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    #1 Goddessofhomebody, Jan 28, 2020
    Hello, I am the wife of Homebody and his Key Holder. We are enjoying this new end exciting lifestyle as we are becoming empty nesters. It is bringing us closer with intimacy and communication. Our story is in the Journals section titled Locked In Love.

    I would like to become a verified female but I am not sure how to contact the site administrators to do so.
     
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    #2 BunnyAthalus, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome! Your sub speaks extremely highly and wonderfully of his appreciation for you. You must be quite the extraordinaire women
     
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    #3 sissy_connie, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome. I am certain that you will enjoy the site. Contact Lucy for being verified.
     
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    #4 sissy_connie, Jan 28, 2020
    I apologize. I forgot to include the link to the thread. :) https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...ified-female-members.32155/page-3#post-372223
     
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    #5 homebody, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome my love and Keyholder. This adventure we have been on has been mind blowing. I love everything about you and look forward to seeing what the future brings. :love::love::love:
     
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    #6 Goddessofhomebody, Jan 28, 2020
    I love how being your KH has brought us a new level to our sex life and the feeling of being
     
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    #7 Goddessofhomebody, Jan 28, 2020
    My husband is quite the extraordinaire man who loves me very much and our love life is wonderful!
     
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    #8 MissyB, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome to our community.
     
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    #10 Cumschot, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome your highness
     
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    #11 Tamed2019, Jan 28, 2020
    We have the same situation where chastity has improved our intimacy. Looking forward to following your journey as we seem to be fairly new at it.
     
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    #12 Kylara, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome her M'aam, all KH are welcome as their experience, this also helps beginners KH like mine (Mrs Phebusa) to progress in their role.
    Can we know what push you into this lifestyle?
     
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    #13 tvalex, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome to CM. Great to have you here.
     
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    #14 padlocked, Jan 28, 2020
    Welcome! Surely both of you will enjoy being here.
     
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    #15 LesterBallard, Jan 28, 2020
    hello and welcome
     
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    #16 Goddessofhomebody, Jan 29, 2020
    Thank you for welcoming me. How my husband and I started this lifestyle was he first became interested in chastity a couple of years ago and would wear a cage without me knowing. Then we went on a road trip last year and had a nice long conversation about chastity and how he felt about it. Listening to his words and knowing how much he cared for me we have started this new and exciting lifestyle.
     
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    #17 Goddessofhomebody, Jan 29, 2020
    We are fairly new at this also. We are enjoying the excitement of this new journey and making us both very happy. Good luck to you and your loved one.
     
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    #18 Bob Grant, Jan 29, 2020
    what kind of cage do you currently use?
     
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    #19 homebody, Jan 29, 2020
    I am Goddess’s husband. We use an inexpensive metal cage from DHGate.
     
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    #20 Kylara, Jan 30, 2020
    Great, now you are a Verified Female, it may not be a thing to you but for the men around you are now a godess to whom we owe respect and admiration. You are maybe used to or it's new but feel free to try your new power on us.

    All you say and think is interesting and helps us to be better men, especially when we have a vanilla Lady at home who don't understand all their power as KH and women despite a man willing to obey.
     
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    #21 Slave to Wife, Jan 30, 2020
    I am glad for you two as a couple that you, as a woman, are open-minded enough to be OK with being superior to your man and not being hung up on equality. Now, I hope you never allow him to revert back to vanilla.
     
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    #22 madams-sissysub, Jan 31, 2020
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #23 homebody, Feb 1, 2020
    This is GoddessofHomebody's husband. There isn't anything about our relationship that is D/s or Mistress/Slave. We have a great mutual love in a respectful, loving, monogamous, equal relationship. We find that chastity is drawing us closer to each other than ever. It isn't separating us or elevating one over the other. I also hope that we continue on this journey, but I suspect our path will be different than the one you hope for yourself.
     
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    #24 Slave to Wife, Feb 2, 2020
    OK, OK, it's cool. My bad.
     
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    #25 LockedDaddyWolf, Feb 2, 2020
    Well said. You guys are a prime example of why relationships in the BDSM community are called Dynamics. Think about the meaning of the word Dynamic. So many times, I've heard of someone talk about someone else's relationship, calling it a dynamic and then critiquing them because it doesn't fit into a cookie cutter mold of what the person thinks it should be.

    I'm another case where I don't fit the mold. I'm Dom. I want a subby baby girl that wants to let her brat aspect control my chastity. To me, that would be a fun way to let her be bratty, tease me...

    Not all chastity is about FLR's. And, while I love this site and have gotten so much out of the week I've been here, I do see that as an underlying "Theme" around here. Including the Verified Female section.
    I'm a male keyholder, I like to think I would have good info to contribute in those conversations based on my experiences. What about a gay couple where the feminine partner is the one submissive in chastity and the more masculine partner is the Dom? Shouldn't he be allowed in there?

    But, that's all I'm going to say about that. I know I can always take my keys and leave if I don't like it! :)

    I just want to wrap up this post with what I tell a lot of new people in the BDSM lifestyle that ask about relationships and what title means what.
    Labels are for Tupperware in the freezer. Be who you are. Do you, let other's Do them. Be happy and that's all that matters in the end.
     
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