My wife is going to a rented cottage with a hot tub with some of her girlfriends this weekend. She'll be drinking quite a bit, outdoor hot tubbing in the snow in her swimsuit, or maybe nothing, and quite probably trying weed for the first time in over 2 decades. Meanwhile, I'm going to be at home with the kids, locked in chastity.
Been there done that!-i.e. stayed at home locked with the kids whilst she was with the girls-i remember it being an obvious sign that she was onboard the first time i was left locked whilst she was away so congratulations i guess!-tidy the house!
Unfortunately, it's self locking. She's not onboard, although she does know about it. She's going to know I'm locked while she's there, and maybe with some liquid courage and weed, she'll get horny and start to appreciate the fact that I'm locked while she's away.
We have done this numerous times too where she has left me with the kids to go for a girls' weekend and where she has taken our kids on a trip and left me home alone. Always in chastity. The thing about the girls' weekends that makes it even more interesting for me is that she has a tendency to talk to her close friends about my tiny penis and how it can't satisfy her. So I get to imagine all the things they are saying about my penis and the jokes made at my expense, all of which arouses me and frustrates me me in my cage.
I loved it when my keyholder recently did this. I was required to drop them all off at the airport and had to collect them all again. I recieved a number of photos over the few days of them having so much fun together, including a photo of my keyholder with another guy. That drove me nuts and I had to refocus by polishing my goddesses car again.its truely amazing to be lock especially with her away
Early in our chastity relationship my wife was set to go on one of these trips. After dropping her at the airport I went home. As I knew where the key was I unlocked. I didn't do anything I just wanted to sleep out of the cage as I still struggled with the night time stuff. I had dropped her at the airport around 8. Went home watched a little TV and went to bed. Meanwhile she has one of those nightmare airline experiences where they delay the flight multiple times, board the flight, pull away from the gate and then park while they try to fix something only to be finally let off the plane. So I'm woken by the phone ringing and it's here calling me to come and pick her up. Still sleepy I get in the car and go to get her. On the drive home we mainly talked about her experience, but at one point she reaches across to give my caged package a squeeze and feels there is no cage there. To say she was pissed was an understatement. That was the end of me having any access to a key safety or otherwise.
Tempting, but she's already packed and waiting by the front door to be picked up. I think I'm going to do a ChastiKey lock, since I have the lockbox already...
A good training event, even if it doesn't lead to her being more active with your chastity. The idea will be planted that you're to keep the home and kids while she has the freedom. Who knows what it might turn in to.
Agree. I would only suggest this if she knows about the cage and is already ok with you wearing it. I kept an emergency key (poorly accessible, frozen in ice, in a lock box outside the house, left at work, online Keyholder service, etc) just in case. I taped her key inside her luggage somewhere she might find it. If she found it, it might lead to a conversation. If not, you will at least need to wait until she gets back.
When I’m out with my girls from university my husband always has to stay locked. Even when we’re not in a chastity phase he has to put on his device. It’s like a ritual like put on makeup or put on the go to party high heels. I like it when he is waiting for me like a little puppy after a weekend, a businesstrip or a night out.
Sorry for the delay in updating. Got busy, and some medical issues with a family member have kept me offline for a bit. Anyway, she had a great time, did try the weed (edibles), and I was locked most of the weekend. My ChastiKey lock ended on Saturday night, and I selected 50/50, kind of hoping that it would reset the lock and start again, but it gave me the combo. Anyway, when she got back, we did end up having a good conversation about kink, and my need for more than just vanilla missionary position, which she'd be happy with exclusively, were it up to her. She's realized that we need to do more than that, and we've agreed to try something kinkier about once a month, so maybe some chastity with her as KH is in my future after all. Stag
Glad it turned out well for you. Hearing that she is more receptive to chastity play is great. Have fun.