Is there any way for a man locked in chastity to to have his orgasms limited and also build stamina so he will last longer? This seems like it contradicts itself, but I was just curious. Thanks
Through edging. As part of your "teasing" routine, your kh lets you out of your cage for a little bit of time and forces you to edge just below the point of orgasm. Multiple times. Over and over again. It has the joint benefits of keeping you very, very horny. And improving your stamina because you aren't allowed to cum. And you're locked right back in your cage with all of that horniness there, holding on to you.
On the rare occasions when my Keyholder Wife invites me in, i find it's helpful if i remember that i have no expectation to climax. I am just another toy for Her to use. This limits my pleasure, but that really is the point. Just keep thrusting, just keep thrusting... asa
I find after being lock for 4-5 weeks with only teasing and no orgasms, I last a lot longer. I think it's because my Wife(KH) has me trained now to not want to cum. So I try really hard not to. Most of the time I will lose my erection after 15-20 minutes, and when I go soft, my Wife figures I'm done and don't want to cum, so she locks me back up.
For me, the time in chastity only leads to a quicker release. I often cum within minutes, or course this is not PIV climaxes., so there is no disappointment there.
i usually last less than 2 minutes if i stay in chastity for more that 3 weeks... so all the time. Of course, in a normal status, but my last owner pretty quickly started using numbing cream and cumdom. like this i was lasting a over 30 minutes.
If I am drinking that night I can last a few minutes, otherwise I don’t remember the last time I lasted more than a minute and that’s with stopping several times. This doesn’t upset my wife, in fact she rather enjoys the quick finish. Intercourse with me isn’t her source of orgasms, when she wants me to cum she lets me, I finish in a few seconds, and she feels good that I was so excited that I couldn’t contain myself. She doesn’t let me inside in general unless she’s already decided to let me finish. She once had a training game where if I could last 2 minutes I would be allowed to cum, I’ve never made it without having to stop, and she eventually figured it wasn’t going to happen. Ive thought about that numbing cream, but I never know far enough ahead of time that I’m going to be uncaged.
Regrettably, I understand what you mean. I love the long tease. When I first tried to get her started on my chastity, I imagined sessions of edging with her with long build ups to orgasm. That was my fantasy about chastity, and it was what I was expecting. Turns out, she likes making me cum quickly. Without any other stimulation allowed I have become quite sensitive to her every touch. Now I orgasm in under a minute and before I even know it is going to hit me sometimes. I find it extremely humiliating as I have always built my ego around being able to last until she orgasms first. I asked her about this and I was told, “No, I like you like this better. You always took too long to orgasm before.” Back to the original posters question, edging is the way to learn how to prolong orgasm. Without that, you’ll likely be doomed as a premature ejaculator. Regardless which path she picks, it is no longer your choice. Perhaps your best option is to find out what she wants and to help her get you there.
If you think there is a chance for intercourse and not caged, you can put extra numbing gel in condom and wear for hours. Just make sure you rinse it off before using on her. Another strategy is to use lots of Astroglide and you hardly get any friction which makes it take much longer to O.
I find the exact opposite, and if I wait long enough, I get so excited I cum even before getting erect in a matter of seconds
I find the exact opposite, and if I wait long enough, I get so excited I cum even before getting erect in a matter of seconds
It can be frustrating but once you get it over then it’s ok! More a mental thing than physical. At the beginning I had to check with my hand to verify the erection was still there, once I got persuaded myself, things got fine. Nipple pinching works for me too. And numbing cream is now the only way. So she owns me caged or not that way and she likes it!
We tried the condom numbing cream method but being totally numb I couldn't even maintain an erection!