What is the most humiliating thing your wife has ever made you do?

We have done quite a lot of public humiliation over the years, most involving fetish wear of some type. Madam has sent me out, and taken me out in a variety of fetish outfits, most commonly ether my latex or Lycra catsuits. That is always humiliating!

 

My wife never publicly humiliates me, by her definition of humiliation; she is loving and kind, and would never do that. But she has started to become more comfortable making her desires known even in public, and give me clearly non-negotiable orders, that I then obviously follow to the letter, and some of them are quite obviously not things that I would choose to do, which makes it absolutely clear who is in charge if anyone is paying any attention at all. She speaks, I humbly obey, but to be honest, it's not really humiliating because I do not mind obeying and I do not mind people knowing that I obey her every wish. (I have not always been this way. It's a relatively recent evolution in our relationship. Just the last few years. But I'm totally cool with it. It feels perfect.)

But true humiliation is in the mind. There are times when something has gone wrong between us, and I had truly done nothing wrong to cause it, but nonetheless she is hurt and angry, and I have to choose to accept the full responsibility for the problem, and I have to choose to apologize for not having done what could have been done differently to have avoided the whole thing, and I have to choose to beg for her forgiveness, and I have to choose to accept whatever discipline comes with that, and I have to choose to beg her to let me make it up to her for all the discomfort she just experienced. For me, this is deeply humiliating, because I am owning up to some fault that was not even my own, and accepting full responsibility as if I were the root cause and the only source of the problem. Then she forgives me, then she realizes that I was not the cause of her pain, then she acknowledges what truly happened, and then she appreciates that I was willing to do whatever it took to help us get through whatever the problem was, and then she knows that I love her truly and deeply, and then she feels loved. (Oh my, she is loved!)

If this were a common thing, it would be a sign of a terribly unhealthy relationship dynamic. But it is not common, and most of these incidents are caused by irrational fears triggered in her that go back to childhood experiences, so basically PTSD. (A few of these incidents are related to irrational fears triggered in her that go back to bad things that I have done, so in those cases, I'm absolutely at fault, although that was the "old me".) In the end, I feel closer to her, and she to me, but I am also (like a bolt driven by a ratchet) conscious that each time it happens, I am one click closer to being absolutely powerless in the relationship. Which in and of itself is both perfectly fine, and simultaneously terrifying.

 

My wife want me to wear panties while also wearing my cage to the gym and after working out undress, shower and then put the panties back on. She enjoys hearing about the angst I feel while doing this.

 

Same here!

 

My KH has told a couple of her friends and her sister about me being caged and even offered to show them photos which they declined.

To be honest I found it more of a turn on the humiliation.

 

Yes it is humiliating to say the least . My sister in law is my emergency key holder . So she knows, has a key . My wife showed her how to lock it on me , and how to unlock it and remove it in case of emergency . She was single at the time this was 5 years ago . Since then 2 years ago she married . Her husband asked her what the key on her key ring was for. She told my wife he had asked. My wife asked her and my brother in law over to dinner, and explained our lifestyle . We talked about it for about 3 hours, getting into full detail about cuckold, chastity and hotwife . She did this because we have a close relationship with them and my wife wanted no surprise.

 

@TonyF25 Wow that must have been intense and humiliating to have your S-I-L learn how to lock and unlock you! Then to have your B-I-L learn of your “cuckold in chastity” lifestyle over a family dinner must have been the icing on the cake. After that I’m sure there is little that can embarrass you any longer. Your wife is truly an awesome key holder.

 

One day at beach ,My kh met another Lady and they began chatting. She introduced me as " a friend who takes care of her" . soon she sent me to the car ,which was parked about a 4 minute walk away . She told me to bring her blue bag back to her. I did as ordered and she took out sandels ,and told me I could "go and put the bag back now ". I did and upon my return she told me to go check the condition of the outhouse ,also a 4 minute walk away . I returned and said they were pretty clean, and she asked me if the lock on one had been fixed. I said I didn't check ,and she sent me to check again .. I was feeling the humiliation turning me on by now. The Lady she had met was looking at me rather questingly as I left on my errands . I returned and was told to remove her sandles and put her runners on that she wore when in the water. My K/H was dressed in swimming attire ,while I was fully dressed . As I knelt at her feet my knees sank into the sandy/gravelly ground ,and water ozzed in. I started to rise ,but was quickley told to finish putting her shoes on. Then She told me to take her sandels back to the car . This went on for the 2 hours we were there . I also was told to apply suntan cream on her body a couple of times . She had me going to fetch and return the sunscreen to the car each time .
The Lady asked if we were married and my K/H gave a snort and short laugh . She said I was just around when she had something for me to do ..
I remember that day like it was yesterday and feel aroused at it's memory.
The last humiliating thing was after 2 hours of her relaxing at the beach ,my K/H told me to gather up a few things she had me bring from the car ,and go take them to the car and wit beside it for her . About 30 minutes her and the Lady she met returned the the parking lot where I was standing beside the car like a fool .

 

I had a recent scare that she had told my S-I-L about the contents of a package she sent for me via her .

She implied that she would have my package and instructions when I got back there to pick up first thing.

The package was unopened and instructions were merely to call my wife before opening my package.

It had me in suspense for 6 days.

 

My wife, after she cums, makes me lie down, she straddles my head and I have to lick her clean, then she pees in my mouth instead of using the bathroom.

 

Errrrmmm Walking through Ikea, Mistress always makes me carry her hand bag

Mistress picked up a wooden spoon and decided to paddle my ass in public within full view of several women, who giggled at me. she said "now you just remember who is the boss"

It was only a few seconds of paddling but enough to make my face go pretty red.

 

Mistress sent me to see my urologist today for my yearly prostate exam wearing my cage and a pair of vs panties! It was hard to bend over n front of him then be told to drop my shorts down. He said pretty interesting what u have going on there. He went over my psa levels with me. They have droped from 1.7 to 1.2 over the last 3 yrs. The dr asked me what we were doing i told him having strapon sex. He said well i wouldnt stop because its working well!

 

There were some such "worst" humiliations, and each subsequent one turned out to be worse ... of the most memorable:
- once (many years ago) when we broke up for a moment (I betrayed her) and then she let her come back, she set several conditions, including that she would also betray me, but more than once, depending on when I felt that she had enough, in addition, I had to help her in creating a profile on a dating site and act as a secretary on her behalf .. date with guys, write back for her / ask for pics and then show her and she chose with whom she could possibly meet .. and this is how our cuckold journey began (as it turned out I dreamed about her before and she liked it very much)
- another time that stuck in my memory is when we spent (two years ago) a week of vacation at the seaside in the company of her lover .. a lot to tell but I had to be submissive to him in various situations, which was very difficult because by nature I am not like that other people, apart from my wife .. on the beach, I played the role of a friend and he was her boyfriend, they slept in one bed and I slept in a separate room, once she came to me at night and sat on me (on my face) and then told me to clean my semen ..
- recently revealed our secret to her friend when we were on the grill together .. she told her that since I have a cage and no orgasms and she can hang out with other guys it is finally fulfilled and I feel pampered and that she found that having control over my sexuality is fantastic .. my friend laughed saying that she suspected something but still disbelieves .. so her wife proved that I am submissive to her .. she treated me as a toilet next to her friend - she told me to lie down in the garden so that the neighbors could not see, and then she crouched down and pissed right in me mouth (it's already a standard for her, when we grill ourselves in the garden in the summer, that she likes to treat me like that after we eat and she just wants to pee) .. then I had to show my friend in the cage on which she was very amused, she started asking questions and I had to tell her whether I wanted it or not ...

 

I posted this on another thread a while back, but it was the most humiliating event for me. We are friends with another couple in an FLR. We get together about once a month for BBQ and card games. He is almost always dressed completely enfemme in a French maid’s outfit, and I am usually just relegated to panties and a bra. A year ago, we were enjoying each other’s company when his wife asked my Queen what she thought about lesbian sex. Queen responded that in the past she had some experience. It wasn’t her cup of tea, but she did enjoy watching it.

I have to believe that they planned this well in advance because the next thing that happened, I was dressed in a short skirt, blouse, stockings, crotchless panties and lots of make-up. Her husband and I were instructed to sit on the sofa and make out with each other. UGH! Two “lesbians kissing and fondling each other.” Finally, both of our cages were removed and we were challenged to bring each other off. The 1st one to cum was the loser. I guess it had been a while since he had a release, so I was able to quickly jerk him off. Our Queens scooped his cum up with a spoon, fed it to him and then had us kiss, sharing his release. The entire evening was so humiliating.

His Queen suggested that a rematch was needed to even the score. It hasn’t happened, and I hope it never does.

 

I look at it this way... What do you want power for anyway? What are you doing with it that's so fantastic? What does it get you that's better than being held captive and powerless by a dynamic and all powerful Goddess?

Yeah I couldnt think of anything either. Lol

Very cool story by the way!

 

Agreed. Especially about the PTSD. I know she is (sometimes)wrong to be angry with me but I apologise anyway, because I love her and know it is coming from the right place. I forgive her and move on.

 

I'm so addicted, at this point, that if I had all the power, I'd just ask for things to go back to how they are now ...

 

2 events stand out in my mind

the first was Lady K strapped me into a cbt chair with a vibrating buttplug in and had another boy suck my cock as She fucked his ass and ordered me not to cum. After She was finished with him, i was ordered to suck him off and swallow. The She had me kneel in front of Her and jerkoff on Her boots and lick my mess up.

The second one was She sat on my face after She had been cream pied by 3 bulls. i was ordered to clean Her up and jerk off as the bulls jerked off and came on Her and it ran down Her body onto my face.

 

Four summers ago, my late wife was just learning how to enjoy her power in a FLR, and i had been locked up pretty much 24/7 for about 3 months. We were at a pool party on an acreage outside of town hosted by friends we knew through the local BDSM club. I had retreated to a piece of sod on the side of the deck and made like i was relaxing in the sun. Truth be told i was so frustrated by the dozen or so naked, young ladies in the pool i had to get them out of site before my Carrara belt drove me insane. That didn't last long before three beach blankets were laid out beside me and my wife and two other ladies were filling my head with painfully sexy thoughts. Jenn, the hostess of the party turned to me and said, "So Bill, Tat (my wife) tells me you are not exactly an intact male anymore. She says you have been out of commission for 3 months now? I brought up the idea that since you were not really one of the boys anymore, i bet we could make you one of the girls very easy, so after supper we are going to give you a makeover into a sexy lady i know is in you. I cant wait to teach you to walk in heels while cinched in a corset." Then Jenn gasped like she just thought of something important she had to do. She got up and motioned for Tat to follow. I figured they were going to freshen the drinks and hit the bathroom, but when they returned 10 minutes later, Ted (Jenn's S/O and host of the party sat on the towel beside me, and very casually said, "Your wife tells me your getting all girlie'd up after supper. Better make sure they do a good job of your clothes, hair and make up. I dont let ugly girls suck my dick, and you better learn to give head quick if you expect me to ever let you out of that belt. Hope you enjoy my spunk, i have big loads and you will be swallowing lots of them until feel you deserve these keys back." As he got up, he was dangling both keys to my chastity belt off his finger, and my wife was chuckling as she and the other girls got up and left me in shock. Found out over the next few return visits that i do not like the taste of cum, and i found cross-dressing quite humiliating, but my wife liked it very much judging by haw wet she was when she sat on my face and i tried to rinse Ted's spunk from my mouth with her pussy juice. In hindsight i was lucky they took pity on me and let Tat have my keys back after only 9 blowjobs as ted was going out of town for work, even though i didnt get any relief for another 2 weeks after that. Tat and I enjoyed another 15 months together after that before she was taken in a car accident. I would give anything to be that humiliated by someone as wonderful as her again, but i doubt i ever will.

 

My then Owner saw a video online and decided it was worth emulating.
So, once a month, I was unlocked and made to fuck a melon in which a hole had been pre-drilled, on my knees in front of her. She would either stop me before I had an orgasm and lock me back up without one or let me cum in the melon. I was always made to cut the melon and eat the appropriate bits afterwards, cum or no cum. After the first time she told me that was the only way I would be allowed to orgasm from then on. She LOVED it. I was mortified.

 

My wife warned me she was going to announce my tiny penis and crossdressing fetish to everyone , this went on for a few weeks.
After an afternoon of trying different dresses , underwear , heels and chastity cages on and my wife taking pictures on my phone she said pass me your phone I want to look at those pics , a few minutes later she gave me the phone back saying , I've sent today's pics to all your contacts ,,,,,, that was the most humiliation I have ever felt

 

several years ago after cleaning my Queens house naked ,she took me toa thrift store and told me I would dress like a maid while cleaning . she had me try on high heels and walk around the store while she secretly watched from afar. Next she looked at a skirt and blouse , she hung then on the end of a rack so I know to go and try them on. I went to a fitting room and put them on and opened the door a crack , she motioned for me to open it up so she could have a look from 20 feet away . That was my most humilliating experiences . I bought the shoes , but the skirt and blouse my Queen turned down.

 

Wow what a lucky hubby!

 

Does your sister need/want or have her own submissive? It seems like if she doesn’t you’re helping her see the beauty of this lifestyle.

 

My goddess likes to talk about sex with her close female friends. So all her female friends and some job colleagues knows that I’m her sub in chastity.

Sometimes when we are together she makes me explain to them some of my duties, or explain some of my punishments, how she ruins my orgasm or how much time I’be been denied.

Also we live near the beach and sometimes she likes to go to the nude beach and makes me display my cage. She says that I must be proud of my condition as a sub in chastity