I've been a browser of this forum for years. Since I first learned of chastity over 5 years ago and slowly incorporated it into my daily life and relationship, finally making it near constant about 3 years ago. I'm new here but far from new to pretty much any of the kinks I'm into. The advice and wealth of information and experience here is awesome. I'm honestly not sure why I didn't join sooner. While I've pretty much trial and errored my way through the majority of the issues and topics I see alot of on here, and thus primarily have figured out mostly what works for me, I joined because even though chastity and anal has been nearly my entire sex life for years, it has also remained a near total secret I harbor. Perhaps a dozen or less people know anything about it and as I've been in the same steady relationship with my gf for 8 years she's the only one who I've had hands on experience with. She also is the reason other people are slightly aware of it at all. Over the years it has slipped out to a few of her friends and family with her older sister being the most curious and surprisingly interested in it. Aside from those few it is totally secret. Which has unfortunately limited my ability to relate and discuss my sex life. So I'm looking to be able to have some conversations and sociability with people who live similar and have similar experiences. I have no idea how common my kinks are honestly, but if ever there is a place to chat with fellow kinksters I figured this is a great place to join. I consider everyday an opportunity to learn and improve. I hope this is a decent into. I'll end with a big HELLO EVERYONE! My nickname is Shoe or Shoebox.
Hello and welcome! Glad you finally joined the site! I'm sure you will have plenty to offers others with your experiences throughout the years! Cheers -Ransom
Hello and welcome. To be honest, most people keep pretty quiet about their chastity preferences. A dozen peole being aware, even if only vaguely, seems quite a lot to me. Good luck with it, hope your chastity experience continues to go well.
That's definitely my best guess. I've never talked about or told anyone else that I know personally. I agree it is usually kept quiet, but I have no true idea what anyone else knows specifically. The miss and I have talked together about her conversations with a couple of friends and family about it. He sister does those pure romance parties from time to time and I know that with a group of gals like that and plenty of wine; I can only imagine what secrets and kinks of mine slipped.