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    Sounds like she HAS made the connection. Hopefully she can learn to have fun with it, too (the cage, the control, etc), but agree with the others to go slow. If she ever opens up a little perhaps you can get her to chat with a few of the ladies here or elsewhere who now love it (but again dont push it!)
     
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    Not rambling. Interesting, and close to my thoughts as well. I hope not to make your mistake and be a bad boy, but she is looking after me well enough, and we haven't gone from having no sex. Just as much sex but no masturbating. No toys here either or an expectation. But I too would like to take her with a strapon and don't know how to broach the subject. I think devanillaing is the wrong approach. All we can hope for is better quality vanilla sex and see how it develops. No point pushing it. Maybe I will surprise her on a weekend away one day and just do it. Then maybe I could ask to see what she looks like with it on...who knows what she would do.
     
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    Day 6.
    My cock is beginning to dislike me...but hast fought the steel too much. No waking with painful wood. I think that the cock was taught last time to not bother.
    I need to touch Madame Vanilla a lot more and she likes the attention.
    Just holding hands in bed has the cock twitch.
     
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    Day 7 and my cock and balls are feeling full.
    I dont know if I tell them to just love Madame Vanilla more or if its them telling me.

    After a 2 month interruption here they are all locked away since last week and I marvel at the effect that has on my mind. Its like a switch that makes me into a good loving husband.

    First time around Madame Vanilla released them every 10 days or so for her piv pleasure. So I figure she has conditioned them. Personally Im not sure if shell be so kind now its winter.

    Its me who asked her to lock them up to avoid them playing by themselves. She didnt so much agree to it as she said she had no choice if I couldnt control them.

    Theres no set date for release, no horizon, no perspective.

    Just my good wife's good will.
     
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    Day 8. Geez I havent come in over a week. Ive gotten snuggly in bed and huggly out of it. Im starting to do more chores.

    As I lay in bed next to sleeping Madame I set up a series of past sexual memories with Madame that I can dip my mind into and fantasize over fucking her. That feels a lot better than thinking about other women. What a mind lock the device is.

    Id like to fuck my wife now please...but she hasnt mentioned it. Omg how do I stop thinking about her vagina?
     
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    Have you spoken to her about your limit. Sounds like you need to. I have gone 9 days once so far. It was a long time. L teased and edged during which helped.
     
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    I went 17 days on our first round of chastity this early autumn. Then I lost it on an occasional remark Madame Vanilla made about 'that horrible thing' as she referred to the device despite the transformation it has on making me into a good husband.

    After a release I always drop out for about 3 days.

    So thats the maths. After about a week Ill do anything she requests. So to minimise the drop time I think she should aim for a month though I havent told her that explicitly.But Ill try to get near her snatch everyday from now onwards.

    I had suggested to always keep doubling the release time in order to show her authority. But I am not capable of not coming inside her if she wanted to have piv in between times though some guys here say they get unlocked for piv without coming. Thats why Id like to introduce a fat strapon dildo for her but she is vanilla...

    Ofcourse she likes piv because she likes to feel me inside her and I think she s real proud at making me groan and sqeal and come uncontrollably as she rides me cowgirl. Im not sure about her own pleasure.

    But she hasnt had ANY since our argument 2 months ago.

    So those are the contradictions of life. I could end up waiting till Valentines day and in that case I have no idea on my state of mind. Just as she may decide that SHE wants me to come on friday evening when the tv is poor.

    What is for sure is that my cock and balls are buzzing. My mind is one tracked on touching, hugging, snuggling and fucking my good wife and treating her like a queen. I enjoy every second of her presence. I dont argue and accept her moods as natural.

    It is quite marvellous to feel the love for my wife bubbling in my balls.
     
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    It is a marvelous feeling. I agree about not being able not to come inside her once I'm underway if I haven't come for a few days, but when we had sex twice, this weekend gone, in under 24hrs I lasted long enough to begin to hope she might say "right, lock up!" . She didn't and I came. Have you thought about using numbing cream on the quiet and asking if she minded you using a condom.
    I'm sure you will get things sorted. I think of this as a long game. This is for future me. I feel a lot of the frustration you feel. I think we just have to be patient with our vanilla wives. It is a lot to take on. In many ways we need more careful handling than before, but we hope they see the rewards are worth it. A proven devoted loving husband who never wants to masturbate to porn anymore. PM me anytime mate
     
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    Absolutely love this show of affection and gratitude for your wife. It sounds like you are truly allowing her to do her thing and loving her for it. As another vanilla wife, I am sure even if she doesn't say it. She most likely appreciates the snuggly huggly action happened :)

    Can't wait to follow your journey. Congrats on a great one so far.
     
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    So day 9 spent peacefully in Madame Vanillas company, I drove her to buy some new sports gear. I just FEEL so much love for her when my balls are full.

    I did a tiny cheat when she popped out this afternoon leaving her doorkey on the door as it has my lock key on it...I unlocked after almost a week to give the cock a thorough wash down.
    It felt awful tender and hardened instantly as I scrubbed. I realised that I d have difficulty getting it back into the tube so I made some tea and by the pouring my lil friend had relaxed and I immediately put a sock over his head and pulled him back into the steel and locked up and slipped the keys back on the door.
    I feel like I have a split personality, as I observed what I did in a detached way as if from my penis viewpoint and thought how unfair I had been to let it out of the cage for just 10 minutes after a weeks incarceration.
    More seriously Im going to propose a daytime screaming piv party towards the end of next week before the school breaks up. Madame Vanilla agreed last time to set a date but I screwed up on the day and didnt go and share her shower when she expected me.
    Maybe Im being presumptious, maybe she wants to ride me tomorrow or maybe she wants to wait.
    Maybe I should suggest more than one date...like Christmas and New years and Valentines and then just let her choose one or all. Its for her pleasure afterall.
     
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    Spades, thx for your kind words.:)
    Ofcourse why the affectionate attentionate husband appears when his balls are :lockkey: is one of natures mysteries.
    I am lucky that I can get into bed every night with this woman. :love:
     
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    Day 11 starting...awoke thinking of Madame Vanilla in her new tight dress and tan stockings attached to the nasty black garter belt I bought her. I spooned her before she got out of bed.

    Madame Vanilla's a bit moody this morning.
    With the baubles bubbling away I find myself not annoyed at all but in total agreement with all her gripes. And realise that I should avoid being the cause of any more.

    I'd love to fuck her right now:kiss:. But instead Ill clean the wood stove and vacuum the house.:love:
     
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    All done. Upstairs and down.

    As she stepped out of the shower I knelt before her and just suckled her breast. My whole being just relaxed, except for the prisoner whose tears dripped out of the steel and made a wet patch on my briefs.

    I suggested the piv screaming party for NEXT friday. And she agreed. Stockings and all. It ll be 18 days locked. She told me that Id have to keep up the foot cream massages every evening so that her soles remain supple and dont rip the expensive hosiery.

    After the suckling she would have consented to sex just before lunch today...but I think I had pressured her so I lay off. She is such a lovely wife. I will yet have my cock respect her rather than my hands. For the moment though my cock just wishes to come:lockkey:.
     
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    Day 12...awoke early Saturday morning and we snuggled. I couldnt stop stroking her legs and kissing her back. No vag contact allowed. Just as she started to caressing my nipple we realised that our 11 yr old had slipped into the bedroom...Madame Vanilla instantly snapped into motherhood talking about breakfast etc. and millions of lil sperm inside me cried out that they wanted to be her baby and needed to be inside her.

    But the piv party that I have suggested isnt until Friday next so those critters will be dead by then, flushed out naturally and replaced by their bros. But I can still hear them screaming at me. Some have managed to ooze out of the cock and wet the steel.

    I do believe that I have to gently nudge my good wife along the path of chastity enforcement and enjoying her locked and loving husband.
    She has difficulty in taking her own pleasure, its piv almost exclusively.
     
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    Suggestions of 7 piv screaming parties for 2021:
    Valentines
    Easter hols
    End May marriage anniversary
    Mid July our first date
    End August our child's bday
    Beginning December Madame's bday
    Mid December Christmas

    More or less 6 weeks between each one except for 3 months before Madame s bday.

    I wonder if I should suggest this calendar...then she ll at least project chastity into the future.
     
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    I think it depends when,and if, she wants PIV. Not on a schedule surely? What if she is in the mood when you are supposed to be locked up? Or not feeling it, on or around the proposed dates? Surely a schedule equates to both of you being in chastity, with no room for spontaneity with regards to PIV.
     
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    Oh yes very true.

    But I do feel that she needs nudging. No sex for last 5 years! She took no initiative. And I dont think she masturbates. She says that she only gets in the mood when I GET her in the mood by showing my desire for her.

    So shes a natural keyholder candidate to blocking my bad masturbation habit that tanks any marital desires.

    My thinking is that the calendar is neither restrictive nor binding for her. If she wants more SHE decides, if she doesn’t want it then I will learn to wait longer. Its a party calendar to celebrate the events that are important to her.

    Im allowed to snuggle and cuddle and spoon and suckle as much as I want, and she wants that from me, but she rarely allows me near her snatch. Ultimately SHE decides if I can rev her up.

    (I LOVE HER SNATCH).

    Lastly, Piv is almost a religious celebration for her. She says her utmost desire is to feel me INSIDE her. But I have nudged her into almost always being on top. Ofcourse Id love her to be more domme, but maybe I can nudge her towards being more assertive sexually and generally. She has said that she doesn’t want to give me orders but she does want to make the decisions.
     
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    Like MV, L has never masturbated. I think she feels that men shouldn't need to too. Find other distractions I was told. She did tell me yesterday that she doesn't really get much from being on top
    So we can but it isn't going to be a regular thing if I want her to enjoy it more. I get why you have marked the special events in your life. That is sweet. As for trying to make her more assertive. Personally, I am going to have to just encourage the general assertiveness and hope that she finds she can be more focused on her needs sexually as a result. As for Domme. I think it is either unlikely or it will happen at her own pace. You may have seen from my journal that I'm in the doghouse right now anyway.
     
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    Day 13 started with an hour of me snuggling and then suckling. I unfortunately hurt her teet when I adjusted my pillow....she removed my mouth and I suckled on her shoulder blade. Access to her snatch was barred. My encaged cock dribbled.

    I dont get much access to her luscious aromatic vagina.

    Barring access just makes me fixate more. Yesterday evening in the bath as I lay back dreaming of the pussy taste I found small rubbery bits in the water...In the warm bath I didnt even feel the fluid dribble out...Id say the amount added up to a single spurt...I suppose the balls are wired to expell sperm in any circumstance.

    I have stopped taking my wife for granted, and now treat her like my queen.
     
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    Day 14 starts with a revelation...shes just gone for her morning run and took her door key ring that has my key on it...she beemed while telling me that she was taking both keys with her...realising how "weak" I am.
    I smiled and questioned her on how efficient she considered the device (that she dislikes) and she replied: "YES IT IS...but maybe its not good for you..."
    I reassured her not to worry.
    So my good wife has connected the dots.
    If I convince her that it is totally safe shes a tough cookie and wont be going back. EVER.
    Not sure if Im being so smart. Its not a game for her.

    Ofcourse my cock has been oozing since we snuggled before getting up. Her snatch remains out of bounds.
    Goodness Id like to pound her...though she doesnt allow that, piv is always with her on top controlling the movement and me using my hands and mouth.

    I WANT TO FUCK MY WIFE. PLEASE.
     
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    Hang in there buddy.
     
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    @borbulls1961: what a journey you and your lady and going through. Don't push too hard and keep talking (but I think you're already doing that!) :).
     
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    Thx guys for the encouragements.
    My cock feels like a separate animal today. Almost pitiful as it no longer controls its own destiny. It tells me to be very very nice with Madame Vanilla.
    I have touched the little bit of head behind the front bars of the A272 tube but that’s just a silly idea as it just ensures that my mind bubbles. Maybe I should get a full tube. Worried of the hygiene difficulty with a full tube.
     
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    I know what you mean. I do like the isolation of a full tube, but for me hygiene has always ended up being more rational.
     
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    Geez today Im like on the verge of coming all day long, even when Im doing yard work.
    This mornings conversation has scrambled my control...
     
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