Chastity under chrismas tree

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    #1 curious_margott, Dec 26, 2019
    Hello,

    my name is Margott, im 24 y.o female from Poland, I live with my 30 y.o BF. We've been togehter for a few years now, explored some kinks togehter (including some BDSM, tying eath other up etc), but the chastity topic was never very serious for us. I mean, we both talked about it recently, but I never considered it to be a serious thing .... that is until now, cause my BF presented me a brand new chastity cage as a christmas gift. I was fairly suprised, to be honest, but he claimed it would benefit both of us, and said that I could use some help by joining this forum (which he claims to be lurking for a while, but never have joined).

    So, here I am. Recently gifted a chastitt cage by my BF who's apparently looking to be locked. Hope to chat all the friendly folks round here and possibly gather some useful info.

    Merry Christmas and kinky New Year to all of You :p
     
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    #2 Finnchastity, Dec 26, 2019
    Welcome to the Mansion Margott!
     
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    #3 Chaste J., Dec 26, 2019
    Welcome! May I suggest that you give a try? It could open all sorts of new avenues for you both! I have been kept Chaste by Mrs Chaste for over 6 years now and we wouldn't have it any other way! Don't get discouraged if you have difficulty with a device fitting at first! Every bloke is built slightly differently. Hope you both enjoy it. Have a good read of the forum and don't be shy to ask questions. Make sure you and your boyfriend talk to each other in order to get things right. That means all aspects of chastity! What you both want to get from it and making sure his device is comfortable. There are many of us here who are locked 24/7 and virtually 365 days a year. Have fun.
     
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    #5 curious_margott, Dec 26, 2019
    thank You @Chaste J. I'd certainly give it a try. Hope to chat soon :)
     
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    #6 boi paul, Dec 26, 2019
    Welcome to the Mansion Ma'am
     
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    #7 MissyB, Dec 26, 2019
    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and friendly.
     
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    #8 Alana, Dec 26, 2019
    Welcome,

    I think you will find this to be a very welcoming and informative community. You will also find that most of us are willing to share our experiences if they might help you with yours.
     
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    #9 asastype, Dec 26, 2019
    Welcome to the Mansion, @curious_margott ! I hope You find all the support and information You need here.

    I was so happy and relieved when my Mistress accepted my keys. I'm happy to say that, several years on, She leads our relationship and is glad to be in control of my orgasms. It's helped our relationship and our sex life immensely.

    I wish You joy and success as you start this new chapter!

    asa
     
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    #10 RhiannonT, Dec 27, 2019
    Hi, and welcome
     
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    #11 Rectrix, Dec 27, 2019
    Welcome, Margott, you are so lucky! It takes a lot of courage for a man to admit to his gf that he needs her help to control his erection and that he wants to get closer and more intimate in his relationship with her. It's a wonderful gift he is giving you, he is telling you that knows you will lead your relationship better and that he will be a better be if you take deep control. Lucky you, don't be afraid to lead.
     
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    #12 Cumschot, Dec 27, 2019
    Welkom dame
     
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    #13 Susanstoy91, Dec 27, 2019
    Welcome and enjoy...
     
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    #14 LesterBallard, Dec 27, 2019
    Hello. We have a women's only section where you can get lots of advice from our verified female members
     
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    #15 DavMan, Dec 28, 2019
    Welcome To the mansion and enjoy
     
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    #16 latexbound, Dec 28, 2019
    Welcome to the Mansion, and I guess the lifestyle!
     
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    #17 curious_margott, Dec 28, 2019
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    Thank You. First one for sure, and I'm trying to work out the second thing :)
     
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    #18 Simon Bee, Dec 28, 2019
    Welcome to the forum, Margott!

    Ideally, male chastity should work out like in the graph linked below. It wasn't done by me originally, but I polished a bit few years ago to make it look nicer.

    https://cdno010.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2019/12/59788/bdsmlr-59788-1Gy4SbhdoU.jpg

    As you can see, the photo can be found at my Bdsmlr. It's a refuge of the old NSFW Tumblr users, full of male chastity enthusiasts as well. So you may want to take a look at there, for ideas and inspiration, if you haven't already.

    I run a several blogs there. The most successful of them is dedicated to ruined male orgasms, which seems to be the current big craze, male chastity being the previous one. The idea being, when submissive male is allowed to cum, he wants to enjoy it as little as possible. :)

    https://ruinedfantasies.bdsmlr.com

    All in all, I must say your hubby is a very lucky boy. Most of us into this only dream they could have someone open minded enough, to deny orgasms for them.

    With love, from Finland

    Simon(e)
     
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    #19 herboi, Dec 28, 2019
    Welcome and enjoy, if more women knew of the power at their fingertips with chastity. Lookout world.
     
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    #20 John, Dec 29, 2019
    Welcome and merry Christmas and happy new year to you too. Sure you will love it when you see all the advantages. Just dare to take the control and lead. It’s gonna be a fun ride for both of you
     
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    #21 padlocked, Dec 30, 2019
    Welcome! That's a very nice gift to be used the whole year round! Give it a try, you'll find it useful and very positive building your relationship. The CM community is very friendly and will provide advise for you in this journey. Hope the best for you.
     
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    #22 Guest 1101, Dec 30, 2019
    Enjoy your gift and welcome to the mansion. There are many chastity places online to explore, but so many of them are fantasies posted claiming to be real, and can get so extreme. You will (hopefully) find the people here are honest about chastity.
     
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    #23 Devoted Hubby, Dec 31, 2019
    Hello & welcome
     
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    #24 madams-sissysub, Dec 31, 2019
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion! And I’m sure you will love chastity!
     
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    #25 curious_margott, Jan 1, 2020
    Thank You :) Well, we've given it a try or two already. First day (friday) He was locked for couple hours and unlocked for the night, but I told him to lock back on saturday morning. I wanted to see if He could wear it 24h . The day was okay, but he woke up couple times during the night, so I unlocked him. I let him cum on Sunday night and that would be all until now - we talked about it and wanted to give it another try, so He's locked again.

    Thank You :) I've been lucky enough to meet only friendly and helpful people so far :)
     
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