Things you never imagined doing?

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    Seriously though, for me/us, it's not a matter of what we've never dreamed we'd do, it's more about never dreamed we'd want to do. She's queer, and largely asexual, but a sadist, and we've been friends for over 15 years, but never imagined having a kink relationship together and becoming poly with my wife, who is also a long time friend. My wife agreeing to cut me off from piv sex and go with toys instead. The strap-on is one thing, both of us preferring it is another. My Mistress/keyholder never imagined having a male in service to her, especially me. I never imagined preferring being locked, wanting to be denied sex and orgasm as a form of service, or replacing the intensity of sex with bdsm, and wanting that. What we do is kind of secondary.
     
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    have you maneged to shrink your penis ? if so how ? im totaly in the same place as your desires
     
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    Ironing ( pressing clothes)
     
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    It has went from 2.25 soft to 1.25. When I started it was 7 fully erect now after hypnosis for impotence it is 3.75 soft erect.
     
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    Here are mine:
    My cock in a metal cage and the only time it comes off is when my wife wants to use it every 2 weeks.
    Not being able to masturbate in the shower (or anywhere else)
    Wife assuming dominant role in bedroom and my body
    Wife being more aggressive during BDSM, taking me to pain safe word edge
    Having all my body hair removed
    During the summer, only wearing the cage and serving drinks to her and her 2 girl friends at our pool
    Caged for 100 straight days
    Locked in our basement cell for 30 straight days
    Providing her multiple orgasms then being teased and denied
    Being milked for pressure relief
    Flogged and whipped when she needs stress relief
    Being pegged every couple of weeks
    Spitroasted by wife and her girl friend on a regular basis
     
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    where did you get the hypnosis from ?
     
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    dre8car Always Locked and Rarely Cum - Lori 8b

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    I never thought I'd spend so much money and end up with a 4g hole in my penis.
     
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    I never imagined that I had a submisive streak,,,, at least as far as my Lady is concerned
    Even less did I ever imagine that I would like us to develop it.
     
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    Dr MBogo You heard the lady! In you go.....

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    LOL-best answer!
     
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    I already had the hole but I do empathise especially re the money.

    But when you work out the money spent and over what time. some people would over the same time spent more on pretentiously named coffee in paper cups.
     
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    All the things I didn't realize I would ever do have to do with my crossdressing. Over time, however, the line began to shift from innocent to serious things.

    - Sharing my photos on the internet, especially those showing private parts of the body and face.
    - Meeting guys for a known purpose.
    - Sharing my dirty little secret with my wife.
    - Viewing and judging my women's clothes together with my wife.
    - Giving my wife the key to my cage.

    We'll see what the future brings ...
     
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    I never imagined being owned by a Domme. Wearing my cage for so long, denying orgasms for weeks, not being allowed to orgasm without permission first, to have to eat my releases, and to generally put someone else's wishes ahead of mine. It has changed my whole concept of being submissive.
     
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    A recent development for us was mistress having me eat my cum. I honestly didn’t believe that was something she was ever going to be into and it appears as though she really likes it. I imagine this is something we’ll be doing from now on.
     
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    For me it's cum eating, too. Some years ago it would have grossed me out.
    Then once I saw a porn in which it was very appealing to me. I was on denial for some time so I guess this shifted my own border back a little bit.
    I then talked to my girlfriend about eating my own cum and how the thought turns me on and we tried it. I cum in her and needed to lick her afterwards. It is a very different experience when she ruins me in her.
    All in all it is something now what turns me on a lot and I would love to do more often. Wouldn't have thought this would turn me on so much a few years ago.
     
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    I never thought I'd actually be into chastity tbh. The whole idea sounded mad when I first ran into the concept. I thought it was counter to what sex/BDSM are all about.

    Then I thought of the control. I didn't want to do it still because of all the negative accounts I'd heard of people in chastity, but the control element of it was so hot to me.

    Then I came round to the idea eventually. I realised that not everyone into something is into it for the same reasons and therefore the extreme examples I see online are not the only way to do it and with the right person it could be a very fulfilling thing.

    So yeah, at one point chastity was a hard limit for me. I never thought I'd do it. Funny how life sometimes works out the opposite from what you expected.
     
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    Oh please tell...
     
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    Where to start:
    1. Kept in chastity as close to 24/7 as life allows
    2. Be in a chastity device secured with a piercing
    3. Panties all of the time
    4. Trained to serve men and women as a woman would (sucking cock)
    5. Consuming all of my own cum and of course that of any men Mistress deems appropriate

    All of this and more to serve and please my Mistress/Wife and what makes it unimaginable for us is when we met I was Dom and her sub
     
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    Never thought i would be getting a permalock for my cherry keeper
     
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    Ha!! Mostly just hanging out, some stuff involving canes and floggers. I will say though, that as a PSA, if you are going to remove long needles from the head of a penis.....wait until it has gone fully soft, ot it's like an episode of Dexter, and will kill both the mood, and the carpet. We have made this mistake several times over the years, but this was the worst!

    There....not telling the rest!!!
     
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    Wow, that must've been quite a ride.
     
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    Never thought I would want to be in FLR
    never thought I would discover that my Lady has awoken submissive feelings /tendencies I never knew I had
    and never thought I would be discussing my thoughts on me being in permanent denial with my Lady
     
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    I never thought I'd be interested in feminization. I was horrified by the idea, until I was forced to wear my first pair of panties, and I immediately loved it. Not because I wanted to be a girl. In fact, I do enjoy having a penis lol. But the humiliation that comes with it is incredible. Now I own many pairs of panties and am completely over boxers which are oversized for me anyways.

    I used to also be afraid of long term chastity, due to the potential harm it could do to my erection. But later I just came to a sudden realization that I needed to be locked 24/7, and be denied always. My mistress told me that the point of long term chastity for a dick as pathetically small as mine is to maim it and make it impotent. Discomfort and frustration just come with the ultimate goal of castration.

    I thought for the longest time I was gonna be a virgin my entire life, as my dick is too small to plz anyone. So the only means I knew to pleasure myself was masturbation with my right hand, and that lasted from middle school to college. It was only after mistress made me try a pocket pussy that I realized how amazing it felt to fuck, and now I'm locked, I kept dreaming about a warm, wet pussy. Mistress told me that if I be a good sissy slut for her she might some day consider letting my dick taste her pussy, which will not happen for at least another six months but I'm still thrilled.
     
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    Hi! Hypnosis for impotence? How
     
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    Never thought I would get a Prince Albert and know scheduled for a reverse Prince Albert
     
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    i never thought my wife would take to the Dom role like she has. and she is just getting started.
    a open mind and patience on both sides goes a LONG way to finding what works and doesnt.
    i wish i had this conversation with her decades ago.
     
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