Once I convinced her to lock me up and take charge of what we do and when, I am learning she really isn't interested in sex more than about once every three weeks. Cuddle = every day Tease = every other day Kisses = whenever Back arching orgasm = 1-2 month. Before chastity I would have never known this because I would have initiated and she would have gone along with it. Now she is comfortable saying no and going at HER pace.
My wife is the same way, only there is no teasing or cuddling. She is just happy to keep my locked up so I cant masterbate.
Y'alls new found awareness is terrific! Her knowing your orgasmic clock ticks faster than Hers - makes me curious ... - Does She enjoy making you wait? - Does She enjoy that you can't do anything about it except wait?
Meh... she enjoys making me happy. She gets that making me wait, makes me happy. I think she enjoys the options she's afforded to get what she wants without the messy clean up.