they are also disposable products. But using a penis pump or glans vibrator can permanently solve your problem!

Of course, you still use penis sleeves, I think they can satisfy you

 

@AB421 Hang in there and just try not to worry about it. This is just my experience but the less I concern myself with it, the better I generally preform. There is also a chance whoever you are with is getting the desired outcome they are shooting for if they keep repeating the same thing over and over.

@keephimcaged if some has premature ejaculation issues… this seems counter productive?

 

Mrs Edge tried something similar with me a few years ago. She would say that I had a time limit of one minute, and then I'd be locked back up again. I *hated* the idea, because I had always trained myself to last as long as possible, and I could see that this would train me to go in the opposite direction.

But now, the overall idea does seem to be kind of hot. Sort of like "predicament bondage."