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    #151 borbulls1961, Jan 12, 2021
    Yeah its back on track but sort of derailed in October for over a month and then I reverted to bad habits...and then a funny sort of Christmas week as well.

    I guess its normal to have ups and downs as we get deeper into such an unusual situation. For a super vanilla girl Madame Vanilla is doing well. Ive plucked up the courage to get her a Wand for Valentines next month as she felt discomfort from the supercock last Friday. Not sure whether to get a Hitachi or a cheapo to test her reaction...it ll be her first toy.

    In theory she'll need less cock if she gets satisfaction from a toy. So I too may be a masochist.

    Anybody's girl using a wand? Or a vibe? Dont know what to choose...
     
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    #152 homebody, Jan 12, 2021
    unless you know your wife enjoys vibration I would start with the inexpensive one. My wife dislikes all vibrating toys. I don’t know how universal it is to want them
     
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    #153 NZSenator, Jan 12, 2021
    Mrs Sen has 2 wands, a mantric rechargeable wand (from Lovehoney) and a Doxy mains powered wand (also Lovehoney). She loves them both, the mantric is significantly gentler than the Doxy, with the Doxy wand being very powerful even at low but if she had to pick just one, it'd be the Doxy.

    Wands in general offer deeper more rumble like vibrations than bullet vibes and offer broad cover vibration rather than pinpoint stimulation of a bullet / clit vibe.

    If it were me, I'd go the less powerful one first (in this case, the Mantric), its also a bit smaller and less intimidating than the Doxy, plus with a wand you can use it for general massage also. Wands are also popular for keyholders to use on their men's cages as a means of tease or reward.

    When we first got it, she was very apprehensive about it, but this view quickly changes after the first outing. We usually use the Mantric wand first and then after her first orgasm, break out the Doxy.
     
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    #154 StubHub, Jan 12, 2021
    I bought about every model and type years ago never found any she wanted on her. Even the massage unit did nothing. To each their own.
     
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    #155 LockedPom, Jan 13, 2021
    Sometimes just a cheap Love Egg will do the trick.
     
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    #156 StubHub, Jan 13, 2021
    My Lady just isn't into vibrators. She instructed me to stop trying in my case.
     
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    #157 homebody, Jan 13, 2021
    Same for us.
     
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    #158 StubHub, Jan 13, 2021
    She always been fairly vanilla, has tried things. Some work others discarded. Aging does effect many things.
     
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    #159 borbulls1961, Jan 13, 2021
    Thanks for all the advice. I think Ill get a cheap wand on Amazon to see if shes ok with it before going for the Doxy.
    I once had a partner who told me she only came from vibration. I defied her to try my cock and she almost wrenched it off with her cunt. One of those times that you never forget...
    I once put a vibe on my cock and it did nothing for me.
    So I understand both view points.
     
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    #160 borbulls1961, Jan 13, 2021
    Its day 14 and I feel tingly in the balls horny.

    Out for an errand and the young lady who dealt with me at the Government office was wearing a minidress and almost see thru tights on lovely long legs. There was a bruise on her upper thigh I noticed. I thought to myself that such a pretty young thing (although never got to see behind her mask) must get a lot of service from her lovers so bruising is normal.

    I would have liked to service her in other times...but all that made me think of was pumping Madame Vanilla as hard as I could, hmmm her lovely puss.

    What a wonderful device I have locked on my cock by a wonderful wife.
     
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    #161 borbulls1961, Jan 13, 2021
    Thanks Sen. Its a first toy so Ill go for something inexpensive to start with. Did you get the Doxy after the Mantric or other way?
    Does she use it by herself or with you?
     
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    #162 NZSenator, Jan 13, 2021
    Bought the mantric wand first, looks to be about 60quid from lovehoney UK, but you can normally get discount codes / offers to bring it down to low 40s I would think. Just be aware that two toys in different price brackets can seem to perform the same function, but are likely to perform quite differently. With vibrators, biggest difference is often the frequency of the vibration (buzzy vs rumbly).

    I tend to use them on her most of the time, I don't think she uses toys much by herself (I could be wrong)
     
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    #163 maid julie, Jan 13, 2021
    Got mine the hitachi and she was reluctant to try it. Now it’s the only one she wants
     
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    #164 borbulls1961, Jan 14, 2021
    Day 15...I just want to come so bad that the steel thing is annoying me. Im going to ask Madame Vanilla if she d let me come.

    Funny though, Im hoping she says No!.

    This afternoon she intends to take a long bath and after let me look after her feet.
     
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    #165 Open2njoy, Jan 14, 2021
    Maybe she’ll simply edge you repeatedly until you’re begging her to put you back in chastity. ;)
     
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    #166 Rectrix, Jan 14, 2021
    It's Male Chastity Day, dont ask, rub her feet and stay locked, take it like a man.
     
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    #167 StubHub, Jan 14, 2021
    Wear your cage follow her bidding at her pace if you're interested in growing your relationship and her control and participation.

    Working to develop a relationship for her to be my KH as my willingness to serve her however she wants.
     
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    #168 borbulls1961, Jan 14, 2021
    Geez shes running the bath KNOWING that I have a conference call in 90 minutes... but I just WANT to come. Shes closed the door to the bathroom so she can read her book, without being bothered by a cock in steel. I will go in to have a peep and do her feet afterwards.
     
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    #169 StubHub, Jan 14, 2021
    My lady does not allow taking peeks!
    I do not enter the bathroom when she is in there unless directed. She decides when and what I see of her body and level of dress my eyes are allowed to view of her.

    On the other hand she has full rights to walk in without permission or warning anytime on me. That has been the rules for year's. No change in sight.

    Since she stepped up at xmas with my gift cages and generated hope of her restarting an interest of my chastity. I have been privileged by her giving me more views of her body the past month. Occasionally topless or in panties and bra. More times than the prior couple of years.

    For others all i can say is enjoy what you have. Missing an organism is nothing compared to Missing touch and intimate cuddling or the simple treat to view her wonderful body.
     
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    #170 borbulls1961, Jan 14, 2021
    Ah yeah I barged in and she crossed her legs so I didnt get to see her cunt. OMG shes so beautiful. I want to fuck her, or at least get the steel off and come like a big boy. Please.
     
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    #171 StubHub, Jan 14, 2021
    I have been self chaste for over 3 months since we started reviewing chastity back before Thanksgiving. No masturbation at all despite much desire for release.

    I have had many rounds of leakage especially during the 2 times she has requested massages. The second time when actually put her legs across my stomach for calves and feet created my soaked panties that has me in the doghouse now. The. Future status is in limbo till I return from business travel and she is deciding where I stand with her as to Future on my return.
     
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    #172 borbulls1961, Jan 14, 2021
    If and when she devanillas a bit more then I fully expect to have my gawking curbed. She frowns when she catches me gawking but shes not yet exerting her dominance...but she will in time.

    However shed prefer I gawk at her rather than at some Insta fitties or porn. So dont know which way that will go.
     
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    #173 StubHub, Jan 14, 2021
    Porn is off limits. Pretty much. Currently honor system but she has access to my history log that I must maintain active.

    Would not want to get caught breaking that commandment.

    She has access to this account. What I write she can read. Its available to her.
     
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    #174 borbulls1961, Jan 16, 2021
    I dont know quite what happened on night 16.

    She made a comment about the device that I took badly. So in the middle of the night when my cock strained I crept out of bed, rummaged through her bag to find the key, unlocked with difficulty then rubbed one out.

    I havent told her. She doesn’t even know that the device is off. Don't know what to do.

    I have got her a wand for Valentines.
     
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    #175 Rectrix, Jan 16, 2021
    Ouch. You've only left her two choices if she really cares: severe punishment or total cessation of her role.
     
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