I am brand new to chastity. My fiance just told me he is into chastity and after the initial shock I thought I should really learn about it before I passed judgement one way or the other. I personally have never been locked in anything and have no desire to do so. And I really don't understand why it is so exciting to him, which it appears to be. So I am here just to learn and ask questions. I hope they are not too dumb, if so apologize.
Welcome to the site. I would suggest you read these two posts: https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/do-i-have-to-be-kinky-to-do-chastity.29669/ https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/does-chastity-benefit-women.29101/ Also, don't hesitate to ask anything. There are literally no dumb questions.
Welcome! There are several ladies here who enjoy male chastity, we'd be happy to answer your questions <3
After some serious angst about emergency situations concerning needing to get out of the cage my wife has gone full on control mode on me. My fetish is now her fetish and I don’t think she’d be happy with me swinging clear anymore. So be patient. Talk to some of the ladies in here and I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised
Welcome to cm My wife Dom kh was same way and she has taken to this and now likes it. She is growing to be open and like all things. I can say for us it’s made our overall relationship better! It took some time to get her to kinda even be into any kink or bdsm stuff but when she opened up it made her feel better to and being open and doing more together is def a huge plus
Welcome to the site and to unique and real insight into the minds of men who want out of society's false alpha box. Talk to him, a lot, and eventually he'll tell you he wants you to lead and that he wants to move on from masturbating and be more in tune with your relationship and reach a greater level of intimacy. Get Verified and talk to the keyholder's here too, and they'll help you get comfortable and accept his key.
Welcome. My wife was much the same when I bought up Chastity! But she happy to explore it with me. 5 years on and I am locked 24/7, 364.5! She loves it and the different ways she gets her pleasure. Take your time and keep talking to each other. Chastity lifestyle just evolves and changes as you go along. Enjoy.