Chastity as jewelry

Great post @Maddie Mae and amazing pictures! Do you mind to tell which was the beach and resort you visited in Mexico? We both enjoy naturism, and would be an absolute thrill to do it caged if she asks to, an extra plus for me would be the way you did: at your request and for the same reasons as described above. If you prefer to, please reply in a private message. Many thanks in advance!

 

Colleen1986 said: ↑
I wonder if you aren't seeing them on the beach over concerns with sand fouling up the lock or locking mechanism.

Maddie Mae said: ↑
This has not been an issue for us, including no issues with ocean salt water complications.

Good to know!

 

It is the Desire Pearl Resort (Cancun, Mexico).

Keep in mind, it will generate some conversations, but nothing negative. You should be prepared to answer questions from some tipsy curious folks, but that's about it.

 

Never thought of it as jewelry but i going to ask my Mistress/KH if she thinks of it that way and see what her reply is

 

Thanks for the info! I believe the questions may be an extra bonus for the kink levels, didn't they?

 

In my profession I can not wear a ring on my finger.
Last year on one of our strolls through the rally campgrounds we explained exactly what the cage does and symbolizes it as my wedding ring. It just doesn’t encircle my finger

 

You're welcome. Maybe a slight bit, but I don't consider our style of chastity a kink. The conversations are mostly a reassurance that I have control of PK's desires and that others recognize/accept our choice of relationship. I think our "coming out" is what makes me most proud and gives me that tingle of satisfaction. Wouldn't it be wonderful if the practicing chastity (male or female) community made the same gains as the LBGTQ groups. Maybe someday, but realistically not in my lifetime.

 

Using the word 'kink' was not the best one, English is not my mother's language and I do apologise if I used it in an inappropriate way, was not meant to be unrespectful of your relationship. I'm very glad you feel proud and satisfied with it!

 

I did not take the term you used as derogatory, so no apologies necessary. No harm, no foul. I hope you find your beach and expand your adventures.

 

Many thanks! I believe we already did, the (naturist) beach we visited last time should be okay with it. The only question is if she feels that pride you feel in such a way to 'come out' in a public place.

 

Love your post. We admire your courage. Nude and caged on a beach (or any nudist setting) is something we would like to try. Seeing your experience gives us the courage to give it a go sometime. Thank you for sharing your story.

 

Yes, I totally agree. Being in chastity makes me feel better about myself. Still I would like a keyholder but I totally understand what you're saying.

 

I think it is a perfect jewelry! Of course it is not its major purpose, but wearing and showing the cage (showing it to a limited no of people) gives me the same feeling as wearing all other types of submissive jewelry. And a nice tiny cage makes my whole apperance nice and much better than without it

 

I was in the swimming baths changinging room when for the first time anyone noticed and and asked ..."whats that" in reference to the Fort I ws wearing

I told him it was a piece of body jewellery my gf had bought me and I wear it to honour her.

It shut him up.

I do think the aesthetics of the device I'm wearing are important to my Lady and myself too to some extent but I cn't imagine wearing a CD just for the aesthetics

 

I can't say I see 'chastity' as jewellery. The cage perhaps but not the actual process. There is a difference between wanting to wear a piece of jewellery and acting upon the fact of denial by focusing one's sexual attention on their partner. The first activity does not necessarily lead to the second.

In other words, if a man decides to put a cage on and it makes him feel good - and that's the sole purpose of wearing it - there's no 'chastity' play in it because there is no evidence that the man's good feeling will make him actively seek to serve his partner. I'm not saying one excludes the other; I'm saying there is no evidence of a progression from one to the other.

 

it migt be nice to have little jewels stuck on a cage and make it look all glittery.

 

I have thought of mine as jewelry I. The same way I think of cock rings and genital piercings as jewelry. My chastity cage is jewelry that has additional purposes and benefits. I have been locked full time since January 2015 and only feel “naked” if I am not wearing my chastity cages. We have gone to the nude beach many times with me wearing only my cage with no issues. We don’t view male chastity as a kink but as functional jewelry and a personal choice.

 

Me! I liked the look and I think it is a jewellery over genital!

 

I agree “functional jewelry”. I haven’t worn mine just for aesthetics without a KH, I do really like the way it looks. Anytime I’m in the restroom I check it out in the mirror, maybe adjust the skin so it looks nice and even before I put it away. The longer I’m in now and with this question posed, I most likely would continue to wear mine without a KH…but I hope I never have to find out!

 

JEWELRY
To both of us we look at it as jewelry to be worn openly all the time.

 

I love this, this is where I aspire to be. I’ve been locked 24/7 with supervised release only since 3-15-22 I am currently in a cb-curve. Since being on this site and discussing chastity beyond kink with the wife. She has revealed how much she really liked it and the look of it. I also own a nub which I like to wear because it’s less bulky but turns out she doesn’t like the looks of that one. So I was expressing needing a new device for more comfortable daily wear, that is when she really opened up about how she felt about how it made feel to be in charge and how much she liked seeing it. She also told me about the nub, I had no idea she didn’t like it. She desired to see it as a masculine manly cock the she owns. So we shopped around and we both agreed on a “cobra” she ordered it up, can’t wait to get it! This morning before work she had me walk around naked so she could see it. After reading your comment and pondering it, I think it would be the ultimate freedom to be able to walk a nude beach in confidence. Nothing sexual, just personal

 

I just had a vision in my head of what it would look like if it was a “thing” to wear one on a nude beach. It was a vision of guys trying to out do one another with their “chastity flair”
You’ll have “hot rod” style, “classic” style, “steampunk”, lol…my personal fav…a bunch on big ol’ steampunk apparatuses!!! It would be pretty much a “Burning Man” type event!! LMFAO

 

That does create some strange images in the mind.
Like you we both like a more stylized cage over the bland open frame type.
We also enjoy me walking around naked with one of the cages on.

 

Lol, I love it, thanks for the comment!

 

I have seen many memes that portray a fantasy "Chastity Beach" and often thought how wonderful such a place would be. Although most of them lean toward a cuckold theme, a location (resort?) in the Caribbean for chastity minded folks would be a dream come true. Imagine groups of chastity couples enjoying each others company with good conversation, toasting umbrella garnished drinks, and basking nude on lounge chairs in the sand. Maybe a chastity only Caribbean Cruise?